CELEBRATE! Standing Under The Chuppah In Paradise Adoption • A Business • A New Start An Education • A New or Used Car Summer Camp • Family Simcha A Trip to Israel • Living Expenses Medical Needs • Home Improvement Call us for an appointment today at (248) 723-8184 FletNiA4: www.amarylliscatering.com Same Delicious Food Unsurpassed Service Exciting Tabletop Design F 14„ CATE RING AND PARTY PLANNING 275 E. Frank • Birmingham 248.645.1770 • Fax 248.645.2068 email: info@amarylliscatering.com 698970 fi'rferi, our tgietqW aftii, We are tilnogte & ttv. to ovtd°, 04:1° 3/28 2003 PEARL SALKIN Special to the Jewish News A bride, a groom and a chup- pahh. Palm trees swaying in a balmy breeze. Blue skies and an aquamarine sea. Sandpipers and plovers running along the sandy shore. Yerushalayim Shel Zahav (Jerusalem of Gold) played by a steel drum band. This isn't your grandmother's wed- ding. In today's mobile, global society, many Jewish couples are taking their wedding show on the road. Instead of exchanging vows at the typical syna- gogue, catering hall or hotel in the bride's hometown, dream weddings are taking place in dozens of exotic loca- tions. For some lucky couples who want to stand under the chuppah in paradise, Jewish weddings aren't what and where they used to be. According to Victoria Lewis, a Jewish wedding consultant whose company, Island Dreaming, is located in Nassau, the Bahamas, the populari- ty of tropical island weddings is grow- ing, especially among Jewish couples. Although a huge, elaborate affair far from home can be very pricey, surpris- ingly, more affordable wedding cere- mony/reception packages for smaller groups are attracting many hardwork- ing young couples who are paying for their own dream come true. So you've decided that a black-tie wedding extravaganza in the ballroom of a posh hotel for 500 of your distant relatives, parents' friends and business associates isn't what you had in mind? You're not into high heels and high society? You veto that plan in favor of invit- ing just a few dozen close buddies and family members to share your special day in a little dot on the map where the air is clean and the hassles of everyday life are an ocean away. You still want to hear the Sheva Brachot (seven wedding blessings) and partake in all the other rituals. But the thought of a Calypso group singing Hava Nagilah at your seaside reception as you kick off your shoes and dance the horah along the shoreline sounds so sweet. Paradise Rabbi Now what? Anyone got a chuppah to go? Fear not. Geoff Hurst, appointed by the registrar of the Bahamas as the first Jewish Bahamian. marriage officer, president of the Freeport Hebrew Congregation (Reform) and adminis- trator of the Luis de Torres Synagogue, can drive or fly to your desired Bahamas hideaway. He can conduct a traditional Jewish wedding ceremony complete with that chuppah, kosher wine, kiddush cup, ketubah and all the blessings and cus- toms that you can handle. Although not a traditionally trained rabbi, Hiirst has approval to perform weddings by the Union of American Hebrew Congregations, the governing body of the Reform movement. He can officiate at his Freeport synagogue or in any one of the islands' romantic settings. They range from elegant gar- den gazebos to secluded surfside estates. He doesn't mind the sand in his shoes or the sea spray in his face. And if you think that marrying couples is an easy way for this retired English pharmacist to get rich, you're wrong.