at the airport. He was one of the lucky ones, capable of hard physical labor and thus was not sent to certain death. My mother worked as a housekeeper for the notorious Obersturmenfuhrer Goeke, the commander of the ghetto who ordered the deaths of tens of thousands of Jews. From a win- dow in his house, my mother was forced to watch the "Children's Action," when the young children of the ghetto were thrown into trucks by the Nazis to be slaughtered. In July 1944, my mother met a guard who said the Russians were on the brink of entering Kovno. He said the Nazis planned to liquidate the ghetto by burning it to the ground, with Jews inside the burning build- ings. He would allow her to escape if she would meet him on a date at the Café Conrad. My mother agreed, as long as she could take her "family" with her. Her family had been killed at Ponar, but she identified 15 individuals, includ- ing my father, as her so-called family. Passing through barbed wire in the middle of the night, this group escaped and my mother never returned to the cafe. Liberation brought freedom but uncertainty. I was born dur- ing this uncertain period. My parents moved across newly erected borders with me in tow. Secretly and often illegally, they crossed from Lithuania to Poland to Germany, evading Poles and Lithuanians still intent on killing Jews. Their difficult journey took them to Munich, where the American government, in con- junction with the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee, had established a facility to house displaced per- sons and refugees. After almost a year in the camp, my father's four Perlman uncles in Detroit sponsored our family to come to the U.S. We arrived in New York July 17, 1947, and came to Detroit. The war destroyed my parents' families, their friends and dreams of the future. Perhaps it was a lack of tangible evidence — all photographs, of course, were destroyed — which also motivated me to return to Europe. Armed with a few addresses, we attempted to find the homes where our mothers had lived in Vilna, where our families worked and the schools they attended. We identified some houses, but Evil, Hope on page 54 jrN September 29 2005 ISH HOME & AGI FLEISCHMAN RESIDENCE/BLUMBERG PLAZA 6710 WEST MAPLE ROAD, WEST BLOOMFIELD ON THE EUGENE AND MARCIA APPLEBAUM JEWISH COMMUNITY CAMPUS WISHES OUR RESIDENTS, AMILI VOLUNTEERS AND FRIENDS A HAPPY AND. HEALTHY motorw enz BMW udi a ~ haws ■ Complete Vehicle Service ■ Wheel & Tire Service & Sales ■ 4-Wheel Factory Laser Alignments ■ High Performance Tuning ■ Vehicle Sales & Consignment ■ Auto Detailing alnut Lake Rd. co co 7:1 FL West Maple Rd. . 41 53