The Chapel )11 that recognizes each family's individual needs. 'A Terrible Tragedy' I Ronelle Grier paperwork:' said uncle Gregg Lane, who lives in Texas. "He was focused; he was planning the rest of his life. arett Ross Ettinger, 19, died This was a tragic accident" Dec. 9, 2005, in his "Jarett was a beautiful human Farmington Hills home. He being," said his father, Mark Ettinger was found in his bed- of Farmington Hills. "He room by his mother, was beloved by many Valerie Lane, when she people; but he had came home from work. demons, and they led Jarett had taken an him astray This was a overdose of heroin terrible tragedy that sometime between 2 shouldn't have hap- and 6 p.m., she said. pened." Valerie says that her "He was a good son had not used drugs friend and alivonderful for the past nine son," said Valerie. "He months, following legal Jarett Etti nger wanted to be a drug problems that resulted counselor, to help other in daily mandatory drug testing. He people. The most important thing that had been participating in a recovery can come from his death is that program and doing community serv- maybe someone else will reach out for ice work for the Friendship House in help; maybe it will save another par- West Blooinfield, which provides sup- ent from the pain of having to bury port for Jewish people who are strug- their own child." gling with various kinds of addiction. Jarett Ross Ettinger is survived by He was planning to return to Oakland his mother, Valerie Lane; father, Mark Community College in January. Ettinger; sister, Lauren Ettinger; "Jarett assured me many times that grandmother, Dorothy Henschel of this wouled never happen to him',' Farmington Hills; uncles, Richard said his mother. "He really wanted to (Mary Jo) Sanders of California, Gregg stay straight, but I knew he was strug- (Melaudy) Lane of Texas, Judd gling." (Shelley) Ettinger of New York. Jarett is remembered by family Interment was at Adat Shalom members and friends as kind, sensi- Memorial Park. Contributions may be tive and loving — someone who was made to the Friendship House, 6890 always willing to help others. . W Maple Road, West Bloomfield, MI "What really touched me was being 48322. Arrangements by Dorfman in his room and seeing his school Chapel. ❑ Special to the Jewish News j Zalman Goldwasser, Yosef Goldwasser, Reva Goldwasser, Liba Goldwasser, Yitzhak Goldwasser. Contributions may be made to a charity of one's choice. Interment at Hebrew Memorial Park. Arrangements by Hebrew Memorial Chapel. ARLENE BURNS, 80, of West Bloomfield, died Dec. 9, 2005. She is survived by,her beloved hus- band, Max Burns; son, Michael Burns. and fiancee, Louise Wannier of • Pasadena, Calif.; daughters and son- in-law, Risa Burns and Ron Stern of Burns Sudbury, Mass., Susan Burns of Cinncinati, Ohio; sister and brother-in-law, Miriam and William Konstantin of Oak Park; grandchildren, Jacob Stern and Daniel Stern. She was the dear sister of the late Sally and the late Arnold Rodin. Interment at Clover Hill Park Cemetery. Contributions may be made to the Detroit Friends of Alyti Hospital, P.O. BOx 250573, West Bloomfield, MI 48325; Women's American ORT, 6735 Telegraph Road, Ste. 150, Bloomfield Hills, MI 48301; or to the American Heart Association, 3816 Paysphere Circle, Chicago, IL 60674. Arrangements by Dorfman Chapel. MARSHA (HIRSCH) CUMMINS, 67, former Detroiter of New York, died Oct. 8, 2005. Before moving to New York, she Obituaries on page 108 Our hear t felt condolences to the families we have served. We serve the entire Jewish community by bringing together our rich traditions with customized, sensitive services. SHEYNDLYA REZNIK Rabbi: David Nelson of Congregation Beth Shalom Hebrew Memorial Park Cemetery BEVERLY HERSH Rabbi: Elliott Pachter of B'nai Moshe Synagogue Oakview Cemetery SHIRLEY BRESLER Rabbi: Harold Loss of Temple Israel Machpelah Cemetery Associated with all cemeteries. NATHAN BARNETT Rabbi: Daniel Nevins of Adat Shalom Synagogue Hebrew Memorial Park Cemetery Please call us at: (248) 543-1622 ETHEL MANDEL Rabbi: Joseph Krakoff of Shaarey Zedek Synagogue Cantor: Chaim Najman of Shaarey Zedek Synagogue Hebrew Memorial Park Cemetery Outside Michigan at: 1-800-736-5033 26640 Greenfield Road Oak Park, Michigan 48237 SARAH E. SILVER Rabbi: Harold Loss of Temple Israel Adat Shalom Memorial Park Cemetery MEM TAKv ARM NW MMUS= IMMINIKTAIMMENII Rabbi Boruch E. Levin Robert H. Bodzin Executive Director, H.B.S. Funeral Director nmt 5a7 ncrt Asher T. Tatelbaum Funeral Coordinator threw Memorial Chapel Mark E. Klinger Funeral Director From Generation to Generation , viN December 15 • 2005 107