A GREAT EVENING from page 41 Chocolate Chips Family entertainer and songwriter Joel Frankel to perform at YAD event. ELIZABETH APPLEBAUM AppleTree Editor W 3/17 2005 42 hen you are 8 years old, you do not want to hear songs about finding true love and getting married and living together for- ever, like most songs in the world talk about. That's because these things are stupid. Well, maybe not stupid. But how can they compare to the really important stuff in life, like how tough it is to sit still and how your parents and teachers keep nagging you to do just that, and chocolate chips — lots of them. Children of the world, rest assured — Joel Frankel is not going to play you any lovey dovey songs. But he does know all about the challenges of sitting still, and chocolate chips, and just about every- thing else that kids want to hear. Frankel, a singer, songwriter, producer, teacher and children's entertainer, will perform with his partner Eddie Ganet for parents and children age 8 and younger from 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. on Sunday, March 20, at Congregation Shan rey Zedek West Bloomfield, B'nai Israel Center. The event, which is chaired by Pamela and Erez Azaria, is $5 for a family, and tickets may be pur- chased at the door. A native of the East Coast, Frankel has lived throughout the United States. He got his big start in Los Angeles, where he was working with a music therapist. He played the guitar, then began writing his own songs, recording and perform- ing. It didn't take long for Frankel's music to get noticed, and he worked with some of the industry's biggest names, including producers Barry Mann and Steve Tyrell. Frankel's music began appearing in TV shows and films, including his song "We Go Together," which was featured in Big, starring Tom Hanks. "We Go Together" was the first song Frankel wrote especially for children. Writing music for the younger set was not really his dream. "But I'm good at it and it likes me," says Frankel, the father of a daughter in high school and an 11- year-old son. 'And children respond well to me." Writing the songs is the easy part of his job, says Frankel, whose CDs include "Don't Sit on a Cactus," "I Can't Sit Still" and "JoJo's Barnyard Bash." A title will come to mind and inspire an entire song. Or he'll just start think- ing of an animal — maybe a rabbit — "and I'll write a rabbit song." Or some- times "someone says something that strikes you as musical, lyrical." Of course, a lot of work follows. 'After the inspiration comes the perspi- ration. To craft a song takes time. You might have to rewrite a lyric to make it sing a little better, or the music might need to be tweaked to make it more interesting." Then comes the really hard part: find- ing and maintaining work, and then the really fun part: performing. "You do have to be creative about sus- taining the interest of your audience" when it's a collection of children aged 3 months to 16 years old. "You have to learn how to read them." But as for the singing and silliness and the interaction: "Once you're in front of people," Frankel says, "it's not work." After living in Los Angeles, then Philadelphia, on a whim Frankel accept- ed an invitation "to play music with friends I vaguely knew in Chicago." He ended up staying, and that's where Frankel makes his home today. When not in concert, Frankel can be found at Chicago's Children's Memorial Hospital, where each month he per- forms free, under the auspices of Chai Lifeline, for the boys and girls or writing jo77. or listening to Brazilian music, Bonnie Raitt and Green Day. "My tastes are pretty eclectic," he says. He's also had a taste of the movies and once was more than enough. Frankel makes a brief, but memorable appearance, in Father of the Bride, star- ring Steve Martin and Diane Keaton. "I was the accordion player," he says. He enjoyed working with Steve Martin who, in-between takes (which lasted forever, says Frankel, who would "never want to do a film again; there's too much sitting around"), would ask Frankel to play this or that song on the accordion. "'Okay,' he would tell me. 'Here's a challenge for you. Can you do 'Battle of New Orleans'? Can you do Amore'?" Frankel doesn't own a copy of Father of the Bride. "But every now and then I'll see the movie when they play it on TV and I'll see myself as the accordion play- er and that is hysterical." ❑ Clockwise, starting above: Je_Klein and Julie, 5, of Waterford Jessica, 3, and JeVindon of Southfield Michael Dorman of West Bloomfield with Pearl 8, and Tedi, 11 Madison, 4, and Sam Zeidman of Farmington Hills Event chair David Strauss and Caroline, 5 1/2, of Farmingon Hills Ethan and Eden Gilan, of West Bloomfield Murray Sittsamer of Farmington Hills with daughters Eden, 7, and Lexie, 10 Additional photos, go to JNOnline.com .