WIN THIS C A R EDITOR'S NOTEBOOK Build Bridges On A Firm Foundation I f your intent is to try to forge better relations between Jews and Muslims, beware of engaging in private dialogues until you're sure the other person shares your values about human life. Be sure they have the courage to denounce terrorism of any ilk and suicide bombings against Jews in particular. And be sure they have the conviction to appreciate why such vio- lence is wrong. Don't be duped. So says Yehudit Barsky, director of the Division on Middle East and International Terrorism for the American Jewish Committee, one of American Jewry's top watchdog and advocacy groups. And her advice is worth heeding. It's laudable to try to build bridges of understanding and new friendships with Muslims, who have religious ties to some of Judaism's most sacred sites. But, as Bars advises, seek out mainstream Muslims. Avoid fundamentalist radicals, known as Islamists, who account for only 10 percent ROBERT A. of all Muslims but unfortunately make up a higher percentage of their leadership. And SKLAR be sure the standards of those you approach, Editor or who approach you, mirror yours. In some cases, they will. Sheik Muhammad Hisham Kabbani of the Fenton-based Islamic Supreme Council of America's spiritual retreat is on record blasting the brand of terror Israelis know all too well. Barsky confirms that Sheik Kabbani's group recognizes the common heritage of Islam, Christianity and Judaism. Conflict will mar other cases. For example, Islamists will justify suicide bombings as a byproduct of Israel's forced military occupation of parts of the West Bank and Gaza, or as a legitimate means to break the will of so-called Israeli aggressors. "What's the point of having a dialogue with someone who essentially condones the murder of Jews?" asks Barsky. "You dishonor our community by sitting with someone who says that. You also send the message to moderate Muslims who might speak up and condemn terror- ism publicly that our standards are not the same as those of mainstream religion, where everyone roundly condemns murder. We don't want to send that mes- sage." I concur: It's wrong to forsake moral standards for superficial ties. Barsky, who is fluent in Arabic, has been based at the AJCommittee's national headquarters since 1999. Her job involves tracking militants via newspaper coverage, their writings and speeches, interviews and other informational pipelines. But she strives for a balanced outlook. "I come to this job with the very basic thing your parents . teach you when you are very short: that there are good peo- ple and there are bad people," Barsky says. "If someone says they're a leader of the Muslim communi- ty," she says, "you need to use the same standards in dealing with that person as you would in dealing with a leader of our community. If murder is wrong in Judaism, then mur- der is wrong in Islam. If suicide is wrong in Judaism, then it is wrong in Islam." She cites the case of Boruch Goldstein, a Brooklyn-born surgeon living in the West Bank settlement of Kiryat Arba. He fired 100 bullets from an automatic weapon at Muslim worshippers in Hebron's Cave of the Patriarchs during Ramadan in 1994, killing 29. "We openly condemned him," Barsky says. She expects the same reaction from Muslim leaders when a follower of Islam commits an atrocity. Instead, Islamists like Al Qaida terrorist Osama bin Laden and Palestinian leader Yasser Arafat, Barsky says, "have basi- cally turned a mainstream religion upside down, inside out and on its head — and are abusing it for the purpose of rad- ical causes. "This is definitely a very difficult area, like a minefield." The world backdrop is disheartening. The 28-month Palestinian battle against Israel has taken the lives of at least 736 Israelis and foreign civilians, including four Israeli sol- diers killed last Shabbat morning when they unwittingly tripped a roadside land mine as they drove their tank in northern Gaza. ENTER JARC's "Drive Away In A Dream" Raffle! ONLY 2,500 TICKETS SOLD! FIRST PRIZE 2003 Ford Thunderbird SECOND PRIZE $10,000 Cash THIRD PRIZE $5,000 Cash TWO EASY WAYS TO PURCHASE TICKETS! $100 Each or 5 for 5 400 Respecting Knowledge Barsky confirms that metro Detroit has the third highest con- centration of people of Arab descent in the world. She also confirms that some local mosques are hostile to Israel - and to Jews. "That's why I feel great empathy for your communi- ty here," she says. "You usually are in the middle of it. You really have an intense concentration of the Muslim community here, which you don't have in, say, California or New York." Leaders with a double standard have swayed many Muslims, her research has found. Such leaders will Sharon a renounce terrorism when speaking to Jews, but in the Shapiro comfort of their mosques will preach a radical theology Sharing Insights branding Jews as evil — descendants of apes and pigs. A thoughtful, articulate woman with a keen sense of "A friend of mine calls it the Tasser Arafat' effect," Barsky Judaism's commitment to tikkun olam, to repairing the says. "You say one thing in English and something else in world, Barsky visited the Detroit Jewish News last week. The Arabic." former Anti-Defamation League research analyst was in the I agree with her that a conversation will be fruitless if you area for two days to meet with lay and professional leaders . can't start with acceptance that martyrdom in the terrorist sense of the AJCommittee's Detroit Metropolitan Chapter. is repulsive. Barsky gives this scenario: "People will say, 'This is Sharona Shapiro, executive director of the Bloomfield the best person we can have a dialogue with right now.' I Township-based chapter, accompanied Barsky to our would say, 'OK, maybe right now is not the time for a dia- Southfield offices before taking the New Yorker to Bishop logue with somebody who can't condemn straightforwardly International Airport in Flint to catch an outbound flight. murder, because that's what it is.'" "She updated us on the nuances of the rhetoric and of To have a robust dialogue that brings change, she says, both who the players are and what's happening," Shapiro says. "It sides must embrace, upfront, the history, background, context wasn't something inflammatory, just basic information." and impact of what's at issue. "I think people might have the impression I deal with just I also see worth in talking to fence-sitting Muslims who what's nasty, so think I've become very, very extreme," show a willingness to significantly change the prism that Barsky says. "That's not the case. But I'm not an in-the- controls their view of the world. clouds dreamer, either." ❑ 0 LOG ON www.jarc.org 0 CALL 248-538-6610 Ext. 444 Drawing is Thursday, March 20, 2003 Avis Ford —Southfield, MI Winners need not be present to win. • jarc 30301 Northwestern Highway Suite 100 Farmington Hills, Ml 48334 Founded 33 years ago, JARC is a Michigan non-profit, non-sectarian organization that helps people with disabilities be fully included in community life. State of Michigan Raffle #69727. For complete raffle rules visit www.jarc.org . 2/21 2003 5