http :/ fir auftran.corn I We Get Questions Q : I noticed recently in the Detroit Free Press OBITS and Detroit News obituaries a few death notices with Jewish stars that referred to a "Mem orial Service." How is a Memorial Service different from a funeral service? of Belmont, Mass.; daughters and sons- in-law, Aliza Wechsler and Anders Edenbrandt of Lund, Sweden, Helen Wechsler and David Shapinsky of Washington, D.C.; grandchildren, Jonas Edenbrandt, Simon Wechsler, Daniel Edenbrandt, Martha Wechsler, Tobias Shapinsky and Theodore Shapinsky. Interment held in Washington, D.C. Contributions may be made to a charity of one's choice. Arrangements by Dorfman Chapel. A: In funeral language, a Memorial Service refers to a service in memory of someone who has died, without the body present. There are times when a Memorial Service is held in this community, when a funeral and burial have taken place in another city. More often than not, a Memorial Service is held when no burial is taking place. "Marvelous Motown Magic Millionaires Party," 7:30 pm, Sat, Feb 5, 2005, sponsored by The Auxiliary and Benefactors of the Jewish Home &Aging Services, Knollwood Country Club, 5050 W. Maple, West Bloomfield Treat yourself like a millionaire and help support older Jewish adults. Auxiliary and Benefactors of the Jewish Home & Aging Services hosts benefit 7:30 pm, Sat, Feb 5. Casino-themed party package includes valet parking, supreme dinner and dessert buffet, gaming chips, prizes and Motown music. ETHEL TIGAYYOLLICK, 85, of West Bloomfield, died Jan. 5, 2005. From 1940-1983, she was the co-owner of Bond Jewelry Company in East Detroit. Mrs. Yollick is survived by her sons and daughters-in-law, Professor Jeffrey and Helene Tigay of Pennsylvania, Dr. Barry Tigay of Bloomfield Hills, Alan and Suelly Tigay of New Jersey; daugh- ter-in-law, Judy Tigay; Lester Yollick's children, Donna and Saul Rapkin, Steven and Jeannie Yollick, Marshal Harvey Levine; grandchildren, Eytan and Rachel Tigay, Hillel and Beth $125/ person; under 30: $75. All welcome. Reservations and cool casino attire required. For more information, contact Jewish Home & Aging Services, (248) 661-2999. THE IRA KAUFMAN CHAPEL - Bzing-ing- rfogether Family, Faith & Community Tigay, Chanan Tigay, Yisroel Tigay, Jenny and Peter Meyerhoff, Sarah and Kevin Hirsch, Donielle and Brian Stutland, David and Julie Tigay, Joseph Tigay, Benjamin Tigay, Rafael Tigay, Charles Rapkin, Shayna Yollick; great- grandchildren, Yollick Gabriel, Asher, Mae, Mila and Eden Tigay, Emma and Adam Meyerhoff, Elena Hirsch; sister and brother-in-law, Helen and Maxwell Miller of West Bloomfield; sister-in-law, Priscilla Dickman. She was the beloved wife of the late Leonard Tigay, the late Lester Yollick; dear sister of the late Nathan Cooper, the late Freda Parker and the late David Cooper. Interment at Adat Shalom Memorial Park. Contributions may be made to Adat Shalom Synagogue, Jewish Theological Seminary or to Hadassah. Arrangements by Ira Kaufman Chapel. `Swing King' Artie Shaw 18325 West Nine Mile Road, Southfield, MI 48075 248 569 0020 • Toll Free 800-325-7105 - from page 89 - Facsimile 248-569-2502 family moved to New Haven, Corm. He also wrote that the "really basic Jewish Telegraphic Agency reason" for changing his last name was his feeling of insecurity, though for Los Angeles years he had maintained that it was rtie Shaw, a top big band for reasons of brevity leader and clarinetist, died The handsome and dashing Shaw Dec. 30, 2004, at his home gained additional fame by near Los Angeles. He was marrying eight times, 94. including actresses Lana Born Arthur Jacob Turner, Ava Gardner and Arshawsky on New York's Evelyn Keyes, novelist Lower East Side, the son Kathleen Windsor, and of Jewish immigrant Elizabeth Kern, the dressmakers, Shaw daughter of composer enjoyed worldwide popu- Jerome Kern. larity from the 1930s to Among his most the mid-1950s, an era of famous renditions were great Jewish band leaders, "Begin the Beguine" by who included Benny Cole Porter, which public Goodman, Harry James Artie Shaw demand made his signa- and Ziggy Elman. ture tune, and Hoagy Dubbed "The Carmichael's "Stardust." Reluctant King of Swing" for his fre- Shaw was a compulsive reader and quent self-imposed exiles from the despite his fame, wealth and glam- bandstand, Shaw retired in 1954, at orous companions, went through fre- the top of his form. He devoted him- self to writing, including his autobiog- quent depressions. 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