An Enhanced Reference Guide For Metro Detroit's Jewish Communi The Sacrifice T wo weeks after NFL player Pat Tillman got married in May 2002, he quietly told his coaches and Arizona. . , HARRY Cardinal owri-46I3ill KIRSBAUM Bidwill that he was turning away from a Columnist three-year, $3.6 mil- lion contract to join the armed forces. Tillman gave up the trappings that a multi-million-dollar NFL career could bring, to follow in his father's footsteps: fighting for one's country. He refused all interview requests, and so did his family. He never con- sidered himself any more important than the other men and women who chose to serve. And that was why many -non- sports fans did not know of Tillman until his death on April 22 was announced a day later.. Tillman, an Army Ranger special- ist, was ambushed while on patrol about 12 miles southwest of Khost in Afghanistan. Professional sports figures usually make front-page news by signing huge contracts or landing in the pokey for drunk driving, wife beat- ing or drug using. I filed Tillman's press clippings nearly two years ago and waited to write something when he finally returned to the NFL. But things happen, and the media took firm grasp of this story. By the time I got home from work on Friday, his death led the news. Photos of Tillman in his football jer- sey and Ranger uniform were dis- played on television throughout the weekend; and former coaches, team- mates and political figures provided statements. "Pat Tillman was an inspiration both on and off the football field. As with all who made the ultimate sacrifice in the war on terror, his family is in the thoughts and prayers of President and Mrs. Bush," read the White House statement. "I am heartbroken today by the news of Pat Tillman's death," said Sen. John McCain, R-Ariz., in a statement. "Many American families have suffered the same terrible sacri- fice that Pat's family must now bear, and the patriotism that their loved ones exemplified is as fine and com- pelling as Pat's. But there is in Pat Tillman's example ... such an inspi- ration to all of us to reclaim the essential public-spiritedness of Americans that many of us, in low moments, had worried was no longer our common distinguishing trait." His death put a name on the war on terrorism, said a media talking head. I wonder if the family of Army Specialist Richard Trevithick of Gaines, Mich., felt the same collec- tive loss for Tillman? Trevithick was killed on April 14 when an explosive device went off near his convoy vehicle in Balad, Iraq. No national media types camped out in front of the Trevithick home in Gaines looking for a statement. Gov. Jennifer Granholm did order American flags to fly at half-staff on April 21 throughout Michigan in his honor and memory, but how many of us knew that? There is nothing wrong with headlines about Tillman, a man who gave up millions of dollars to serve his country. But should his death mean more to us than the loss of Trevithick or the 828 U.S. troops who have died so far in Iraq or in Operation Enduring Freedom? Whatever our political bent on the war on terrorism, we should mourn the deaths of these men and women equally. So it was a bit of a shock to read a statement posted by filmmaker Michael Moore on his Web site, written on April 14, ironically on the same day that Trevithick died. "I oppose the U.N. or anyone else risking the lives of their citizens to extract us from our debacle," he said in his Mike's Message column. "I'm sorry, but the majority of Americans supported this war once it began and, sadly, that majority must now sacrifice their children until enough blood has been let that maybe — just maybe — God and the Iraqi people will forgive us in the end." I just hope that the Trevithick family can forgive Moore. 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