Photo by Kevin Westen berg Arts & Entertainmen Catch the folk-pop singer — looking toward the future through her cat-eye glasses at the Ark in Ann Arbor. Lisa Loeb: "I wanted to find out what it all really means, instead of just going through the motions," she says of her explo- ration of Judaism. Naomi Pfefferman Jewish Journal of Greater Los Angeles hen songstress Lisa Loeb is on the stage, oftentimes her thoughts wan- der to ... Bill Cosby. "I've met him once or twice, and I've found him to be such an inspiration. He sees the humanity and humor in things in everyday life,' says the 37-year-old famously bespecta- cled Loeb. "He reminds me that having your own perspective is what makes you unique. He tells about ordinary things, but tells them from his perspective' This is something Loeb can relate to. A storyteller who happens to spin her yarns into lovely, lilting folk-pop songs, Loeb began her musical career in an everyday fashion: Her debut performance was in You're a Good Man, IN October 6 . 2005 Charlie Brown at the Jewish Community Center in her native Dallas. By 1993, she was temping by day and working New York clubs by night, all without a manag- er or a record deal. But she did have a famous fan, the actor Ethan Hawke, who lived across the street from her Greenwich Village apart- ment (he used to call down to her from his second-floor window). When the fetchingly rumpled actor suggest- ed Loeb's ballad "Stay (I Missed You)" for the soundtrack of his 1994 Gen-X flick, Reality Bites, the singer suddenly found herself shar- ing album space with U2. She also starred in a coy music video, directed by Hawke, which appealed to MTV viewers burned out on gloomy grunge rock. Loeb became the first unsigned artist to have a No. 1 single, making her one of the first female folk-rock musicians to emerge in a trend that would later include Jewel and Alanis Morrisette. Six major record labels vied for her services; a Grammy nomination ensued. "It was a bit overwhelming; concedes Loeb, who also had to deal with critics who ques- tioned whether she was a one-hit wonder. "Some of my friends and family thought I was changing, but I was just busy. I was managing myself, as well as [doing] just basic things, like making sure my hair looked good on TV' But this is one part of a distinct duality to Loeb — and it's not just the contrast between her perky, retro-'60s look and her melancholy lyrics about ambivalent lovers. She's cerebral and girlish and witty. She's a pop-culture diva who loves opera and has a comparative liter- ature degree from Brown University in Providence, R.I. Sweet & Loeb on page 54 51