Torah Portion/Synagogues The Need To Belong Is Strong Shabbat Bemidbar: Numbers 1:1-4:20; Hosea 2:1-22. T he Torah reading of Bemidbar describes a census of the Children of Israel dur- ing the days of Moses. Each tribe was to be numbered, with the total figures tallied. In the midst of this seemingly prosaic report, the Bible introduces a pro- found spiritual insight: "Take ye the sum of all the Congregation in Israel ..." By what method? "By their fami- lies and by their father's houses." Every person was reckoned not as a. separate and detached individual, not as an interchangeable unit in a series, but rather as a member of a mishpachah (family) in relationship to his father's house. The Torah teaches us that one's identity is linked with home, family, lineage, ancestors — in short, with a sense of belonging. I can think of no greater yearning, no deeper hunger Irwin Groner is rabbi emeritus of Congregation Shaarey Zedek. the sense of relatedness to others, the in our age than the need to belong — to be linked with others by ties of security of a home. We all need the strength and support of home and affection and regard. family to find stability and serenity. Material possessions do not neces- We need friends and community to sarily answer the hunger for belonging. feel worthy and valued. Are the victims of insecurity, loneliness The imagery of Pirkei Avot (Ethics and isolation limited to the poor and of the Fathers) conveys this truth so underprivileged? Not necessarily. vividly, "The righteous person is like Consider a gifted and promising a tree planted by streams of young man or woman who water," declare the sages; feels rootless and alienated. "and even if all the winds Consider a successful entre- of the world blow upon it, preneur who realizes one it cannot be stirred from its day that his home is not his place." To belong to a fam- castle. Consider a woman, ily and to a historic com- outwardly graceful and munity is to have one's life serene, but inwardly dis- anchored in the soil of a tressed because she feels profound attachment. unloved and unwanted. The need to belong is of Consider an older person special concern to us as who seemingly has all the RABBI Jews — one of the oldest material security he desires GRONER peoples on God's earth — but observes that his coun- Special to the because we taught the sel is not desired, his pres- Jewish News world the meaning of hav- ence not welcome. ing roots, of being part of A sense of belonging has an historic nation. When we enter a little to do with what a person has, synagogue, we encounter words of but rather with what he experiences. the Bible and prayers of first-century The Torah instructs us repeatedly Palestine and of seventh-century that men and women need someone Babylonia and of France and and something to cling to. They Germany of the Middle Ages, as well need the inspiration of a tradition, Giving Tzedakah It is a great merit to give charity on behalf of sick people, so that in the merit of this good deed, they should be cured. Presented by Lubavitch Women's Organization. For information on keeping kosher or lighting Shabbat candles, contact Miriam Amzalak (248) 548-6771, miriamarnzalakl@junu.com . To help consolidate lifecycle listings in one, easy-to-find location, we've moved all b'nai mitzvah announcements to the Mazel Tov! section. Avoiding duplication in the IN allows us to run more news. CONSERVATIVE ADAT SHALOM SYNAGOGUE 29901 Middlebelt, Farmington Hills, 48334, (248) 851- 5100. Rabbis: Daniel Nevins, Herbert Yoskowit, Rachel Lawson Shere. Rabbi emeritus: Efry Spectre. Cantor: Yevsey Gutman. Cantor emeritus: Larry Vieder. Services: Friday 7:30 p.m.; Saturday 9 a.m., 9 p.m.; weekdays 7:30 a.m., 6 p.m.; Sunday 8:30 a.m. Aufruf of Heather Rosenberg and Andrew Daitch. AHAVAS ISRAEL (GRAND RAPIDS) 2727 Michigan St. SE, Grand Rapids, 49506-1297, (616) 949-2840. Rabbi: David J.B. Krishef. Cantor: Stuart R. Rapaport. Services: Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, 7:30 am.; Friday, 7 p.m.; Saturday, 9:30 a.m. BEIT KODESH 31840 W. Seven Mile, Livonia, (248) 477-8974. Cantor: David Gutman. President: Larry Stein. Vice presidents: Martin Diskin, Al Gittleman. Services: Friday 8 p.m.; Saturday 9 a.m. CONGREGATION BETH AHM 5075 W. Maple, West Bloomfield, 48322, (248) 851-6880. Ritual director: Joseph Mermelstein. Rabbi emeritus: A. Irving Schnipper. Cantor Emeritus: Shabtai Ackerman. Guest rabbi: Aaron Bergman. Visiting scholar: Dr. Howard Lupovitch. Services: Friday 6 p.m.; Saturday 9:30 a.m., 8:45 p.m.; weekdays 7 a.m., 7 p.m.; Sundays and civic holidays: 8:15 am., 5 p.m. BETH ISRAEL (FLINT) 0-5240 Calkins Road, Flint, 48532, (810) 732-6310. Cantor emeritus: Sholom Kalib. President: Dr. Harold Steinman. Services: Saturday 9:30 