Friday, Dec. 10 songs and cookie kiddush, 11:15 a.m. Shaarey Zedek West Bloomfield (248) 357-5544. Art Exhibit Deborah Friedman shows mixed media paintings and monoprints at Paint Creek Center for the Arts through Jan. 15. 407 Pine St., Rochester. (248) 651-4110. Tot Shabbat Jewish Cultural Society presents 6 p.m. pro- gram geared toward toddlers and children up to age 5 and their families including candelighting, song, crafts and stories; vegetarian potluck fol- lows. Jewish Community Center of Washtenaw County, 2935 Birch Hollow Dr., Ann Arbor. (734) 975-98972. Celebrate Chanukah Dinner, Chanukah games and service led by Rabbi Tamara Kolton, 6 p.m. Birmingham Temple (248) 477-1410. Chanukah Dinner Congregation Chaye Clam hosts 6:15 p.m. Shabbat dinner followed by 7:30 p.m. service; bring a parve side dish to pass. $5. (248) 851-7485. Chanukah Service Temple Emanu-El's special service, 7:30 p.m., features youth choir; 6 p.m. Chanukah dinner is served by the brotherhood. (248) 967-4020. Saturdayl D African Genocide Discussed Congregation Beth Ahm hosts guest Rabbi Jason Miller of U-M Hillel, who will speak on the humanitarian crisis in Darfur, Sudan, during 9:30 a.m. Shabbat services. (248) 851-6880. Young Family Service Participants at 10 a.m. "Helping Hands for Chanukah" make blankets for the Linus Project and enjoy a service, story, craft and snack. Temple Emanu-El (248) 967-4020. 5th Day Celebration Congregation Beth Ahm features 4:30 p.m. Minchah, 5 p.m. Seudah Shilishit, 5:30 p.m. Maariv and Havdalah, 5:45 p.m. menorah lighting and songs. $5 adults, no charge ages 12 and under. (248) 851-6880. 1001 Lights Congregation Beth Shalom holds family Havdalah service, dinner, arts and crafts, games, Celebrate Shabbat through puppets, stories, Winter Home Nature Walk Families with children ages 6-12 learn to be pre- pared for winter emergencies and see how ani- mals prepare for winter, 2 p.m. No charge. West Bloomfield JCC. RSVP by Dec. 8: (248) 432- 5481. Chanukah Party Keter Torah Sephardic Synagogue celebrates candlelighting, and sing along, 6-8 p.m. $10 per person, $40 family maximum. RSVP by Dec. 7: (248) 547-7970, ext. 217. Chanukah Festival Vivace Birmingham Temple presents Dennis Tini J n77 Huge menorah lighting, crafts, dreidels, latkes and doughnuts with Chabad Jewish Center of Commerce, 2:30 p.m. $5. RSVP: (248)363-3644. Quintet 8 p.m. $18 members, senior, students; $21 general admission. (248) 788-9338, (248) 661-1348. Latke Party Pomegranate Guild of Southeastern Michigan Singles Shir Shalom Singles 40+ meet for dinner 7 p.m. Loving Spoonful, Farmington Hills. RSVP by Dec. 9: Bev (248) 960-1326, Andrea (248) 626-7405. Sunday. Dec 12 Terrorism Prof. Robert Sailer, professor of Law, WSU, dis- cusses "Confronting Terrorism in a Democratic Society: An American and Israeli Perspective," 9:30 p.m.; moderator is Marc Kruman, chair, his- tory department, WSU. Temple Emanu-El (248) 967-4020. Used Book Collection Drive through and drop off donations of used books, books on tape, records, videos, CDs and DVDs, 11 a.m.-1 p.m., for Bookstock. Max M. Fisher Federation Bldg., 6735 Telegraph Rd., Bloomfield Twp. (248) 291-1235. The Joseph Story Rabbi Jason Miller, assistant director, Hillel Foundation, U-M, speaks on "Setting the Stage Tot Shabbat for the Development of the Jewish People," noon. $10. RSVP for 11 a.m. brunch. $8. (248) 737- 1931. Chanukah 1:30-5:15 p.m. (248) 661-3665. meets for latke party. Judy Galperin (248) 661- 5337. Celebrate Chanukah Jewish Gay Network holds celebration with 3 p.m. study session, "The Kabbalah of Eight," fol- lowed by party, 4-6 p.m. $8; bring a nonperish- able kosher food item for Yad Ezra. Just 4 Us Bookstore, 211 W. Nine Mile Rd., Ferndale. (248) 642-8366. Drey, Dreidela Zamir Chorale of Metropolitan Detroit presents a concert of Chanukah music in English, Hebrew, Ladino and Yiddish, and several classical selec- tions, 4:30 p.m. No charge. Oak Park JCC (248) 967-4030. nda V, ti eR 13 Lunch and Learn Margaret Weiner, former associate executive director, Jewish Family Service, speaks at 1 p.m. to Institute for Retired Professionals on "Living Alone Successfully — More or Less." Bring brown bag dairy or parve lunch 12:15 p.m.; cof- Community Calendar Notes: Items may be submitted to Community Calendar in three ways. Write: Bobbi Charnas, Editorial Assistant, the Jewish News, 29200 Northwestern Hwy., Suite 110, Southfield, MI 48034; fax: (248) 304-8885 or e-mail bcharnas@thejewishnews.com . The deadline for submissions is 3:00 p.m. Wednesday, 9 days prior to issue date. 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