For information on submitting an announcement, please visit mazeltov@thejewishnews or call (248) 351-5147 Still Good Friends After seven decades, this group of boyhood buddies remains together. LEONARD POGER Copy Editor T wenty Jewish teenage boys formed an unusual — and enduring — group 70 years ago. There were no bylaws, officers, dues or program chairmen. The members just wanted to be with each other and enjoy sports and conversation. It was during the Great Depression and the boys were about to graduate from Durfee Intermediate School on Detroit's near west side and enter nearby Central High. The boys became men together, went to war, raised families and built careers while maintaining their friendship through the decades. After 70 years, they remain so dedicated that one member even flies in from California to enjoy the fellowship of their monthly meetings. The club, called the Kiroes, "exemplifies true and lasting friendship, loyalty and camaraderie," said Norman Sommers of Bloomfield Hills, one of the founders. On Monday, Oct. 11, the surviving 11 members and their wives will gather for a 70th anniversary dinner. "The group association was based on close friend- ship," he said. "We had baseball and basketball teams and participated in league competition." Sommers, a semi-retired attorney, said the group's name has no special meaning or relevance. "It was just picked out of the sky — it was just a wild name." Sonimers stressed that the name, which is pro- nounced "Cairo," has nothing to do with the name of the Egyptian capital. But he did say that everyone who hears the name asks about its origin. Finding Success JN 10/ 8 2004 76 At the beginning, the group was geared toward achieving success in American society. It would meet every other Sunday at members' houses. "One distinct feature of those meetings," said Sommers, was the 'round table' discussion, where members critiqued the conduct of each other on a very constructive basis, without any animosity, to help each member improve himself in social con- duct." After graduating Central in 1937, nearly all the Kiroes members went on to college. Growing up during the Depression and coming from poor fami- lies, most of the Kiroes' families didn't have money for tuition. But they took advantage of a federal National Youth Administration program that enabled students from poor families to pay for their college education by doing work on campus. Since the program covered only tuition and books, several Kiroes also had to work in the private sector to earn money for miscellaneous expenses. About 30 years ago, celebrating four decades together are, front row, Cyril Astrein, Dr. Norbert Ketai, Dave Muskovitz, Dr. M Robert Yoffee, Dr. Maurice Fried and Hal Eisenberg; back row, Dr. Jack Weiss, George Lerner, Albert Gendel, Leo Keeps, Donald Corn, Norman Sommers, Martin Mattler, Dr. Alex Weinberg, Dr. Leon Firestone and Ben Lerner. Sommer said that the group wanted its club name to sound like a fraternity, so they picked a pseudo- nym, Kappa Alpha Xhi (KAX). When America entered World War II, all but two of the Kiroes served in the military — with all of them returning home. After the war, the club meetings again com- menced, but on a monthly basis, and baseball was resumed. As the members married, the wives also became close friends, sharing in the group loyalty of their spouses. "Incidentally, no Kiroe was ever divorced — some difference from today's society," Sommers commented. Many Get- Togethers "The annual club Memorial Day picnics were some- thing the Kiroes all enjoyed," Sommers said. "In addition to the picnic food, there were numerous games for the children to compete, but the main event was the baseball game, which everybody who wanted to play, Kiroes, wives, children, etc., could participate in. Some Kiroe parents also attended the picnics." The Kiroes celebrated their 25th anniversary in 1959, by going to Grossinger's, then a plush resort in the Catskills in New York. They still meet monthly during the summer. Of the surviving 11 Kiroe members, the only who moved out of state is Donald Corn of Carlsbad, Calif. But he flies into town for the monthly din- ners, which are open to wives and widows. Besides Sommers and Corn, the other nine surviv- ing Kiroes are Dr. Leon Firestone of West Bloomfield, Leo Keeps of Southfield, Dr. Norbert Ketai of West Bloomfield, George Lerner of Oak Park, Dr. Irving Levitt of Bloomfield Hills, Dr. Alvin Lezell of Southfield, Martin Mattler of Bloomfield Hills, Dr. Maurice Reizen of Okemos and Dr. M. Robert Yoffe of Huntington Woods. The deceased members are Cyril Astrein, Hal Eisenberg, Maurice Fried, Albert Gendel, Ben Lerner, Dave Muskovitz, Irving Taylor, Dr. Alex Weinberg and Dr. Jack Weiss. The Kiroes' boasted three physicians, (including Dr. Reizen who was the director of the state Public Health Department under Gov. William Milliken), three dentists, three builders, as well as an optometrist, podiatrist, hospital administrator, lawyer, accountant, real estate broker, plumbing contractor, meat distributor, collision shop operator, a manufacturers' representative and a manufacturer. "Notwithstanding their varied careers, they had one thing in common — devoted, loyal friendship," Sommers said. Other similar boys clubs have come and gone, but the Kiroes live on — celebrating its 70th anniver- sary at Monday's dinner. ❑