,TG 1-1 wish famili Lag B'Omer Bonfires, haircuts, weddings and a holiday with a mysterious origin. A 3-year-old is about to relieved of his locks on Mt. Meron in Israel. ELIZABETH APPLEBAUM AppleTree Editor T he Holiday: Lag b'Omer, the 33rd day of the counting of the Omer, which .this year is on Friday, May 27. Why We Celebrate: Lag b'Omer has rather unusual origins. In fact, Jews are of very different opinions as to exactly why the holiday is observed. Some say it celebrates the end of the plague that killed Rabbi Akiva's students. Kabbalists observe the day because of Rabbi Shimon bar Yohai, traditionally regarded as the author of the Zohar, the main book of Kabbalah. (Lag b'Omer marks various important moments in his life: the rabbi's yahrtzeit, the time he was ordained by Rabbi Akiva, and the date when he left a cave where he had been hiding from the Romans.) The Story Behind The Holiday. "Lag" is an acronym formed by the two Hebrew letters that make up the number 33. This marks the 33rd day of Sfirat Ha Omer, "the counting of the omer." In Parshat Emor (Leviticus, chapter 23), God desig- nates the festivals of the Jewish year, including Passover. According to rabbinical interpretation of verse 9, on Calling All Sons And Daughters When you were a kid, nothing was more insufferable than your father's words of advice. Now that you're older, and wiser, and you realize your father actually knew a lot. Did your father teach you the second day of Pesach, Jewish farmers of Israel should bring to the Temple an offering of an omer of barley flour (about 2.2 liters), along with gifts of meat, flour and wine. After this, the new grain of the spring harvest could be used. In verse 15, God commands that the Jews begin counting, starting with the omer offering and continu- ing for 49 days. On the 50th day,.they would mark Shavuot. After the Temple was destroyed, the Jewish people could no longer bring sacrifices, but they continued to perform the counting commandment. To this day, Jews count (usually within the daily evening service) the days between Pesach and Shavuot. A blessing is recited, then the relevant day's count announced. The count includes both the day and the week of the omer, as directed by the Torah. Thus, one would say, "Today is 19 days, two weeks and five days of the omer." How We Celebrate: Lag b'Omer is enhanced by the weddings, as well as by parents giving their 3-year-old sons their first haircuts (another kabbalistic tradition) along with hosting a party to celebrate the event. a valuable lesson you remember to this day? Do you often find yourself reflecting on an important discussion you had with him? Have his words of wisdom shaped your life in a way you never imagined? If so, the Jewish News'AppleTree wants to hear from you. In honor of Father's Day, AppleTree will include essays on, "The Best Lesson I In Israel, thousands of Jews gather in the northern Israeli town of Meron for prayer and festivity at the tomb of Shimon Bar Yohai. Others go to the tomb of another ancient sage, Shimon Ha-Tzadik, in Jerusalem. For unknown reasons, some light bonfires and chil- dren play with bows and arrows on Lag b'Omer. They also commemorate Bar Kokhba and his rebellion against the Roman occupation of Israel (132-135 C.E.). Why Bar Kokhba is associated with Lag b'Omer is a matter of scholarly debate. More Mystery: This time is associated with a number of painful events in Jewish history. During the first 33 days of the Omer, 24,000 of Rabbi Akiva's students died in a plague because, the Talmud says, they did not treat each other with respect. Later, there were a series of massacres of Jewish com- munities in the Rhineland during the Crusades in 1096 and 1146, and then during the Chmielnicki massacres of 1648-49. Consequently, except on Lag b'Omer, observant Jews refrain from haircuts (some men also do not shave), do not have weddings and other celebrations, and do not play or listen to live music during the counting of the Omer. Learned From My Father." To con- tribute, please send a brief (no longer than 500 words) essay to: Dads c/ o AppleTree The Jewish News 29200 Northwestern Hwy. #110 Southfield, MI 48034 Entries must be typed and at our office no later than Tuesday, May 31. ❑ Submissions also may be e-mailed (appletree@thejewishnews.com ). Include your first and last name, your father's name, your address and phone number. If possible, include a photograph of you and your father with your essay; include a stamped, self-addressed envelope if you would like the photo returned. 5/19 2005 89