A Perfect Rabbi Elliot Pachter is hailed for a decade of spiritual leadership at B'nai Moshe. SHELLI LIEBMAN DORFMAN StaffWriter I t was Shabbat morning, Aug. 1, 1992, and Congregation B'nai Moshe members eagerly filed through the tall, echoing hallways of their 2- month-old synagogue building to be greeted by their new rabbi. "It was a very exciting time for me," Rabbi Elliot Pachter recalls of the welcome he received that day. "In addition to being at a new building and a new congrega- tion, I was becoming the head rabbi for the first time in my career." Now, the rabbi and wife, Naomi Weckstein, and their sons Gabriel, 11, and Jonathan, 9, are celebrating their first decade at B'nai Moshe. Keeping track of time in terms of personal milestones marked with the congregation, Rabbi Pachter said, "Ten years at B'nai Moshe means the time from Jonathan's brit milcih in 1994 to Gabriel's bar mitzvah Shabbat in 2004, God willing. This year, on Shavuot, Naomi and I will celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary. All of these sacred events are with our B'nai Moshe family in the sanctuary." Rabbi Pachter's personable style and attention to his flock has won the hearts of his congregants. "It is nice to belong to a shul where the rabbi actually knows the names of our members, and about them," . said Alisa Peskin-Shepherd. "It is important to know you can depend on your rabbi for simchahs and in times of need, to answer all kinds of questions, and that you can be friends with your rabbi. I want my children to know this as well, to help them to have a connection with and stay connected to Judaism. "I feel that with Elliot as our rabbi we are achieving this." Always A Rabbi Born in Grand Rapids, Elliot Pachter grew up active at Congregation Ahavas Israel, as were his parents, Sidney and Sylvia, and brothers, Michael and Larry. He was the regular Torah reader there at age 12. He was United Synagogue Youth (USY) president of the Grand Rapids chapter, which was a member of the same region as B'nai Moshe. "I was at B'nai Moshe for a Shabbaton in 1974," he remembers. "I had met B'nai Moshe members — including Arlene Wohl (now Millman) who is now one of my mem- bers — when they had come to Grand Rapids for a kinnus [retreat] the prior winter.'' He also held a posi- tion on the regional board for two years, traveled on the USY Israel Pilgrimage and attended the _ Conservative Camp Ramah in Wisconsin. After graduating from East Grand Rapids High School, where he played varsity basketball, he continued on the course of Conservative Jewish leadership. A Hebrew major at the University of Michigan, he spent his senior year in Israel at Midreshet Yerushalayim, an affili- ate of the Jewish Theological Seminary of Rabbi Pachter in the sanctuary at Ynai Moshe. America (JTS). After earning both a helped to guide him to where he is today. 'All three master's degree and rabbinic ordination from the JTS men, of blessed memory, were influential in helping me Rabbinical School in 1987, he spent two years as a rab- and the congregation grow together in the past decade," binic intern for Rabbi Myron Fenster at the Shelter he said. Rock Jewish Center in New York. Rabbi Pachter came For the last five years, Rabbi Pachter has shared the to B'nai Moshe after spending five years as associate bimah and clergy duties with Cantor Earl Berris. rabbi at Adat Shalom Synagogue in Farmington Hills. "We both have the same idea of a partnership Inspiring Clergy "The growth of the congregation and the influx of new and often younger families has been exhilarating," said the rabbi of the 92-year-old congregation. "But I am also proud to boast of many members who have been part of B'nai Moshe for 40, 50 or even more years." Rabbi Pachter was greatly inspired by late B'nai Moshe leaders Cantor Louis Klein, Sexton Shalom Ralph and Torah Reader Abram Rabinovitz, who he said between a rabbi and chazzan," Cantor Berris said. 'Along with being mutually admiring professional col- leagues, we are truly friends and like family." Outside The Sanctuary In 1996, Rabbi Pachter, along with B'nai Moshe mem- ber Nancy Kaplan and then-Beth Abraham Hillel Moses A PERFECT 10 on page 54 - IN • 3/28 2003 53