Search For Meaning Young doctor takes a year off to study at Jerusalem yeshivah. SHARON LUCKERMAN StaffWriter hen former Detroiter Dr. Alan Millman graduated from medical school and completed his residency in neurology and pain management over a year ago, he decided there was something '2'17 Zr:7711 Dr. Alan Millman at his yeshivah. he had to do before starting his medical practice. He wanted to deepen his study and under- standing of Judaism. After researching a variety of yeshivot, he decid- ed to study at one in Jerusalem. "It was not an easy decision to make," says Dr. Millman, 33, who just completed a year of study there. "I had a desire to learn more about Judaism, but had no idea whatthat meant." Dr. Millman, who is single, grew up in West Bloomfield and graduated from Michigan State and Wayne State univer- sities. After completing med- ical school, he became increasingly interested in his faith and started keeping kosher and observing Shabbat. He attended an Orthodox shul with friend P.J. Cherrin of West Bloomfield, who lived in New York at the time. He then started to con- sider learning at a yeshivah. Judaism and synagogue life were central to his upbring- ing, Dr. Millman says. His parents, now divorced, Anita Naftaly of West Bloomfield and Dr. Neil Millman of Bloomfield Hills, instilled a love of Judaism in him. "My mother is very active in the synagogue — she was vice president of Congregation Shaarey Zedek and president of the sister- hood — and we always did something together for holi- days and for Shabbos," he says. Dr. Millman graduated from the Conservative Hebrew high school at Shaarey Zedek. But credits his first trip to Israel, with USY (United Synagogue Youth), as a turning point for him. "It really got me connected to Israel, and it's where I got a deep appreciation for Judaism. But I didn't think about becoming more obser- vant then." Discovering A Yeshivah Dr. Millman did research for the kind of place he wanted to study. He was concerned about the stereotype of a yeshivah that brainwashes its stu- dents and tells them what to think, he says. At Yeshivat Darche Noam, the David Shapell College of Jewish Studies in Jerusalem, however, he found a place, he says, "where students learn to think for themselves. I wanted to be in a place where I could decide how I was going to become obser- vant." "We draw our staff from a broad international spec- trum within the Orthodox world to expose our stu- Rabbi Hirshfeld dents to various approaches so they can learn Judaism and grow into the one that's most comfortable to them," says Rabbi Yitzchak Hirshfeld, dean and a co-founder of Darche Noam in 1978. The yeshivah has between 60-75 male stu- dents and also has a women's branch. "I knew I needed to spend at least a year in Jerusalem, but what would this do to my career," Dr. Millman wondered. He decided study was too important to pass up. Then he told his family. "They knew I was observant for a while, but it was hard for them at first to understand why it was important to learn in a yeshivah environment. But you can't learn to become observant once a week." His mother says she's very proud of her son. "I think what Alan learns [at the yeshivah] will help him be a good doctor, ethically speaking," says Anita Naftaly, director of special education for the Federation's Alliance for Jewish Education. Of his son's year of study, Dr. Neil Millman says, "He had a wonderful experience that met his needs, and this was probably the one time he could take time to do this. I'm sure it will affect him all his life." Though he admits he missed his medical work while studying at the yeshivah, Dr. Millman says, "Torah study is as important, if not more impor- tant, to me. There's a spiritual energy in Jerusalem you don't have anywhere else." Dr. Millman says he is considering aliyah but plans to return to the United States to practice medicine and live in a frum (observant) area — Passaic, N.J., where other alumni from Darche Noam reside. ❑ 8/ 6 2004 49