Torah Portion/Synagogues

The First Jewish Mentor

Shabbat Mikketz, 4th
Day of Chanukah:
Genesis 41:1-44:17;
Numbers 7:30-35;
Zechariah 2;14-4:7.

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aced with famine and starva-
tion at home, Yaakov sends his
sons to Egypt to buy food.
Yosef (the viceroy) pretends not to
recognize them and accuses them of
spying. In an effort to convince him of
their innocence, the brothers tell him
their life's story and mention their
younger brother Binyamin, who
remained home with his father. Yosef
harshly demands that that they pro-
duce the young Binyamin in Egypt.
When they return home to their
father with their predicament, Yaakov
won't hear of sending Binyamin. After
all, he had already lost Yosef (whom he
thought dead); and Binyamin, the
baby of the family, is the last living
descendant of his beloved wife Rachel.
Reuven tries to convince his father to

Reuven Spolter is rabbi of Young

Israel of Oak Park.

send Binyamin, telling him, "You may
plans to care for his brother. On the
put my two sons to death if I do not
other hand, Yehudah tells his father,
bring him to you." (42:37) Yaakov
"You may claim him from my hand."
won't hear of it. In essence, Yaakov tells
Yehudah doesn't just take responsi-
the family, "I don't care if we starve to
bility in a detached way. Rather, he
death, but you're not taking Binyamin
promises to be actively involved in the
to Egypt."
care of his brother throughout.
When they find themselves with
"Father," he says, "I know I'll bring
nothing to eat, the brothers return to
him back, because he'll be right next to
their father and insist that they must
me the entire time."
take Binyamin with them to
In our community, we
Egypt to buy food. Yehudah
have so many caring and
says to his father, "You may
dedicated people who work
claim him from my hand. If I
on behalf of the welfare of
have not brought him to you
their fellow Jews. All too
and presented him before
often, while they do impor-
you, then I will have sinned
tant work, their efforts
against you for all time."
remain focused "behind the
(43:9)
scenes," serving on commit-
Yaakov relents and agrees
tees, raising funds and
to send the young boy with
attending meetings.
RABBI
his brothers. Why does he
While these efforts are
REUVEN
now concede to Yehudah if
crucial, many people are
SPOLTER
he so vociferously refused to
looking to follow in
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send Binyamin before? Why
Yehudah's footsteps and
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does he trust Yehudah's prom-
become actively and person-
ise but not Reuven's?
ally involved. If you're one of
He trusts Yehudah because while
those people, I've got just the program
Reuven makes promises, Yehudah takes
for you.
personal responsibility. While Reuven's
During this past year, I have had the
dramatic oath to kill his sons might
pleasure of working with Michelle
sound good (and might not), it doesn't
Malamis, who runs heads Mentor
tell his father anything about how he
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adults willing to dedicate their time to
helping a child in need.
In so many Jewish families in our
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burden of circumstances over which
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parental divorce or separation or any
number of other difficult circum-
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Why doesn't Yosef reveal himself
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