Arts & Entertainment Smashing Stereotypes In "Murderball," Jewish filmmakers show quadriplegics in new light. • NAOMI PFEFFERMAN Jewish Journal of Greater Los Angeles Phoro by Jack Rowand- so, I n 2003, Dana Adam Shapiro was stunned by an article about quad- riplegic rugby — a.k.a. murderball — played by testosterone-amped ath- letes who ram the hell out of each other in souped-up wheelchairs. The quadriplegics, at least partially impaired in all four limbs, were trash- talking, beer-guzzling, ministry-blasting gladiators who partied hard, had hot girlfriends and plenty of sex. "I had thought all quadriplegics were like Christopher Reeve," Shapiro said, sheepishly. "No life, no movement, no sex and certainly no rugby." The former Spin magazine senior edi- tor promptly called his producer, Jeff Mandel, and announced he'd found the subject of their debut film. "But it wasn't going to be just about the sport," Shapiro said. "It was going to be about what it's like to break your neck" The fierce, powerful Murderball revolves around athletes such as Mark road on fire, I wouldn't p— on him to put it out," Zupan says in the film.) The lauded movie won the audience award for Best American Documentary at the 2005 Sundance Film Festival. According to Entertainment Weekly, it's poised to become the latest breakout documen- US. Paralympic Rugby Team captain Mark Zupan and tary (like Spellbound teammates in "Murderball": Jock philosophers and Fahrenheit 9/11), and Zupan will be Zupan, a goateed, tattooed Texan who the summer's most surprising action reconciles with the friend whose drunk hero. driving put him in a wheelchair. There's In an interview at LA's Meridian also Joe Soares, crippled by childhood Hotel, the Jewish filmmakers were polio, who skulked off to coach the almost as hung over and trash talking as Canadians, with the American playbook Zupan, whose head was on the table in tow, when he was cut from the U.S. after drinking Crown and Cokes until 6 team. ("If Joe was on the side of the a.m. at the film's California premiere. Henry Alex Rubin, who co-directed the film with Shapiro, said he somehow lost his dress shoes in the revelry. The filmmakers — all 31 — even sounded like the athletes as they razzed each other, while describing their Jewish backgrounds. Shapiro grew up in a Conservative home in Newton, Mass.; spent a semes- ter at Tel Aviv University; and wrote an upcoming novel, The Every Boy, which revolves around a Jewish family. Mandel, from Great Neck, Long Island, read Torah weekly at the request of his yeshi- va graduate father. And Rubin, who was raised in an interfaith household, lit a "starter kit" menorah that Shapiro gave him last year. "Do you remember your bris?" Shapiro asked Mandel. "Lees say I have credentials in that area," the producer replied. But the talk turned serious when the filmmakers earnestly described the Jewish values inherent in the film. Shapiro was pleased when a rabbi used Murderball as the topic of a Passover ser- mon about overcoming obstacles. Talmudic Debate Filmmaker revisits father's clear-cut decision to die. MICHAEL FOX Special to the Jewish News T JN 7/28 2005 36 o call Bob Stern a strong- willed man is to traffic in understatement. Diagnosed with heart disease and prostate cancer after 77 years lived on his terms, the entrepreneur refused to cede control to the doctors. In full control of his faculties and unwilling to endure surgeries and treatment, Stern took his life on his central California ranch. But first, he made a videotape explaining his deci- sion — with his wife and son present — for his out-of-town daughters. "What you see in my family is this epic debate," says one of those daugh- ters, San Francisco filmmaker Susan Stern. "That's talmudic. What my family did was talk through things and analyze things and debate things." Stern intercuts her father's tape with old home movies and postmortem family interviews in her riveting one- hour film, The Self-Made Man. A provocative blend of personal docu- mentary and hot-button social issue, it airs 11:30 p.m. Sunday, July 31, as part of PBS's P.O. V. series. While most families would bury Bob Stern's tape in the basement after one viewing, Susan Stern was convinced that making it public would be much more valuable. "I wanted to bring that talmudic ethic of debate to other people," she explains. "That [desire to share is] something I think is very Jewish. And as soon as I discovered that white men over 75 have the highest suicide rate in the nation, I realized this wasn't just my dad." Stern adds, "It's a delicate subject, but we Jews do take the lead often in fig- uring out how to talk about difficult sub- Filmmaker Susan Stern jects." A longtime investigative journalist before gravitating are eight suicides in the Bible, and some of them are presented in ways that are to filmmaking with her first documen- not only rational but heroic." tary, Barbie Nation, Stern has never She cites Samson bringing down the been afraid to ask tough questions. temple on his own head, which would "In my research, I found that you can seem to be a case of self-sacrifice rather interpret Jewish traditions and the Bible than suicide. and teachings to argue either side of the "I would argue in my own father's right-to-die issue," Stern says. "There suicide there was an element of self-sac-