http :Iiirakaufman.comI Q: My six- and eight-year old children are very close to their grandfather who's dying and in Hospice care. I want to bring them to the Chapel, but not the cemetery. Is this the right decision? A: I'm often asked this question. Remember, what children see is often less frightening than what they imagine. I find it best to discuss the entire process from death to burial prior to the funeral. Knowing what to expect usually allows them to participate throughout. THE KAUFMAN COMMUNITY CORNER The Michigan Jewish AIDS Coalition presents Word AIDS Day, 1:00 pm, Sun, Dec 1, 2002 at the Jewish Community Center in West Bloomfield. MJAC sponsors World AIDS Day, 1:00 pm, Sun, Dec 1, 2002 at the JCC's D. Dan and Betty Kahn Building on The Eugene and Marcia Applebaum Jewish Community Campus. World AIDS Day is observed around the globe with news and events to highlight progress made and reminding the public what still needs to be done. A candlelight memorial will commemorate those who died from HIV/AIDS. Event is free and open to public. Raffle tickets available in advance and at door. Raffle tickets $100 each. Grand prize $10,000. All proceeds go ,to MJAC. For more information, 248-94-MJAC THE IRA KAUFMAN CHAPEL 18325 West Nine Mile Road, Southfield, MI 48075 248-569-0020 • Facsimile 248-569-2502 Monuments & Markers • Monument Duplicating HEBREW MEMORIALS BY: HEBREW MEMORIAL CHAPEL fi ~ n b aLob 'Set a pillar upon Der grabe: tbat is the pillar of 3EtarDet'st grabe unto Ibis bap SERVING ALL CEMETERIES (248) 543-3874 Fax #(248) 543-7421 26640 Greenfield Rd. Oak Park, MI 48237 O•entlitt Expert Consultation - Select Quality Granite 11/29 2002 134 Be sure to get your wedding picture in the Jewish News. Call Sy Monello with your information at: 248.539.3001 may be made to a charity of one's choice. Arrangements by Dorfman Chapel. ROBERT SILLMAN, 79, of Southfield, died Nov. 24, 2002. He was a housewares manufacturers representative and a World War II Air Force veteran. He also read books and periodicals for DRIS; read on radio for the blind and sang with a bar- bershop quartet. Mr. Sillman is sur- vived by his son and daughter-in-law, David Sillman and Robert .Missy Bowers of Sillman Georgia; daughter and son-in-law, Amy Sillman and Michael Smith; grand- daughter, Teagrin Bowers; compan- ion of 14 years, Claire Bronson; her children, Daniel and Honey Bronson, Michael and Jane Bronson; their children, Sarah Rose Bronson, Jennifer Bronson and Benjamin Bronson; brother and sis- ter-in-law, Jerome and Judy Sillman of Florida; sister-in-law, Maurine Sillman. He was the loving brother of the late Herbert Sillman. Interment at Oakview Cemetery. Contributions may be made to a charity of one's choice. Arrangements by Ira Kaufman Chapel. JULIAN S. UNGER, 84, formerly of Huntington Woods of Vero Beach, Fla., died Nov. 18, 2002. He was the owner of Bond Steel Co. and Unger Public Warehouse Inc. in Wayne. A silver life master bridge player, he was also an avid sports fisherman and tennis player. He also served on the board of directors of the Coleman Foundation for the Retarded. Mr. Unger is survived by his . wife, Polly Unger; daughters and son-in- law, Connie and Jerry Wolberg of Huntington Woods, Kim McWhorter of Bethesda, Md.; son and daughter-in-law, Mark and Flo Unger',of Huntington Woods; grandchildren, Lyle and Sheryl Wolber ,'Amy and Eric Butte, Max and Tyle Unger, Andrew McWhor er; stepchildren and grandchil ren, Bill and Maida Cantle of os Angeles, Claudia and Dexter Sie er of Harrison Township, Tracy and Tom Meissner, Leigh and Mike Meissner, Sean and Elizabeth Sieger; six great-grandchil- - dren. He was the brother of the late Mickey Unger. Memorial services were held in Vero Beach. Arrangements by Strunk Funeral Home. WILLIAM "BILL" ZIMMER- MANN, 59, of Farmington Hills, died Nov. 20, 2002. He is survived by his beloved wife, Judith; sons and daughter-in- law, Dan and Jennifer Zimmermann of Bloomfield Township, Dr. Jay Zimmermann of Charlottesville, Va.; brother, Fred Zimmermann of New Fairfield, Conn.; brother-in- law and sister-in-law, Barbara and Stan Greenberg; mother, Irene Levitz. He was the dear brother of the late Marge Leger. Interment at Beth El Memorial Park Cemetery. Contributions may be made to the Habitat for Humanity, 14325 Jane St., Detroit, MI .48205 or the Jewish Education Loan Service, c/o JVS, Attn: JELS Program, 29699 Southfield Road, Southfield, MI 48076. Arrange- ments by Dorfman Chapel. Photos Welcome The Jewish News will be happy to publish photographs of the deceased in all obituaries. There is no charge. Photos should be clear, and must have been taken within the last 10 years. Only the individ- ual will be' published. We reserve the right to reject any photo- graph. Unfortunately, we cannot use scanned photos. 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