FOR THE AGES Max M. Fisher, 1908-2005 Growing Up William and Mollie Fisher with their two oldest children, Gail and Max, 1912 With Max Max Fisher's sisters share childhood memories of family devotion. SHELLI LIEBMAN DORFMAN Staff Writer any knew Max Fisher as a visionary, a Jewish and civic leader, a political adviser and magnanimous philanthropist. But to Anne Rose of West Bloomfield he was "just a great guy — a wonderful per- son who was always very good to me," she said. "Max was my big brother." Rose said Max — who was also the eld- est sibling of Dorothy Tessler of Bloomfield Hills and the late Gail Fisher Ross — "was the person I always looked up to." "We all did," added Tessler. "In our family, he was the king — the only boy in a family of three girls." . And that meant he could get away with anything when it came to his sisters. "When Max and Gail took piano lessons together, he used to tell her that only she had to practice, but he didn't because he was two years older — so he was already better at the piano," said Tessler, the youngest of the Fisher children and 12 years Max's junior. "And Gail believed him." Tessler remembers being hired by her big brother to iron his shirts. "He paid me 10 cents for each one," she said. "And he loved coconut, so I used to bake him coconut cakes." The four siblings are the children of Velvil and Malka (Brody) Fisch, immigrants from White Russia. In June 1906, Velvil landed in New York City, settled in Pittsburgh, changed his name to William Fisher and became a traveling peddler. A year later, he had enough money to send for Malka, who then became Mollie. Their son, Max, was born in Pittsburgh, but spent part of his school years in Salem, Ohio. "It was such a small town, and there were very few Jewish kids there," said Rose. "In fact, there were only two other Jewish boys in school with Max. His friends used to tease him and call him 'rabbi. - M With Pride Max Fisher with his three sisters, the late Gail Fisher Ross, Anne Rose and Dorothy Tessler, 1980 Both women remember their brother as a born leader. "He was always active in different groups in high school," Rose said. But the one thing she remembers most fondly about her brother's school career was being able to watch the athletic Max play football. "I was only 7 and we had moved to Cleveland," she said. "I remember being very proud to watch him play." Max went on to attend Ohio State University on a football scholarship. "While Max was in college, every time he came home it was a big deal," Tessler said. "Our family was always very close. We always had Friday night dinners together at home." She also always saw in her brother bits of their parents. "I think of Max as emulating both of them in many ways," Tessler said. "He was won- derful like my mother. And, like my father, he was so good with numbers and figures. He was like my father — but with an edu- cation." Even as the Fisher children started their own families, they remained near one another, each raising their children in the Detroit area. "We are a very close family," Tessler said. "We still always get together on birthdays and holidays and for special occasions." Not at all surprised about the successes and accomplishments of her brother, Tessler said, "It is amazing to think about all the wonderful things he did. But there was always something within him — a passion about the things he wanted to do." In adulthood, she thought of him as "a person who was always so busy taking care of the world. But I knew I could always go to him and he would be there," she said. IVF uotables "D?: Martin Luther King Jr. said that service is the rent we pay for the space we occupy. Max served. He earned his keep on this side. From 1967, Max decided to make this city what he always wanted it to be. Instead of talking about it, he did it. We love him." — Detroit Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick 3/10 2005 17