am., 6 p.m.; weekdays 7:30 am., 6 p.m.; Sunday and legal holidays 8 a.m., 6 p.m. lvriah religious school (810) 732-6312. BETH ISRAEL (ANN ARBOR) CONGREGATION 2000 Washtenaw Ave., Ann Arbor, 48104, (734) 665-9897. Rabbi: Robert Dobrusin. Services: Friday 6 p.m.; Saturday 9:30 a.m.; weekdays 7:30 p.m.; Sunday 7:30 p.m. CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM 14601 W. Lincoln, Oak Park, 48237, (248) 547-7970. Rabbi: David A. Nelson. Cantor: Samuel L. Greenbaum. Ritual director: Rev. Samuel Semp. Services: Friday 6 p.m.; Saturday 9 a.m., 6:30 p.m.; Sunday 9 a.m., 5 p.m.; weekdays 7 a.m., 6:30 p.m. Children's birthday blessings. BETH TEPHILATH MOSES 146 South Ave., Mt. Clemens, 48043, (586) 465-0641. Services: weekdays 7:15 a.m.; Saturday 10 a.m.; Sunday 8 a.m. CONGREGATION B'NAI MOSHE 6800 Drake, West Bloomfield, 48322, (248) 788-0600. Rabbi: Elliot Pachter. Cantor: Earl Berris. Services: Friday 6 p.m.; Saturday 9 a.m., 8:30 p.m.; Monday-Friday 7 a.m., Monday-Thursday 6 p.m.; Sunday and legal holidays 9 a.m.; Sunday 6 p.m. Graduate Shabbat. DOR CHADASH — U. OF MICH. U-M Hillel; 1429 Hill St., Ann Arbor 48104, (734) 769- 0500. Rabbi: Jason A. Miller. Co-chairs: Naomi Karp, Perry Teicher. Egalitarian Carlebach-style service at candlelight- ing time Fridays. Monthly Shabbat morning service. Monthly Shabbat Minchah-Seudah Shlishit. Check Web site for times: www.umlullel.org ISAAC AGREE DOWNTOWN SYNAGOGUE 1457 Griswold, Detroit, 48226, (313) 961-9328. Chazan: Cantor Usher Adler. Baal Kriah: Howard Marcus. Cantorial soloist: Neil Bards. Ritual director: Dr. Martin Herman. President: Dr. Ellen Kahn. Services: Saturday 8:30 am. CONGREGATION SHAAREY ZEDEK Rabbis: Joseph H. Krakoff, Jonathan E. Berkun, Eric S. Yanoff. Rabbi emeritus: Irwin Groner. Cantor: Chaim Najman. Ritual director: Leonard Gutman. Southfield: 27375 Bell Road, Southfield, 48034, (248) 357-5544. Services: Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday 7:30 a.m.; Monday, Thursday 7:15 am.; daily 6 p.m.; Friday 6 p.m.; Saturday 9 a.m., 8:45 p.m.; Sunday 8:30 a.m. West Bloomfield, B'nai Israel Center: 4200 Walnut Lake Road, West Bloomfield, 48323-2772, (248) 357-5544. Services: Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday 7:15 am.; Monday, Thursday 7 a.m.; daily 6 p.m.; Friday 6 p.m.; Saturday 9 a.m., 8:45 p.m.; Sunday 9 a.m. TEMPLE ISRAEL 2300 Center Ave., Bay City, 48708; (989) 893-7811. Cantor: Daniel Gale. President: Dr. Jonathan Abramson. Services: Saturday 9:30 a.m. A liberal, egalitarian congre- gation serving the tri-cities area. Religious and Hebrew education programs for children and adults. as of contemporary America. We are refreshed and invigorated by the continuous stream of a tradi- tion that has flowed on through the lives and teachings of prophets and sages, saints and scholars. To affirm loyalty to this people and to share in its life is to absorb Israel's strength and courage and faith. The great task of the Jewish com- munity ,:)f today is to respond to the challenge to help each Jew realize that he counts because he is a mem- ber of a family; he has a distinctive lineage and a shared history with Jews all over the world. We need to strengthen and support the institu- tions where we discover our roots — the home, the family, the synagogue, the school — for they alone shape and fashion an authentic and fulfill- ing Jewish identity. Conversations Discuss some ways the home set- ting is vital in strengthening and carrying on our traditions. 114DEE'ENDENT AHAVAT SHALOM 413 N. Division St., Traverse City, 49684, (231) 929-4330. Rabbi: Chava (Stacie) Bahle. Weekly Shabbat celebrations, holidays, year round programming, children's education. Summer programming for downstate visitors. GROSSE POINTE JEWISH COUNCIL (313) 882-6700. Rabbi: Nicholas Behrmann. Cantorial soloist: Bryant Frank. JEWBILATION P.O. Box 130014, Ann Arbor, 48103, (734) 996-3524 or 995-1963. Rev. Lauren Zinn. Services: Friday 6:15, follow- ing dinner. Jewish Roots with Interfaith Wings holds bi- monthly Shabbat dinner, services, kids' programs, family school and Hebrew school for all ages. ORTHODOX AGUDAS YISROEL MOGEN ABRAHAM 15751 W. Lincoln, Southfield, 48075, (248) 552-1971. Rabbis: Dov Loketch, Asher Eisenberger. President: Irwin Cohen. ANN ARBOR CHABAD HOUSE 715 Hill St., Ann Arbor, 48104, (734) 995-3276. Rabbi: Aharon Goldstein. Services: Friday at sundown; Saturday 9:45 a.m., 20 min. before sundown; weekdays 7:30 a.m.; Sunday 9 a.m. limes for weekdays and Sunday are for the academic year. ANN ARBOR ORTHODOX MINYAN 1429 Hill St., Ann Arbor, 48014. Rabbi: Rod Glogower. Services: Friday at sundown; Saturday 9:30 am. and 20 minutes before sundown; weekdays during the academic year 7:30 a.m.; Sunday 9 a.m. 6/ 2 2005 SYNAGOGUES on page 94 93