A New Home Congregation Chaye Olam and its school move to Farmington Hills. SHELLI LIEBMAN DORFMAN Stair Writer 4 I f the success of a synagogue can be measured by the knowl- edge and Jewish identity it provides its children, Rhonda Shink believes she has found a per- fect match for her daughters at Congregation Chaye Olam. "I want my girls to end up being very happy, self-assured Jewish women who will participate and practice their religion," says Shink of West Bloomfield. In the four months since the new synagogue was formed by Cantor Stephen Dubov, Shink and more than 100 other new members have seen it go from a hope and a dream to a full-fledged synagogue — with weekly services, a religious school and now, a move into a more perma- nent home. A Shabbat service at 7:30 p.m. Friday, Jan. 3, will mark the official move of the congregation to the International School of Arts and Languages in Farmington Hills. Preceding the service, a dinner will be held at the Sheik restaurant in West Bloomfield. An entire new wing — six class- rooms and a chapel-sanctuary area — at the International School will be used by the synagogue. Classes and services were previ- ously held at Green Elementary School in West Bloomfield. Eighteen religious-school stu- dents, kindergarten through sixth- grade, have been meeting since October. Enrollment is under way for grades 7-12, with classes begin- ning the first week of January. Both of Skink's daughters, Kyra, 9, and Hannah, 6, are students in the school. "I spent all of last year learning for my [adult] bat mitzvah," says Shink, who studied with Cantor Dubov while they were both at Temple Beth El. "Kyra met with him there on Sunday mornings for prayer services and also was in the Rochelle lmber's Knit Knit Knit 855.2114 www.knitknitknit.com Accents in Needlepoint 626.3042 Orchard Mall West Bloomfield Cantor Stephen Dubov outside Chaye Olam's New Home. choir with him." Both Kyra and Hannah are now in the Chaye Olam choir. "The minute we read that he was opening up the new temple, I told my husband, David, we had to go wherever the cantor was going," Shink says. "At first Kyra did not like the idea of switching schools, but now that she's there, she couldn't be happier." It was important for Shink that her children's Jewish education was something they wanted. "I didn't want them to go to religious school because their parents tell them they have to go, but rather because they love our religion. I think Chaye Olam has achieved that." Both the cantor and his wife, Christine, teach at the religious school. "Our entire Hebrew school will know how to read Hebrew by the end of the year," Cantor Dubov says. The Jan. 3 Shabbat service, "Shabbat Salaam (Arabic for peace)" is intended to bring together Jews and Arabs to foster peace for the new year. The speaker for the evening will be congregant Asa Shani, board member of Seeds of Peace, an international organization that fosters understanding among teens from areas of conflict such as the Middle East. The name Chaye Olam, meaning "eternal life was given to us all," sig- nifies that "every human being is created b'tselem Elohim [in God's image]," says the cantor. ❑ XN>36>WWW>01 V rISUAL EMOR I ES PHOTOGRAPHY V Give a Gift of Love V FULL SERVICE STUDIO • Weddings • Bat Mitzvah • Bar Mitzvah • Children • Families FREE Digital Flip Book on CD ROM of your event For information about Congregation Chaye Olam at the International School of Arts and Languages at 28555 Middlebelt, Farmington Hills, or reservations for the Jan. 3 dinner ($15/adults, $7.50/youth), call (248) 752-6669. (new contracts only) Phone (248) 960-6121 1480 www.detroitjewishnews.com Find out before your mother! 12/27 2002 43