Spanish," reveals a male sportswear man- ufacturer, 30. "It keeps me entertained." The author had no inhibitions about talking to strangers and was told that many of the quirks stemmed from childhood. And her own? "I spend my dirty money first," she declares. Judy Reiser speaks noon Sunday, Nov. 17, at the Jewish Community Center in West Bloomfield. Midlift Crisis Jan King was not raised in a Jewish home, but she puts "Jewish shtick" into her books and presentations. King, author of When You're Hot, You're Hot (How I Laughed My Way Through Menopause) (Andrews McMeel; $10.95), can trace elements of her humor to cutting through life experiences, gaining perspective from her Jewish husband and visiting come- dy clubs close to home. Her title refers to the hot flashes often experienced by women in menopause, uncomfortable when they occurred in her life but an easy source for her style of poking fun. "Menopause was spitting in my face like an Egyptian cobra," she writes in the beginning of her personal revela- tion, "but I was floating on DeNile." While King's book is dominated by humor, often in the one-liner style of standup comics, there are somber moments, set aside with the heading "But Seriously ... ." The most jarring has to do with her fight against breast cancer at this very emotional time of her life. "Everything I write has a basis in truth," says King, also the author of Hormones from Hell, It's a Mom Thing and It a Girl Thing. "Talking about breast cancer wasn't that easy, but once I knew I was going to stay alive, it was my duty to talk about it. I think my style of writing and speaking is a great way to get the message across." King brings more to her subject than personal experience. A former high-school biology teacher, she also taught sex education. Between the funny stuff are medical facts she thinks 40-50ish women — and those around them — should know. King's previous visits to Michigan were at the request of the once-popu- lar Company TV show hosted by Marilyn Turner and John Kelly. Her invitations were to open discussions about her earlier writing topics. "When I write my books, I think about women in my age group," says King, whose upcoming work, Red Hot Mamas, explores female empowerment. "I'm just starting another book about women's programming on television." PRODUCCO BY FELD ENTERTAINMENI Jan King speaks 10 a.m. Friday, Nov. 15, at the Jewish Community Center in Oak Park and 1 p.m. Friday, Nov. 15, at the Jewish Community Center in West Bloomfield. 62,Aur-Ossetis Sexual Preference Lev Raphael, a writer who has stud- ied and taught at Michigan State University, is among the essayists in Found Tribe (Sherman Asher Publishing: $15.95), a book of person- al revelations by gay Jewish men. Editor Lawrence Schimel, who sought and selected the final essays, includes his own story in this collection. His earlier works include books on many subjects from gay expression to children's stories unrelated to sexuality. "Found Tribe is mostly about com- munities and overlapping communi- ties," says Schimel, who lives most of the year in Spain because he finds the environment more humane. "It's about how to create space within a larger community and how to recognize com- munities that gay groups have created." Schimel's book introduces 17 men talking about family life, frustrations and fulfillments. Some are very explic- it in describing their expression of self physically and emotionally. Raphael, in "To Be a Jew," moves from his early years to his time in Michigan, where he found a long-term partner and became in touch with rit- ual. Schimel, in "My Father's Tattoos or, Family Outing" explains how his coming out of the closet reconnected family and friends. Edward Cohen, in "Choreographer," explores his relationship with his father, and Gabriel Blau, in "Two Truths: Living as a Religious Gay Jew," disclos- es reactions in Orthodox settings. "I like anthologies because they bring a lot of different voices together, offer an element of surprise and create an opportunity for new voices to be heard," says Schimel, who has spoken on "Out of the Closet, Out of This World: Minority Cultures in Fantasy and Science Fiction" at Wayne State University. "Anthologies show that there's not just one way to be." ❑ Lawrence Schimel speaks 5 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 17, at the Jewish Community Center in West Bloomfield. Wed. NOV. 6 * 7 z 3 0 PM I Thu. OPENING NIGHT ALL TICKETS $10! (Excluding VIP Seats) 7:30 PM I Sat. Fri. I I Sun. 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