liold'em Tutorial weren't allowed to go to such places. Sometimes, a local rabbi proclaimed that he disagreed, Dr. Kaufman said. And it typically happened in cases when the rabbi gambled himself. Dor VDor In a Commerce Township living room, seven 30-something Jewish men sit around a fold-up card table. The players use fancy Vegas-style striped poker chips, Bellagio Hotel playing cards. A green-felt overset top, with plastic slots for chips and drinks, covers the table. The drinks are soft and the talk is G-rated and work-relat- ed. The group has been playing for about 2'/2 years. They meet every third Tuesday at one of their homes, starting promptly at 7:30 p.m. and ending at 10:15 p.m. These guys have to work in the morning. Some play in other monthly games; most have small children and, like the "study group," most learned as teenagers. Samantha Cohen, 3, approaches her dad, Paul, to give him a good- night kiss. He gives her two chips to throw into the pot, before wishing everyone a good night. Children's books occupy the shelves and toys are neatly piled throughout the house; the signs of being in a young family's home are unmistakable. This Commerce Township family is too young to have decades-old family photographs hanging on the walls, but the poker games and the camaraderie that come with it are ageless and will go on from generation to generation. ❑ Below: Morris Prostak of Southfield rakes in a winning hand Bottom: Samantha Cohen, 3, of Commerce Township helps her father, Paul, ante up as Steve Teper of Farmington Hills watches. HARRY KIRSBAUM Staffriter I t's been called the Cadillac of poker games and has insinu- ated itself into television on a nightly basis from the World Poker Tour on the Travel Channel to Celebrity Poker on the Bravo Channel, to Late Night Poker on Fox Sports, to the World Series of J Katz of West Bloomfield. Leff Poker on ESPN. the whole tournament very early on." They're not lying when they say Ruby plays Internet tournaments, "Texas Hold'em takes a minute to mostly limit games. He spends some learn and a lifetime to master." winter months in Vegas and knows Texas Hold'em basics: where and where not to play. • Up to 10 players per table, and a And the old adage is true. round of bets after every deal. "If you're playing for 20 minutes • Each player is dealt two hole and you don't know who the sucker (face-down) cards. • Three community (face-up) cards, is, its you," he says. "Remember that. Any poker game, anywhere." called "the flop," are dealt. Patience is a great virtue in limit • A fourth community card, called poker, he adds. "You gotta bide your "the turn," is dealt. time, but in no-limit, fearlessness and • The fifth community card, "the being able to read the other person are river," is dealt, followed by a final the greater virtues. round of bets. When you get into high • The best five-card hand - stakes, then the no-limit pro wins. can smell it like a dog," he A world of difference in said. "These guys have a sixth temperament separates those sense. who play limit Hold'em from Tells, those nervous tics or those who play no-limit, habits that help opponents where a player can bet his or know if a person is bluffing or her entire stack of chips at any Ruby holding a monster hand, work time, says Carl Ruby of West only when the stakes are high, he said. Bloomfield, who has played both. "People playing within their means "In limit Hold'em, the limits start won't have a lot of tells because no very low, and if you get a bad beat or one hand is going to be that impor- play a hand wrong, you're not out of the tournament," he says. "No-limit is tant," he said. "And if they do anyway, that's too bad. Maybe they should so mentally tiring and so draining. If take up some other game." 17 you play one hand poorly or you lose your concentration, it can cost you Too Much Gambling? Playing poker or other games of chance can be addictive and derail a person's life. Addictive personalities are hard- wired in the pursuit of pleasure, says George Surowy, an addictions thera- pist at the Maplegrove Center in West Bloomfield. Surowy works • closely with Temple Shir Shalom in West Bloomfield, which hosts Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous meetings. For information on gambling addic- tion, contact Gamblers Anonymous, Michigan Hotline Number: (313) 792 - 2877; or isomain@gamblersanonymous.org 3/12 2004 25