) www.ArtFestival.com 10th Annual Shoshana Rubenstein with Sidney Leib: " w aiting for. "Anything good is worth dren's activities, grateful to be part of our lives. He has been our pillar during every illness and calamity — so patient, positive, persistent. His advice always has been to be a good soul and loving, and never go to bed angry. The kindness will lead to warm relationships and help to make the world a better place. I can only hope and pray that our children will be the type of parent he has always been, and that I can follow suit in his gen- tle ways. Sat & Sun • June 18 & 19, 2005 10am - 5pm — Shoshana Rubenstein West Bloomfield • Perhaps the story of my precious dad, Sidney Leib, will offer hope to • The best lesson I learned from my single and widowed mothers. Moshe Rubenstein, is to be a father, My biological father left my brother, survivor. I knew my family was differ- sister and me when we were young ent growing up, but I did not know or children. Although he was brilliant understand why. and gifted, he was also very troubled. At times, I resented what I was and He provided neither emotional nor that I was different. I was a first-gener- financial support. I haven't seen him ation American who did not under- in decades. stand what my father went through to Our dear mother wondered if there give me the life I was living. would ever be a man who could love My father survived the unthinkable. her and us enough to nurture us in a He watched, at a very young age, his loving, warm and caring environment. entire family being taken away. From Mom was beautiful and kind, but had that moment, he was all alone. He hid many health issues, three little chil- in the woods and relied on only him- dren and no financial means. self. He escaped when he thought best Eventually, when Mom started going and relied on only his instinct. out, the new men adored her, but Only knowing my father's story now, were not interested in taking on a as an adult, I understand why my family family. Several years is different. I am proud of who passed. and what my The old saying father is. I "Anything good is come from a worth waiting for" father who is a became our reality. miracle, a Sidney Leib was Holocaust sur- raising his son, • ivor. Ron, on his own, I told him when he met my once I could mother. never have sur- It didn't take vived what he long before they went through. He were deeply in told me, "Yes, love. He not Hannah, you only accepted would have done us, he was . z)i fizthe7; Mos the same, because Nock andfizmi(y with thrilled about you are a survivor 1/0-1, are a he ii'zibenstein, fit le taking us into s urvivoi 3, like me. ; like his heart. me. When life gets hard Each day, even or it seems like there now, he tells us he loves us and are things I cannot adores us. We were all raised together overcome, I think of my father. I will in a charitable and peaceful home. Sidney is our gift — our daily lesson survive this moment. My father survived the unthinkable to on love. He's an amazing grandfather, give me life and for me to follow in his so excited about building model boats, footsteps: to survive. feeding ducks or attending all the — Hannah Novick functions. He has attended 100 per- Bloomfield Hills. cent of all his children's and grandchil- OUTDOOR EVENT • OVER 100 ARTISTS FREE ADMISSION • • • • • • Painting Jewelry Photography Sculpture Ceramics And more Stop by the hospitality booth to win your Dad $1000s in prizes for Father's Day! Located in the parking fields of Novi Town Center For more information call 248-347-3830 or 954-472-3755 6/16 2005 39