1 )1 or their supper Guests at the Shulman home don't just attend parties — they participate. SHELLI LIEBMAN DORFMAN Staff Writer C or 18 years, Marci Shulman's friends excitedly anticipated discovering the theme she chose for her annual bash. Hosting the final party last year, she vows to hold occasional events and to keep memories of past revelry in mind. The festivities began simply in 1987 but soon became an annual musical extravaganza, each with an elaborately planned central focus. "The parties started when we invited 35 people who are musicians — or just love music — to a gathering in our home," said Shulman of West Marci Shulman wore a colorful gown for her music awards evening. Bloomfield. "I got up and sang something classical. Then I looked around and said, `Who's next?'" Since then, the parties, held each January, have included creative themes like "Shulman's Shop of Horrors," "Summer in Winter," "Andrew Lloyd Webber Night" and a pajama party, complete with guests in bathrobes and fuzzy slippers enjoying typical late-night snacks. A focus of each party has been a musical perform- ance that fits the theme. "I have a cast who include people who do corn, munity theater and teachers I know who are talent- ed," she said of the volunteer group. "The Friar's Club and the Maize and Blue, both from Ann XX' 3/24 2005 37