Spotlight Illuminating Sparks Flame of holiness and spirituality helps light the way for Shabbat. Wendy Sadoff of Franklin with Cheryl Grossman and Lillian Yashinsky, both of Oak Park T lot of us do it because we saw our mothers he Jewish tradition of kindling the do it and we don't really understand why. Sabbath lights brought 35 women "The sages say there are three reasons we together for a special night out at Grille 173 in Royal Oak. The group enjoyed light Shabbos candles: One is for pleasure, one is to bring importance to the a candlelight dinner at the upscale Sabbath, and also to bring peace kosher steakhouse and learned more into the home," Dr. Snider said. about the deeper meaning behind "What we're doing is bringing the weekly ritual of lighting Shabbat holiness and spirituality into candles. Shabbos — a flame always reaches "When women light Shabbos can- upwards just as our soul is always dles, they have a lot of power at that longing to reach upwards," she moment — there's a lot of spirituali- added. ty in that moment," said Sarah Also seated around the tables at Faygie Berkowitz of Southfield, who RO BIN the July 25 event were: Co-chair organized the event. SCH W ARTZ Amy Margolis of West Bloomfield, The program, called "A Spark of Sandra Lerner of Huntington Co/u mnist Light," was the first gathering of the Woods, Sharon Million of Orchard Aish Ladies Cafe, a new series of Lake, Leslie Samet and Ethel Rosen of events for women of all ages sponsored by Farmington Hills and Linda Lefkowitz and the Southfield-based Jewish outreach organi- Cookie Gonik of Southfield. El zation Aish HaTorah. "I think this is a great way to get acquaint- ed with other Jewish women," said Ellen Kahn of West Bloomfield, one of the partici- pants. The evening's speaker was Dr. Janet Snider of Southfield, who helped shed some light on the mitzvah of kindling Shabbat candles. "A Cookie Gonik, Linda Lefkowitz and Leah Tolwin, all of Southfield Michal Korman of Southfield Janet Snider and Sarah Faygie Berkowitz, both of Southfield 8/18 2005 21