Letters Letters continued from page 6 Let Public Speak Response Too Slow I wholeheartedly agree with Robert Sklar's Editor's Notebook "Hear the People" (Sept. 15, page 5). Community members need to be heard, not just those privileged few who happen to be on the Jewish Community Council board. Community members should not be restricted and voices should not be stilled. Since the Jewish Community Council of Metropoli- tan Detroit is funded by Federa- tion dollars, community members have a right to attend meetings and public comment should be allowed as part of the agenda. The JCCouncil should be open- minded enough to get over any general concerns as a result of guest attendance. In response to the letter "Embrace Of Farrakhan" by Wendy Wagen- heim, president of the Jewish Community Council (Sept. 15, page 6), I am extremely disap- pointed the Jewish Community Council, the "public affairs voice of the Jewish community,' did not make an immediate public state- ment condemning the mayor of Detroit for his support in the city's honoring of the Rev. Louis Far- rakhan (Editor's Notebook,"Snub- bing Detroit Jewry,' Sept., 1, page 5). Not responding swiftly validates the mayor's and city's support of Rev. Farrakhan. Where is our lead- ership? I understand that "building bridges" is important, but isn't it time to stand up for ourselves? Mary Jo Rosen A Mayerson West Bloomfield Orchard Lake Need Not Apologize I read with great interest Robert Sklar's Editor's Notebook on Walid Shoebat ("Silence Not Golden',' Sept. 22, page 5). There is a big difference between taking a stand for what you are and who you are, and offending someone when it comes to religion and heritage. I remember I used to cringe when people asked if I was a Christian because it comes with so many negative connotations due to the many false teachers and hustlers that claim to be a part of Christianity. But then one day I asked myself, "Why am I apologizing for believing what I do and taking a stand for it?" From that day for- ward, I vowed never to apologize for my heritage or my religion. And Jews should do the same thing. Take a stand — don't worry about offending anyone. WALK C,URF DIARrTP: Fighting Diabetes Elizabeth, 15, Rebecca, 9, and Randi Traison, 7 8 We would like to thank the IN for publishing the story about the Traision family's quest to find a cure for diabetes (Doer Profile, Sept. 8, page 15). With the publici- ty we obtained and hard work by our whole extended family, Team Traison has collected more than $8,000 in donations for Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation. We would like to say todah rabah to everyone who con- tributed to our campaign: family, friends, teachers and classmates of our daughters at Hillel Day School and the Jewish Academy in Metro Detroit. This will continue to be an ongoing battle in our family until a cure is found. Janice, Steve, Liz, Rebecca and Randi Traison West Bloomfield Like Shoebat said, "Have some pride in being a Jew" Franklin Dohanyos Royal Oak Right To Speak Out Diaspora Jews do not have the right to "say what Israel does is right or wrong." Americans do have a right because in the post 9-11 world the global community is con- nected like never before. The "New World Order" is one where terrorists attack one country based on another country's actions. Thus the Gaza withdrawal has been a catalyst for a resurgence of terrorism in Iraq and around the world, including the London bombings and the Jordanian attack on U.S. Navy ships. The Israeli claim that Israel left Gaza with "their heads held high" ("After 38 Years:' Sept. 15, page 31) is a sign Israelies have lost the will to combat terrorism. Israelies like to blame interna- tional pressure but, in reality, instead of fighting terror, Israel is deluding itself by labeling appeasement policies a "sign of strength:' Israel's weak and inconsistent response to terror is an example of how terrorists successfully destabilize Western nations by wearing them down until they lose all sense of how to defend themselves. As long as Jewish publications like the Jewish News endorse Israel's suicidal policies ("Israel's Chips On The Table," Sept. 15, page 73) terrorists will seek to emulate the Palestinians success by using their primary strategic weapon, namely suicide bomb- ings. If we really wish to honor Simon Wiesenthal's memory, we should remember that Nazis became a global power due to Western appeasement. When Israel ceases the appeasement policies of the Clinton administration, Israelies and American Jews will be much safer. Marc Baker Birmingham A Parents' Love Shabbat shalom, Neshama's voice sings out, as she stands in her crib in the early morning light in Israel. She is in a new stone structure, a rectangular building squatting on the sands of the Judean hills. Her 2-year- old heart is filled with happy anticipation. I wonder, curious- ly, why? "Cha-lah," she adamantly explains. Her day begins as she climbs up a chair in the tiny kitchen to help Ima (Mother) combine ingredients into the bread machine to create a whole-wheat challah to be served this evening. I watch the many preparations during the day and see Neshama's excite- ment as she calls out, "Abba's [Father's] coming." For her, Shabbat is feeling more than knowing. She will feel the privilege of tasting wine spiked with grape juice. She will feel the sense of accomplishment as she stuffs her mouth with challah and Abba compliments her on its good taste. She will feel secure as Abba's large hands enfold her curls as he blesses her. Tomorrow, she will sit on Abba's lap among the praying men and she will kiss the Torah and Abba will kiss her. Later Ima and Abba will put on a puppet show. The parshah for this day is about justice and HaShem will save Minnie Mouse who has been unjustly convicted. The most special part of the day is after Havdalah when Aba sweeps her up, her legs curled around his waist, her head flung back with hair flying; and they whirl and dance and laugh. I understand the wonder of Shabbat for Neshama — for as she goes to bed, she is wrapped in the best feeling of all, the all- encompassing feeling of uncon- ditional parental love. Geraldine Spilman Orchard Lake Editor's Note: Mrs. Spilman is Neshama's grandmother. The child's parents are Sarah and Doron Spilman, who also have an 8-month-old son. The family lives in Maale Adumim outside Jerusalem. September 29 2005