Medicare beneficiaries: More options from the name you TRUST. to start, he's ready to start. We got that straightened out in a hurry. Needless to say, for our second daughter's baby naming, my par- ents were prompt. Over the years, we have estab- lished a tradition with our par-. ents of helping with each other's holidays. My wife's parents obvi- ously didn't need any coaching in Judaism. To a great degree, they already know a lot about my Christian holidays and rituals. (In America, it's hard for anyone not to know.) That didn't mean that we didn't have to explain our family's game plan, though. They wanted to know what to do when Christmas and Easter came around. Like my wife and daugh-, ters, they do not observe my holi- days, but they are very happy to help me celebrate them. For example, when we visit my in-laws in Boston for Passover, we are usually there during my holiday of Good Friday. It is not uncommon for one or both of my wife's parents to go to church with me to keep me company. When I see them sitting there beside me, I can't help but reflect on how far we have come in our comfort levels with each other. (One more thing to thank God for while I'm there.) Likewise, when a Jewish holi- day comes up, my parents are now very excited to help my wife and daughters celebrate. My mom and dad, sister, brother and their families all look forward to our annual Chanukah party. We make latkes, sing "Maoz Tzur" and spin dreidels for Jelly Bellies. Comfort and acceptance don't always come instantly. You must be patient. Know ahead of time that parents may be reluctant and confused. Don't get frustrat- ed; keep coaching them. Even after 14 years of marriage, I still have to remind my dad that one doesn't say, "Happy Yom Kippur." They eventually catch on. 0 Jim Keen is author of the book "Inside Intermarriage: A Christian Partner's Perspective on Raising a Jewish Family" (URJ Press, forth- coming) and a contributor to the book 'The Guide to the Jewish Interfaith Family Life: an InterfaithFamily.corn Handbook" (Jewish Lights Publishing). He is a columnist for InterfaithFamily.com . His e-mail address is jckeen@umich.edu. 3-County HMO Starting at Henry Ford Network This plan combines the strength of HAP's HMO with the experience of the Henry Ford Health System.This plan offers Medicare + Medigap + Prescription Drug Coverage all in one plan for residents of Oakland, Macomb and Wayne counties. The Henry Ford Network includes four Henry Ford hospitals and 23 medical centers. With Prescription Coverage 9-County HMO $2110 Basic& $50/mo Starting at Expanded Network Add the power and security of HAP's trusted HMO to get your Medicare + Medigap .+ Prescieiption Drug Coverage all in one plan. And, with our extended nine-county network that includes 36 hospitals and more than 3,500 physicians located throughout southeast Michigan, you have an even greater choice of doctors close to home. With Prescription Coverage 9-County PPO* $6 Basic& $98/mo 5mo Enhanced &c $117/mo Starting at Expanded Network HAP's affiliate, Alliance Health and Life Insurance Company, brings a flexible PPO to provide Medicare + Medigap + Prescription Drug Coverage all in one plan backed by our experienced, local customer service team.You'll have the freedom to choose any provider without a referral. With Prescription Coverage Enhanced &c $70/mo. $80,mo Basic& $113/mo Enhanced& $132/mo HAP's Medicare Advantage brings it all together... Medicare + Medigap + Prescription Drug Coverage all in one plan! Medicare powered b y Prescription Drug Coverage Health Alliance Plan (HAP) and Alliance Health and Life Insurance Company each have a Medicare contract with the federal government. To take advantage of these plans, you must continue to pay your Medicare Part B Premium. Call now to find the plan that's right for you. 1-800-971-7878, TTY TD 1-313-664-8000 *PPO is a product of Alliance Health and Life Insurance Company, a wholly owned subsidiary of Health Alliance Plan. PPO is powered by HAP. H2312.H2322 525NP.06 rev1 104322 December 1 • 2005 29