Something Extra NOTEBOOK The Musical Fruit and soy milk are great eans. Beans. The ' contributors to those musical fruit. The who are lactose intoler- more you eat ..." ant or who are trying to Well, you know the rest, get a beneficial substi- and that is the summa- tute for red-meat pro- tion of the life of the tein. bean. Much maligned Where would many of and yet an integral part us be without the coffee of our lives. Sy M anello bean and its resultant The bean as a singular Edit orial beverage that gets us noun occurs 445 times Assi stant through Mondays, to say in 100 million words and nothing of the rest of the as a last name, 17,000 times per 100 million persons; in week? Can you.even imagine a Thanksgiving dinner without the the U.S.A., it ranks 713 in family requisite green bean casserole? names. And what would movie All this aside, the bean figures munchers do without jellybeans, in our diets, in our valuing of things, in our describing life hap- which are not true beans; but I'll penings and in daily expressions. take candy wherever I find it, As a food, the bean contributes thank you very much. Because of its being perceived a lot to menu items, especially as a lowly vegetable, the bean has those made from soybeans. Tofu B come to be equated with low value. If something is trifling it many be "not worth a hill of beans" — or bubkes in Yiddish. If you are uninformed, it may be you "don't know beans about that." However, if you are seen to be filled with energy and get-go, you may be described as being "full of beans." However, if you are devoted to detail, you may be identified as a "bean counter!' Use Your Bean And it is interesting that there are several associations with the brain and head. To urge someone to really think out a problem, we may urge him to "Use your bean." In baseball, a ball thrown at someone's head may be seen as an attempt to "bean him." Rabin Remembered On Nov. 4, 1995, Israeli Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin was assassinated by an Israeli Jew hoping to stop the peace process begun in Oslo, Norway. What do you remember about the assassination, and what do you make of its impact — on the Mideast peace process, on Israeli society, on Israeli politics, on American Jews, on you — 10 years later? Please send your thoughts — 100 words or less — for publication or posting on the JNOnline Web site to kcohen@thejewishnews.com by Sunday, Oct. 30. Please include where you live and a daytime phone number. For Pregnancy Loss And Infertility For those touched by the loss of a baby as well as those seeking to build a family, "Hannah's Sisters" hopes to provide options, answers and support. "We are not untouched by these kinds of tragedies and need to bring them out to the forefront:' said Gina Horwitz of West Bloomfield, one of the co-chairs. "There are people still hurting years after. There's a whole learning curve out there. People in the community need help and JFS wants to be there for them." Jewish Family Service of Metropolitan Detroit is sponsoring the daylong workshop, from 10 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 13, on infertility and perinatal loss at its Graham & Sally Orley and Joseph & Suzanne Orley Building, 6555 W. Maple in West Bloomfield. Keynote addresses will come from Rabbi Michael Gold of Tamarac, Fla., author of Hannah Wept: Infertility, Adoption and the Jewish Couple, and Debra Nussbaum Cohen, who covers Jewish life for the New York Jewish Week and has contributed to a Jewish book on infertility and pregnancy loss. Both will address spiritual needs, and the rabbi will discuss where God is in this process as well as Judaism's human approach to infertility and Jewish views of treatments and options for family building. Breakout session topics will range from "Medical Approaches to Family Building" to "Couples Yoga" and "Moving Beyond Loss." There is an $18 charge, which includes workshop materials, a kosher buffet lunch and refreshments. Carol Sue Coden, Gina Horwitz and Diane Orley are event co-chairs. The Jewish Women's Foundation has underwritten the event, with additional support from Say-On Drugs, Ferring Pharmaceuticals and the Adat Shalom Sisterhood. For reservations or more information, contact Rachel Yoskowitz at JFS, (248) 592-2324, or e-mail ryoskowitz@jfsdetroit.org. — Keri Guten Cohen, story development editor nc I October 27 - 2005 Also, note the times that a non- Jew made inquiries about your kippah (skullcap), describing it as a "beanie." For something so "unimpor- tant," the bean figures promi- nently in daily talk. If you want to get someone to give you all the details or relay a juicy bit of gos- sip, you might urge that person to "spill the beans!' If that person happens to be very tall and thin, he might be described as a "beanpole Being tall would pre- clude him from being very com- fortable in a "beanbag chair:' but his reach might make him a win- ner at the game of "beanbag toss." Speaking of games, does any- one remember playing with "Mexican jumping beans"? (These were not actually beans but little capsules that had some kind of larvae that was activated by the warmth of the human hand.) Did you know that "Every bean has its black"? This expression apparently means that everyone has his faults. And if you know someone who has "found the bean in the cake" has done some- thing the equivalent of winning the lottery. This would then allow him to go on a vacation to "Bean Town" (Boston). Well, maybe you say "Fazole" (Czech) or "Faven" (Cornish) or "Babarrun" (Basque) or "Boon" (Dutch); you still refer to the bean. You may even offer "ean- bay", which is bean in Pig Latin and not to be confused with e- Bay, where you could buy some- thing for beans. What a gas! ❑ Donate Halloween Candy So your kids came home with a Halloween haul. There's so much candy they'll never be able to eat a fraction of it. Well, don't throw it out. Give it to the "Candy Lady" who will distribute it to more than 200 boys living at the Maxey Boys' Training School in Whitmore Lake. Without the help of Joy and Lou Landau of Oak Park, these boys would miss out on the childhood pleasure of Halloween. For 45 years, the couple has collected donated Halloween candy and inspected each piece before sending it to the Maxey school. It's a win-win situation all around. The boys enjoy the candy; parents keep their children from overdoing the sweets; and the children learn about tzedakah and giving unselfishly to others. The Landaus are collecting candy through Nov. 16. Make it a project for your PTA, Scouts, neighborhoods or schools. Drop the candy at their home, 24231 Gardner in Oak Park, between Coolidge and Greenfield, south of 10 Mile. For information, call the Landaus at (248) 541-6884. — Keri Guten Cohen, story development editor IlLEMET 'cha Don't Know "Dayenu," a famous song sung at the Passover seder, means "it would have been sufficient." Italian Jews use the term to describe something else related to the holi- day. What? — Goldfein „muaitep„ peva sj! :u!. !m upreol_T ua)ioNo Liezlew 40 spa's pm &laps upetisnes pue luepw.ns a GAJOS SMOG ueuell :siamuy 13