bituaries Obituaries are updated regularly and archived on JNOnline.com A Legacy Of Leadership LEONARD POGER Copy Editor r . ourteen years ago, Tillie Brandwine, always active in numerous Jewish organizations, wanted to ensure that Jewish families could easily find where their long- deceased ancestors were buried. She led the Cemetery Index project — an effort to create a database of all local Jews buried in both Jewish and non-Jewish cemeteries. According to the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit's Web site, Mrs. Brandwine and her committee members walked throughout non- Jewish cemeteries, "writing down (Jewish) names from deteriorating headstones so that no one from the community would be forgotten." The database includes more than 64,000 names that can be accessed through Federation's Web site: www.thisisfederation.org. Matilda "Tillie" Brandwine, who came to Detroit with her family as a child from New York City, died Aug, 18, 2005. She was 90 and lived in Bingham Farms. The Cemetery Index was just one of the many causes and groups that Mrs. Brandwine was involved with during her energetic and active live in the Jewish community. Among her many awards for Jewish activism, she was honored in 1989 with the prestigious Fred M. Butzel Award for Distinguished Community Service by the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit. The honor was based on her work with the Hadassah and other Jewish groups. She was also a former president and Allied Jewish Campaign chairman of the Federation Women's Division, served on the Federation's executive committee, chaired its culture and edu- cation division and was the first woman to serve on the Federation's budget committee, leading the way to provide daycare funding for working parents with small children. She was the founding president of Friends of Hillel Day School. Over the years, Mrs. Brandwine also served as president of Jewish Federation Apartments and helped LEONARD POGER Copy Editor EC Byer "Mike" Shear — a war hero and service station owner who was loved and respected by all those who knew him throughout his 88 years — died Aug. 12, 2005, from complications follow- ing surgery. Captain Shear was a highly deco- rated World War II bomber pilot with 65 missions whose honors included the Air Medal with multiple clusters for "meritorious achievement while participating in aerial flights," the Distinguished Flying Cross for extraordinary achievements" and the Purple Heart with multiple clusters. During his lifetime, he was too humble to discuss his accomplish- ments and wartime feats, but to Meyer Shear quote grandson Max Orbach, "He was a superhero, and Superman had nothing on him." A native Detroiter, Mr. Shear graduated Cass Technical High School early at age 16 in order to help his family. He was drafted pre-Pearl Harbor and trained to be a radio operator before being accepted as a cadet pilot in the Yuma, Ariz., Army Airfield Air Forces Advanced Flying School, Class (( organized the Jewish Family Services' nursing home visitation program. But Jewish communal work wasn't her whole life, said her daughter, Lois Granader of Bloomfield Hills. Twice a year, there were major family get- togethers for her children, their spouses and grandchildren — during Passover in Florida and at Thanksgiving in the Pocono Mountains in eastern Pennsylvania.- Lois' husband, Hadar Granader, described Mrs. Brandwine as a "renais- sance lady who was well read and knowledgeable." Lois noted the irony of her mother's passing last Thursday — on the same day that she was featured in a Jewish News story about the compiling of her memories in book form given to family members last April to help celebrate her 90th birthday. The memoir, writ- ten by P.J. Cherrin after numerous - hours of interviews, was 120 pages long and accompanied by audio recordings. Tillie Brandwine is survived by her daughter and son-in-law Lois and Hadar Granader of Bloomfield Hills; of 1943. He quickly earned his captain's bars and received the President's Certificate of Appreciation (( for war services for guarding our country in the air." Upon discharge, he was immediately offered employment with American Airlines, but declined in order to stay close to home to pursue a relation- ship that was sparked while in the service. Mr. Shear was introduced to Betty Salter by his cousin Muriel Rosenbaum and fell in love at first sight. They spent much of 1945 writ- ing to each other. Their nearly 59-year marriage was "storybook" in terms of the love, commitment and teamwork they shared; and Betty has kept every one of those letters Meyer scribed. Raised in Huntington Woods, their children, Diana and Brian, loved and respected their father as a soft-spoken man who had earned their love and admiration. Back from the war, Mr. Shear was the owner for over three decades of Mike's Marathon on Nine Mile and Majestic in Oak Park. Always looking to help others, he became an auto mechanics mentor for the Oak Park High School co-op program where he was described as being "very fair and encouraging and focused on teaching work skills and a solid work ethic." He spent much Tillie Brandwine sons and daughters-in-law, Dr. Warren and Beverly Brandwine of New Jersey, Mark and Melissa Brandwine of Georgia; grandchildren, Brian Granader, Robert and Jill Granader, Eric Brandwine and fiancee, Clarissa Cook, Joel Brandwine, Cory Brandwine, Alex Brandwine, Max Brandwine, Jake Brandwine; great- grandchildren, Joshua, Jessica and Natalie Granader. She was the beloved wife of the late Morris Brandwine and the dear sister of the late Max Biber. Interment was at Clover Hill Park Cemetery. Contributions may be made to Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit or the National Council of Jewish Women. Arrangements by Ira Kaufman Chapel. ❑ . of the past 10 years volunteering in the rheumatol- ogy department of the Henry Ford Hospital facility in West Bloomfield. Mr. Shear was also an avid bowler with B'nai Brith and former member of Temple Emanu-El and Adat Shalom. He loved traveling the world with Betty, playing golf and poker with his lifelong bud- dies, admiring old cars and spending time with his family. To honor his memory and celebrate his life, his family left Shabbat services at Congregation Shir Tikvah in Troy Friday night via the Woodward Dream Cruise in a classic 1966 Ford Thunderbird. Mr. Shear, himself, was a classic. — a hero to his country, his family, and all who knew him. Mr. Shear is survived by his wife, Betty; his daughter and son-in-law, Diana and Richard Tolin of Hawaii; his son and daughter-in-law, Brian and Linda (Orbach) of Huntington Woods; grandchil- dren Maximillian and Peter and Sophia (Orbach) and Rachel (Orbach), sisters and brothers-in-law, Bea and David Shulman of West Bloomfield and Harriet and Lou Penfil of Oak Park; cousins, Muriel and Morrie Rosenbaum. Those wishing to honor Mr. Shear's memory may visiting the Jewish War Veteran's Memorial Exhibit at the Jewish Community Center in West Bloomfield, where his decorated uniform, flight log and photos are displayed . Contributions may be made to a charity of one's choice. Arrangements by Dorfman Chapel. . QIN 8/25 2005 89