Vra.elkV41:02•MK..r. ,WAMOPI,VeMSSURklaWkWiglaWMW4M.... ' .1{MWVWX,WWWW*VIM. PZW,USMA1/4."VaeWhaVatiMMMW.:, STAR DELI JN: After this experience, what do you think about the old adage "forgive and forget"? SF: I've forgiv- en Burton, and, just as impor- tantly, I've forgiv- en myself for the part I played. Forget? Never. BF: I won't forget what hap- pened either, but I've forgiven myself Style Magazine's Oakland County Favorite "BEST CORNED BEEF" EVERYBODY KNOWS STAR HAS THE EST HOMEMAD TUNA IN TOWN! STAR'S HOMEMADE FAT-FREE TUNA ALSO CAN'T BE BEAT! COMPARE OUR LOW PRICES WITH ANY DELICATESSEN IN TOWN! MEAT TRAY 6.75 STAR'S TRAYS CAN'T BE BEAT FOR QUALITY & PRICE! per person SALAD TRAY $7.50 per person , WE HAVE THE BEST VEGETARIAN Y OUlt-" ma HOPPED LIVER HOMEMADE • ...`44 • ANYWHERE! POTATO SALAD AN D COLE SLAW JN: What about trust? -SF: I trust Burton for the most part now, but, as I say in the book, trust takes years to build and only seconds to destroy. It can take years to weave it again. BF: I trust myself now, and that's just as important as whether Suzy trusts me. JN: What effect has the book and the publicity had on the rest of the family? SR We've always been very private people, but this has helped the whole family bring our feelings into the open, which has been very healing. David Farbman (son): I'm incredibly proud of my parents and the couple they've become. Its been truly unbeliev- able to watch my father transform from a tough, no-nonsense businessman into the most loving, compassionate man I know. JN: What are your future plans? SF: I'm gathering stories from other women for a sequel. I will keep their identities anonymous if they prefer. 113.99,, ON STAR'S BEAUTIFUL ALREADY LOW PRICED MEAT OR DAIRY TRAYS - WITH THIS COUPON • Expires 12-31-04 • One Per Person • Not Good Holidays • 10 Person Minimum Burton and Suzy Farbman and Oprah Winfrey on the "Oprah" set: A first hour of their interview aired May 14; a second hour is scheduled to air in June. JN: What things do you regret the _most? BF: As a businessman, the first thing I learned was that you never cheat a part- ner. Yet Suzy was my life partner, and I did something I'd never do in business: I cheated on her. SF: I realized that many times during the marriage, I had been critical and manipulative instead of loving and accepting. BF: I thought that what I was doing was my business; I didn't realize the effect it had on the whole family, how harmful it was for our children. Hopefully, we've broken that cycle. I didn't understand Suzy's need for her own career. I thought that my career was our career. DAIRY TRAY OFF A BF: We want to dedicate time to lec- ture or host workshops for couples who need help making their marriages work. JN: What are some of the most impor- tant ways your relationship has changed? SF: I can communicate things to Burton that I was always afraid to share, and he listens to me in a way he never did before. BF: We truly are best friends. We've learned to share each other's passions. Would I rather be out riding horses or attending a book signing? Sure, I'd like to be riding, but if Suzy is doing a book signing, then that's where I want to be, by her side, supporting her 100 percent. SF: You don't always get what you want, but you get what you need, and I believe that we needed this in order to be where we are today. ❑ CAVEY CELLA:it A WEEKLY FEATURES SUNDAY Fish & Chips MONDAY Braised Pork Guinness Battered Scrod, Handcut Fries, Fennel Slaw & Tartar $ 1 3 On Creamy Parmesan Polenta with Sweet & Sour Tomato Sauce $19 1-1 /2 TUESDAY lb. Maine Lobster Crabmeat Stuffed Red Bliss Potatoes & Suzy Farbman signs copies of Back from Betrayal at Borders bookstores on the following dates: DINING WEDNESDAY Blackened Prime Rib 14 oz. with Herb Roasted Yukon Gold Potatoes & Au Jus $22 Broccoli - Market Price ROOM AVAILABLE FOR PRIVATE PARTIES AND CORPORATE FUNCTIONS 7 p.m. Thursday, May 27; 34300 Woodward, Birmingham 201 HAMILTON AVE. BIRMINGHAM ■ 2 4 8 . 6 4 2 . 2 4 8 9 842840 PEA .04 RODY5 4- 7 p.m. Wednesday, June 2; 30995 Orchard Lake Road, Farmington Hills 2 p.m. Saturday, June 19; Crossing Circle Mall, Traverse City For more information, or to share your experience for the sequel to Back from Betrayal, visit the Web site at vvww.backfrombetrayal.com . STAR TRAY IS THE FINEST YOU CAN GET! we/ io404, A Birmingham Tradition For 25 Years Entertainment Friday & Saturday Nights Two Hours Free Parking In The Structure Directly Behind Peabody's One Lunch Or 30 ne Dinner Entry I , OFF: When You Buy A Lunch Or Dinner Of Equal Or Greater Value Valid Mon.-Thurs. • With Coupon • Expires 5131104 248.644.5222 34965 Woodward ♦ Just South Of Maple Reservations taken for 8 or more I iN 5/21 840090 2004 89