Nutritionally Speaking MIKEY STEBBINS and YONI KATZ }(ti and Mikey holding the donation moneyfo- r Ktd Ezra. City: Southfield Kudos: Birthday Mitzvah When Mikey and Yonis dads, Gil Stebbins and Sidney Katz, suggested the boys ask guests coming to their joint birthday party to bring a $5 donation for Yad Ezra instead of a gift, the boys — 6-year-old kindergarteners at Yeshivat Akiva in Southfield — learned firsthand about the mitzvah of giving tzedakah (righteous gifts of charity). A couple of weeks after the Dec. 5 party, the boys presented their $450 donation to Yad Ezra, the Berkley-based kosher food bank. Gil, How did the plan come about? "We dreaded bringing home dozens of presents — mainly toys that within days will be all over the house, pieces missing and broken, creating a huge mess. Then we thought we'd teach the mitzvah of tzedakah to our kids. Also at the age of 6, it is customary [at Akiva] to invite your whole class to your birthday party. This means par- ents will have to buy 25-30 presents throughout the year, which could get very costly." How did you discuss the concept of "no presents" with the boys? "We explained that there are many people who can't afford food let alone gifts, and a birthday is a nice time to collect money for them instead of get- I T ting toys the kids don't need." Mikey, how did you react to this unusual suggestion? "I was a little sad at first, but when my parents [Chani and Gil] told me where the money was going to, I thought it was a great idea. I was happy, plus I knew people like my bubbe [grandma] and saba and savta [grandpa and grandma] couldn't let my birthday go without giving me presents, so I knew I was also getting toys and would still be able to help others." Gil, who made the decision to take the donations to Yad Ezra? "Yoni's mom, Shoshana. The kids know Yad Ezra because they have col- lection boxes in the school for food, and both Mikey and Yoni helped deliver food to people in the past." Mikey, what do you think about ' ) TYG KE the invitation you just received from a boy in your class who also asked classmates to bring a $5 donation to Yad Ezra to his party instead of a gift? "I'm happy that other people are helping others who don't have money, and my parents are happy that the idea is catching on." Gil, how do you think this project affected the boys? "A week after the party, they'd never remember the presents, but we think they'll always remember the idea of giving to the needy." El — Shelli Liebman Dorfman, staff writer RE AITOrTrrEr... Know a Doer — someone of any age doing interesting, meaningful things in their life outside of their job? 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