Above-Average Jen U-M graduate student joins the cast of top-rated reality TV show. the Conservative Congregation Beth Judea in. Long Grove, Ill.) and how my parents would really like me to end up with a Jewish guy. "Then I held up a card with '52 percent' on it. I said that stood for the intermarriage rate between Jews and non-Jews. I said I didn't want that number to go up any more so they should bring me on the show." What happened in the month between mailing your application and video and being in front of friends, but being the center of attention in front of America is another thing." - How did you keep up with your school work and Ann Arbor time missed from your job at Jewish Family mong the contestants on the currently Service's • Southfield and West Bloomfield offices? running NBC-TV series Average Joe: "Everybody has been so supportive — so helpful. Adam Returns is 23-year-old Jennifer JFS and U-M went out of their way to help me catch Lifshitz, a graduate student in the back up. My parents' main concern was that I will University of Michigan School of Social Work's Sol still graduate on time this May ... And I will." Drachler Program in Jewish Communal Leadership. [Jennifer was in California for a month for the In her own distinctive, vivacious selection process, pre-produc- manner, Lifshitz shares how she made . tion and the taping of the her way from Ann Arbor to the show's episodes.] taping in Palm Springs, Calif., and her What do your friends think experiences once she arrived. about all this? At press time, only two of four "All my friends love it. episodes had aired, with Lifshitz con- They think it's so cool. I'm the tinuing on to the third week's competi- first of my friends who has tion. The dating series' winner will be ever done anything like this." the woman chosen by the show's And your family back in Jewish star, New York trading firm Chicago? partner Adam Mesh, 28. • "It didn't go over very well at first. My parents were not After watching Adam lose out as a amused, but now they're doing contestant on last year's Average Joe, good. They really like what what prompted you to apply to be on they've seen." the show's sequel, with Adam return- Do you have advice for oth- ing as the star, set to choose a love ers looking to do something interest? bold and exciting like trying . "I watched the first show and totally Aimee Silberblatt, 28, of West Bloomfield, Amy Zimmerman, 23, of Bloomfield Hills, Jennifer out for a TV show? fell for Adam. I wanted to write him a "You have to be pretty brave Lifihitz, 23, of Chicago and Liz Greenbaum, 24, of New York watch the premiere of 'Average letter but I heard he had a girlfriend. and open and, if that's your Joe: Adam Returns." But when they announced he was personality, go for it. I never, going to have his own show, I sent in a ever, ever have done anything video." 10.7 million viewers on TV? like this before. >3 "After I was told they liked my video, they had to You certainly took a unique twist with your Has being on TV been all you hoped it would be? video, highlighting your Judaism. How do you do a background check on me. Then I went to L.A. "The whole experience has been a blast — so think being Jewish may have led to your invitation to find out whether or not I'd be on the show. And much fun. People are starting to recognize me. I feel to appear on the show? then we started taping. That's the first time I met like the girl who comes out of the bathroom with Adam. Did you know he went to U-M for under- "I would only like to be dating someone Jewish, so toilet paper on her foot and everyone's staring at • grad?" I used my Jewish communal education to get on the me." show. I started the video by holding up two cards. Whatdiscoveries did you make about yourself The first was a picture of my mom and dad. I said, 'I during the March 15 series premiere? The final two episodes of Average Joe: Adam bet you wonder what this has to do with being on "You can't imagine what it's like until you're there. Returns will air at 10 p.m. Mondays, March the show?' I really learned a lot about myself. I'm very outgoing 29 and April 5, on NBC-TV. and I like to be the center of attention with my "Then I talked about how my dad was a rabbi (of SHELLI LIEBMAN DORFMAN StaffWriter A . ❑ Scene Happenings For college age through 30-something. Send infor- mation to ahitsky@thejewishnews.com March 28 Sunday, 11 a.m.-2 p.m. Hillel of Metro Detroit and EMU Hillel tour and brunch at Holocaust Memorial Center, Farmington Hills. Free. RSVP: Karen Urman at hilleled@wayne.edu or (313) 577-3459. David Sherline, accompanist for JET. At JCC West Bloomfield. $20. RSVP: Alaine Waldshan, (248) 203-1486. April 3 Saturday, 8:30 p.m. Federation YAD event featuring wine, dessert and music by David Appelman, founder of Appelmusic LLC and April 7 Wednesday, 7 p.m. MSU Hillel Poker Tournament, hosted by AEPi, East Lansing. No entry fee. RSVP: Jeff Lazor, pd@msuhillel org