Obi 'lades Obituaries are updated regularly and archived on JN Online: www.detroitjewishnews.corn A Life Of Reaching Out Temple Israel's M Robert Syme touched generations of Detroiters. SHELLI LIEBMAN DORFMAN StaffWriter R abbi M. Robert Syme "had the unique ability to make you feel he really, really knew you — like you were truly special," said his Temple Israel colleague Rabbi Paul Yedwab. "He was a wonderful, charming, sil- ver-tongued orator, but his real talent was one-on-one." When Rabbi Syme of West Bloomfield died March 11 at age 82, after a long illness and home hospice care, he left behind a legacy touching thousands of lives and turning his congregation at Temple Israel into the largest of families. "He was a universalist," said his son Rabbi Daniel Syme of Temple Beth El. "He loved and respected all people — both non Jews and Jews of all dif- ferent levels of observance — and always looked for the best in everyone. Everyone he touched has a story:" "His life was dedicated to reaching out to people, and they, in turn, reached out to him," said Jerome S. Kaufman of Bloomfield Hills, national secretary of the Zionist Organization of America. "People would never stop greeting him and reminding him of how he was of such great help to them at some diffi- cult time in their life." Ida Nathan's career path was guided by Rabbi Syme. "I don't think he ever realized what an impact he had on so many people," said Nathan of Bloomfield Hills. "I never went to Sunday school or religious school, but as an adult, I took all the wonderful classes he taught. One day he came to me and asked, 'Would you like to teach second grade?' He was my men- tor, and I ended up teaching at Temple Israel for 41 years." "He was a man of action who could cast a giant shadow and take some- thing he believed in and make it hap- pen," said Rabbi E.B. "Bunny" Freedman, executive director of Jewish Hospice and Chaplaincy Network in Southfield. "He was the one who helped estab- lish a Jewish presence in hospice in Detroit. When I first started working in hospice care, he came to me and asked what he could do to make Jewish hospice a reality. If not for Rabbi Syme and his energy and formi- dable support and belief, there would be no Jewish hospice today." Rabbi M Robert Syme Zionist And Interfaith Links Rabbi Syme "was active in virtually every inter-religious and Jewish organ- ization in Detroit," Rabbi Daniel Syme said of his father, who was presi- dent of the Family Service Society of Metropolitan Detroit, and a member Doctor of Divinity degree by Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in New York. A Zionist since his youth, he remained a staunch supporter of Israel and made introducing his congrega- "We have all been blessed by his warmth and wisdom." - Rabbi Irwin Groner, Congregation Shaarey Zedek of the Rabbinical Advisory Council of the United Jewish Appeal and the Commission on Jewish Education of the Union of American Hebrew Congregations. He marched on Washington with Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and was the first rabbi to speak at Royal Oak's Shrine of the Little Flower (the former church of Father Charles Coughlin, the anti-Semitic radio priest). Among his many honors, Rabbi Syme was a recipient of the Jewish National Fund's Keter Shem Tov (Crown of the Good Name) award and was bestowed with an honorary tion to Israel a primary goal. "Rabbi Syme was an ardent Zionist, a past president of the Zionist Organization of Michigan, a past recipient of the Louis Brandeis Award [and] a proud Jew who reveled in his heritage," Kaufman said. • Rabbi Syme received the ZOA's Justice Louis D. Brandeis Award in 1991, later earned by his son, Rabbi Daniel. The family commitment to Israel also was passed down to Daniel's son, Josh, 24. "My strong commitment to Israel came from my grandfather," said Josh, who has been to Israel on seven occa- sions, including twice as a youth leader. "My love for Judaism and my connection with interfaith groups also came from him." Also a patriotic American, the rabbi, born in Winnepeg, Canada, on June 25, 1920, began celebrating his birth- day on July 4 instead when he became an American citizen. Rabbi Syme's involvement in inter- religious issues earned him the Southfield-based Ecumenical Institute for Jewish-Christian Studies' first Dove Award in 1994. Introduced to the rabbi through interfaith work, Frank D. Stella of Detroit, a friend of 30 years, said, "I learned so much about the Jewish faith from him. I also learned about life from watching his unselfish and simple way of caring and giving to the poor and his understanding of what people needed. He had a sense of when someone needed help before they could ask for it." Family Ties Rabbi Syme left the legacy of the value and appreciation of family to his sons, Rabbi Daniel and David Syme. Rabbi Syme lived his last year in the home of David and his wife, Victoria. "I was so proud to be his son," said SYME on page 124 TN 3/14 2003 123