Obituaries are updated regularly and archived on JN Online: wvvw.detroitjevvishnews.corn A Life Of Kindness SUSAN TAWIL Special to the Jewish News chaplain to both the state's federal prison system and to the state's institutions for the mentally ill. He served this con- hen you were with him, you stituency with his typical kindness and felt you were the closest thing compassion, going beyond the call of to God." duty to bring kosher food packages and So said Arnold Olenick of Southfield arrange carnivals, model Passover seders about his rabbi, Rabbi Solomon H. and Chanukah parties for the patients (Shlomo Chaim) Gruskin, who passed and inmates. away Nov. 8, 2004, at age 87. He spearheaded the establishment of Rabbi Gruskin, longtime leader of the Kadima residential home for the Congregation B'nai Zion of Oak Park, mentally ill, and was likewise very was known for his extraordinary piety, involved in the activities of JARC. depth of Torah knowledge and tremen- The rabbi's personal philosophy might dous chesed (acts of kindness to others). be summed up in the way he explained He was one of those special individu- the importance of the heart in Judaism als regarded as a tzaclik, as the organ that a righteous person. always gives what it Although very humble, gets. When Rabbi his righteousness was Gruskin's final illness legendary. There are left him frail and inca- countless stories of pacitated, he cried: incredible deeds. "What's the point of Rabbi Gruskin was being alive if I can't born in Avoka, Pa., help another Jew?" (near Scranton), in Besides his constant 1917. He was educated concern and care for in Yeshiva Torah Vodaas his fellow Jews, Rabbi in New York and mar- Gruskin was a gifted ried Gertrude R. (Gitel) Torah scholar, never Reichman of Toronto wasting a minute in 1944. Their marriage when he could be was a model of shalom learning. At the same bayit (marital harmony) time, he was very for 59 years until the approachable, with a Rabbi Solomon H Gruskin rebbitizen's death last great sense of humor, December. Their and was much sought respect for each other was so exemplary after for his advice, counseling, blessings that it seemed no coincidence that the and encouragement. rebitizen's Kaddish (prayers said by chil- Meticulous in his personal observance dren for 11 months after the death of of mitzvot, Rabbi Gruskin accepted their parents) ended just the day before many stringencies upon himself, such as the rabbi's own death. praying Shacharit (the morning service) Two years after the Gruskins married, at sunrise, and fasting every Monday they moved to Detroit, where Rabbi and Thursday nearly 211 his adult life as Gruskin served as the first executive an atonement for the sins of the Jewish director of the newly established Yeshiva people. Beth Yehudah. He led Congregation His davening (prayer) was deep and B'nai Zion for nearly 60 years. The syn- heartfelt, bringing himself and his con- agogue, originally located on Detroit's gregants into an ever-closer relationship Humphrey Street, was known to its with God. 1,600 members as "the Humphrey Rabbi Gruskin also was known for his Shul," until its relocation to Oak Park in unwavering support of Torah institu- 1960. tions, helping raise many millions of The Gruskins were influential in dollars for yeshivot (especially those in organizing Detroit's budding Orthodox Israel) and other institutions, such as community, promoting the ideals of orphanages and food banks. He was on taharat hamishpachah (family purity) close personal terms with the most and founding the Women's Orthodox esteemed rabbis of our generation. League, the city's central mikvah organi- Rabbi Gruskin was buried in Ponevez zation. Cemetery in B'nei Brak, Israel, where he Rabbi Gruskin served for 35 years as is interred next to his wife, just steps W away from the grave of Rabbi Eliezer Schach, a leading Torah sage of our gen- eration. A memorial service was held Nov. 14 at Congregation Dovid Ben Nuchim in Oak Park to enable the Detroit commu- nity to honor Rabbi Gruskin's memory. Community rabbis, congregants and rel- atives, including the rabbi's two sons, Rabbis Moshe Yitzchok and Efryim Dovid Gruskin, delivered eulogies extolling the rabbi. The rabbi's selfless defense of Torah ideals, his holiness and great devotion to serving God, his tremendous acts of chesed and his concern for others were aspects of his character that were men- tioned repeatedly. So great was the rabbi's everyday con- sideration of others that the family even received a letter of sympathy from his non-Jewish dry cleaner. "He lived his life as an ambassador of HaKadosh Baruch Hu (The Holy One, Blessed be He)," said his son, Rabbi Moshe Yitzchok Gruskin. Rabbi Gruskin leaves his family of five children, all either rabbis or married to rabbis, as well as many grandchildren and great-grandchildren, nieces and nephews. His children are Shularnis and Rabbi Yehoshua Zuckerman of Brooklyn, N.Y.; Ghana and Rabbi Reuven Rubelow of Monsey, N.Y.; Rabbi Moshe Yitzchok and Kaila Rochel Gruskin of Lakewood, N.J.; Raizelle and Rabbi Shmuel Serebrowski of Toronto, Ontario; and Rabbi Efryim Dovid and Naomi Gruskin of Perth Amboy, N.J. Those who wish to honor the rabbi's memory may contribute to Congregation B'nai Zion, Yeshiva Beth Yehudah, Yeshivah Torah Ore (Jerusalem), Ponevez Yeshivah (B'nai Brak), Yeshivah Gedolah (Perth Amboy N.J.) or Ezras Torah (N.Y.). n •• Mita, 3a44.44t e-a;re, BENJAMIN BAGDADE, 100, of East Peoria, Ill., formerly of Ann Arbor, died Nov. 19, 2004. He was a former Olympic coach, whose name is associated strongly with the field of competitive speed skating. He was a winner of the intermediate speed skating title in 1919 at Lake Placid, N.Y., at the age of 15. He was a man- ager and interim coach of the U.S. speed skating team at the Winter Olympics in St. Moritz, Switzerland, in 1948. Mr. Bagdade was treasurer for the U.S. Speed Skating Team for 16 years. In addition, he was named a official for the Winter Olympics Games in Oslo, Norway, in 1952, serving as an assistant referee and on the committee to represent athletes and also as an official at the Squaw Valley, Calif., Olympics in 1960. He then was elect- ed president of the Amateur Skating Union in 1947-48 and re-elected for three consecutive terms, through 1950. Mr. Bagdade was then inducted into the Speed Skating Hall of Fame in 1978, after being inducted into the Michigan Amateur Sports Hall of Fame the year before. Then, in 1990, he was elected to the Michigan Jewish Sports Hall of Fame. In addition to his skating career, he was a charter member and past president of the men's club of Temple Israel. Mr. Bagdade is survived by his daughters and sons-in-law, June and Dr. Richard Swartz of Ann Arbor, Alice and Walt Winget of E. Peoria, Ill.; son and daughter-in-law, Dr. John and Harriet Bagdade of Eugene, Ore.; grandchildren, Jason (Sheila Gray) Bagdade, Suzanne Bagdade, Olivia Bagdade, Philip Bagdade, Vaughn (Cyndi) Swartz, Samuel Swartz, Julie Feldman and Vicki (Chuck) Lantz; great-grandchildren, OBITS on page 92 < Is /Jot ER.4...rleyeAk Dw z ! laws gait, CcutIciet *11)0 Only Certified Products Use . In The Preparation of Shirlee's Food...Prepared In Her Own Private Kitchen? Hot Homemade Dinners Meat & Dairy & Fish Trays! // 501)-(7e MCo om (248) 855-9463 32418 Northwestern Hwy. 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