fs) From Dark Shadows Shabbat Vayetze: Genesis 28:10-32:3; Hosea 12:13-14:10. day They can express grati- acob, for the first tude then, but theirs is not the time in his life, assurance that remains when had left his all else is gone. parental roof. Taking the An Austrian playwright wanderer's staff in his once declared: "We know of hand, he was journeying some very religious people to a doubtful haven of who came to doubt God when refuge. a great misfortune befell Rabbi Irwin How dark everything them, but we have never yet Groner seemed to him is seen anyone who lost his faith Special to the expressed by the words of becatise an undeserved for- Jewish News the Midrash,"The whole tune fell to his lot:' world became like a wall In the story of Jacob's dream, we before him." Troubles closed in on him learn that to pray in the dark means from every side. Jacob, reclining on a hard stone, was we-are saddened but not broken by life's afflictions. What should one pray in.a state of profound anxiety about for at such a time? the future. And yet, in the midst of his First, for strength. We can draw out distress, he found faith and saw "the of our depths powers untapped and Gate of Heaven." sometimes even unknown. We are Jacob is each of us. Who in his per- stronger than we think. We can mobi- sonal life- has not known sorrow or lize our deepest reserves rather than frustration? Upon whom has eventide surrender to self pity. not cast its shadows? Who has not Second, we pray for the capacity to lived for a period in the midst of dark- transform our sorrow into sources of ness? - greater sensitivity and helpfulness. Upon every life there: Some make of sorrow a prison and enclose themselves within it. Our sor- will come a time rows should become a bridge to the pain of others, enabling us to grow in when the shadows understanding and humanity. We should pray for the breadth of view will lengthen and the that will redeem our grief of anger darkness will gather. and cleank it of rebellion. Upon every life there will come a Blessed is he who has time when the shadows will lengthen and the darkness will gather. Blessed taught himself to is he who has taught himself to pray pray in the dark. in the dark. In the midst of travail, he will find faith; and he will be granted wisdom and compassion. - Centuries later, when the Jewish Out of his pain, he may yet see, as people witnessed the destruction of their Sanctuary, the desolation of their did Jacob, a glimpse of future great- ness. ❑ land and the death of their dear ones, they too became exiles, and endured Irwin Groner is rabbi emeritus of Congre- that fate for a millennium. But the last gation Shaarey Zedek in Southfield. word was not futility. In the darkness, they built synagogues; they studied Torah; they clung to belief. How Conversations strange it must have seemed to those The Jewish people have often who reckoned only with events and been called dreamers. Point to circumstances that a people who can some accomplishments that pray at eventide would never be came about because we had the defeated. faith to "dream." There are people who can only pray in the noon brightness of the sunlit ji STS wN6 and AWD IN STOCK and READY FOR DELIVERY AUDETTE 7100 Orchard Lake Rd., West Bloomfield Mon. & Thurs. til 9, Tues., Wed., Fri. till 6; OPEN SAT. 10 am - 4 pm THROUGH BREAK 248-851-7200 www.audettecadillac.com *S3643 due at signing on CTS. S3941 due at signing on DTS. S4387 due at signing on STS. Plus tax. title and license. Must qualify for S.A. B or C tier credit. 36 mos. 10k mi per year. must qualify for GMS. , A Distinctive Collection of Shops • and Services Telegraph at Maple fi 1056500 December 8 • 2005 27