Friends In Need New Orleans cantor and family find relief in Metro Detroit. ROBIN SCHWARTZ Special to the Jewish News la e's a cantor without a congregation and they are a family without a per-. manent home. That's the predica- ment of Cantor Joel Colman, his wife, Jackie, - and their 17-year-old son, Josh, of New Orleans. Like the tens of thousands of other people displaced by Hurricane Katrina, the cantor with Temple Sinai in New Orleans and his family are here in Metro Detroit trying to regroup and rebuild their lives. "It's like living in a nightmare," said Jackie Colman. "Even though we're safe and with friends, it's so surreal. You see the photos on TV and you think that's happening to some- one else — not us," she said. "Not knowing what's happening from day to day is hard," said Cantor Colman. "You're opening a bank account in West Bloomfield and you're thinking to yourself, 'Why am I doing this? I live in New Orleans.'" For a few days, the - Colmans and their two Labrador retrievers, Jazz and Ben, were camped out at the home of longtime friends Elissa and Hal Leider of Commerce. Cantor Colman is a past regional director for the B'nai Kith Youth Organization and has taught high school in Texas and in Israel. He also has served synagogues in New York and Connecticut. Cantor Colman grew up in Oak Park, grad- uated from Eastern Michigan University and is a childhood friend of the Leider's son. "They lost everything," said Hal Leider. "They called and asked if they could stay with us and we said, 'You don't even have to ask,"' he said. The Colmans arrived in Michigan with the two cars they packed with some clothes and personal belongings before they evacuated. At the time, they only expected to be gone for three days, but everything changed when the city of New Orleans flooded. The Colmans believe their home is up to its roof in water. "All of our papers, pictures, memorabilia — all the things you take for granted are in our house," Jackie Colman said. They don't yet know the extent of the dam- age to their synagogue building. On top of everything, Cantor Colman is a chaplain for the city of New Orleans Fire Department and an amateur radio emergency coordinator. He would normally be in the middle of the relief effort. "Our congregants' homes are severely flood- ed and that's what's so tragic," Cantor Colman said. "Your heart breaks for these people," he said. "He's raring to go back and try to help and do what he can, but he has to take care of his family first," said Hal Leider. Right now, the family's first priority is their son Josh, a high school senior and a 6'2" offensive lineman who was the co-captain of his school's football team. He's already been enrolled at Walled Lake Northern High School, where he started attending classes this week. He also joined the football team. "People have been really warm and welcom- ing here," Josh said. "It's been nice to have that after the experi- ence we've had." Temple Israel, the West Bloomfield syna- gogue where the Leiders belong, also has taken the family under its wing. An anonymous donor came forward with a two-bedroom apartment, which the family moved into on Tuesday. Other congregants have donated fur- niture and clothing. The synagogue is also pro- viding part-time employment for Jackie Colman, who is a Hebrew school teacher. In all, the synagogue is involved with relief efforts locally for four Jewish families from New Orleans. Each of these families has a tie to Metro Detroit through a Temple Israel fam- ily. "It's the most horrific emotional experience I've ever been a part of," said Kari Provizer of Farmington Hills, director of Temple Israel's Robert Sosnick Family Life Center. "It's incomprehensible, you can't even imag - ine what they're going through," she said. "Temple Israel has been fabulous," said Cantor Colman. "They've been so gracious and helpful — I don't know what I can do for them when it's all over." 0 Hal and Elissa Leider of Commerce flank longtime friends Jackie and Cantor Joel Colman of New Orleans, who were displaced by Hurricane Katrina. Mark Enfield, Elissa and Hal Leider, Josh Colman of New Orleans and Shari Enfield at Temple Israel's Labor Day picnic. The Enfields and Leiders are from Commerce. Temple Israel is coordinating a community effort to collect donations and items for the Colman family and other victims of Hurricane Katrina under Caring Community members Carolyn Marks and Gail Young. Contact Kari Provizer, (248) 661-5700, for information on how to help. 9/ 8 2005 75