Last Cali The Long Goodbye epending on whom you talk to, Ronald Reagan was one of our greatest presidents and worthy of a . spot on Mt. Rushmore, a sec- HARRY ond-rate actor who KI RS BAUM became a 9-5 presi- Columnist dent or everything in between. Since he died on June 5 of com- plications from his 10-year bout with Alzheimer's disease, thousands have lined up to pay tribute as his body lay in state at his presidential library in Simi Valley, Calif., and in the Capitol Rotunda in Washington, D.C. Hundreds have left flow- ers or jelly beans after their visit, or added their thoughts on Web site mes- sage boards. Newspapers have featured special sec- tions on Reagan's life and President Reagan his legacy, and television networks have provided blanket coverage with special reports. Much sympathy has been bestowed upon Reagan's family, especially Nancy, his devoted wife and primary caregiver. In recent years, she has spoken to Larry King and other television commentators about the pain and difficulty in caring for her sick hus- band. "It's sad to see somebody you love and have been married to for so long and you can't share memories," she told Larry. "That's the sad part." Although she shares the same amount of emotional suffering as the other primary caregivers of the Harry Kirsbaum's e-mail address is hkirsbaum@thejewishnews.com 4.5 million Americans who suffer from Alzheimer's disease, the wife of 40th president of the United States had the means to obtain the best care available. With daily doctor visits and pri- vate nurses to tend to the former president, it doesn't take a great leap of imagination to think that the Secret Service agents responsible for his safety pitched in to help move him from bed to wheelchair, or help turn him every three hours to pre- vent bedsores. Nancy Reagan deserves our sup- port and our sympathy. But her story is no different than other fami- lies who have to deal with this dis- ease. In some strange respects, her story is easier than most. According to the Alzheimer's Association Web page, a recent poll said that 10 percent of Americans have a family member suf- fering from Alzheimer's; 33 per- cent said they know someone with the disease. Nancy Reagan has the love of a nation showering her with praise and sympa- thy, but many care- givers suffer alone. Take it from one who knows. If you're thinking of a fitting tribute to mourn the loss of Ronald Reagan, calling a caregiver to give a word of encouragement, or writing a small check to the Alzheimer's Association might be a more meaningful tribute than writ- ing a letter on a Web site message board. Here's the address: Aliheimer's Association, 225 N. Michigan Ave. Suite 1700 Chicago, Ill. 60601- 7633. On a more uplifting note: Congratulations, Mr. D. — One championship down (Tampa Bay Lightning), one to go (Pistons). Welcome to West Bloomfield and the world, twin cousins Haley and Austin. And happy birthday, Mom. ❑ Metro-Detroit's Premiere Guide to Restaurants, Caterers and Specialty Shops Ca PRIVATE/CORPORATE CATERING 5600 Crooks Road, Suite L07 Troy, MI 48098 Check out our NEW location! 248.813.7800 OER Alj BB 3315 Auburn Rd. • Auburn Hills, MI 48326 Cop of erfencei deett 61b4int fart ravlf at fivut 248.852.3410 Lebanese Garden Healthy Middle Eastern Cuisine 43259 Woodward Ave Bloomfield Hills, MI 48302 (Just N. of Square Lake — west side) Dine-In, Carry-Out, Catering, Meeting Area 248.253.9300 NAM 5 Attention Bond Bu ersi 6 Tax-Free* Offering Taxable Offering .00% YTC Wayne St U of Mich Univ Rev 5.125% coupon Aaa/AAA FGIC Insured matures 11/15/29 YTM=5.07% price 100.676 callable 11/15/10 @100 .300% YTM Federal National Mortgage Association (Fannie Mae) 6.30% coupon NR/AAA matures 06/28/24 price 100.000 callable 06/28/05 @100 *Interest free from Michigan State and Federal Income Tax. These offers are subject to change in price and/or availability. Call David Holz & Robert Sheplow at 1-888-524-2104 JBHanauer & Co. Wealth Management Specialists Since 1931 6/11 West Palm Beach, Florida Member NASD/SIPC erin: as o 06/07/04 2004 www.'bhanauer.com -tst..6'. 75