EDITOR'S NOTEBOOE N 5 1. ONN 0 0.- N 1 5 5 kl Ik LightingThe Lamp Of Learning in the Jewish state during the Yom Kippur War of 1973. merican Jews are walking a spiritual tightrope as So there's resonance when he argues that we, the American they confront the threats of assimilation, intermar- Jewish community, rely on sending our kids to Israel "to riage and apathy. drink this well of Jewish identity because it cannot, or is not, These threats have made it hard to pinpoint being provided adequately in America." what Dr. Leonard Lachover of West Bloomfield calls "the He piqued my interest by maintaining that we see our- essential identity of the American Jew and the essential con- selves as "collective Holocaust survivors in order to shore up tribution of American Jews to Judaism." Jewish identity" and that we're "far more dependent on Israel Blasphemous as it may sound, he says, we've allowed the than Israel is on American Jewry." Holocaust and Israel to dominate the shaping of our collec- He says he's not minimizing the impact of 6 million tive identity for too long. deaths, "an event that will scar our lives forever," or the rise "Are we facing an identity crisis of such vast proportions of a Jewish state "from the ashes of the most destructive that we struggle to formulate our own shape event in Jewish history." Rather, he's urging that we shed and form?" he asked in a sermon this sum- complacency so we don't become adrift when not anchored mer at Congregation Shaarey Zedek B'nai by these two momentous events. Israel Center in West Bloomfield. "We must begin to look within ourselves," he says, "for "What will sustain us as a people in the our identity, our character and our contribution to the con- richest and freest country in history, blessed tinuity of Jewish life." with a constitution that allows us to enter I concur with him that remembering the Holocaust and the mainstream of American life and blend supporting the Jewish state only are not enough to assure the almost imperceptibly into the fabric of passage of our heritage from one generation to the next. ROBERT A. American society?" . We need something more. Both are powerful questions. SKLAR Like Dr. Lachover, a psychiatrist, I admit- Editor The Linchpins tedly don't have the answers. Still, I'm intrigued by his way of thinking. I'm struck by the force of the punch Dr. Lachover delivers in I didn't hear his July 27 sermon, but a mutual quoting Rabbi Arthur Hertzberg, who teaches reli- friend, Rachel Kapen of West Bloomfield, e-mailed gion at Dartmouth College in Hanover, N.H.: me a copy. And I found it compelling. "American society no longer forces Jews to In it, Dr. Lachover relates how, years ago, he assimilate into the dominant culture. It is possible noticed visitors going from shelf to shelf at the Jewish in this new of age of America to evaporate out of Community Center of Metropolitan Detroit's annual being Jewish without making, a decision to be any- Jewish Book Fair, leafing through pages of the newest thing else." publications. Most of the books were about the histo- After nearly four generations, Dr. Lachover says, ,,, ry of the Holocaust or the creation of the State of "the impact of the European Jewish experience on 4b American Jewish identity is nearly spent." Israel. Dr. Leonard Unwittingly, the native Detroiter then imagines the Lachover He adds, "A community cannot survive on what shelves empty, as if there had there been no Shoah or it remembers. It will persist only because of what it affirms and what it believes." statehood. "I became haunted by the irreverence of my own think- I agree with that, mostly. In my Judaism, remembrance - ing," he says. "The shelves became, to me, the abstract repre- from our history to our ideals to our dead — is integral. sentation of American Jewish identity." In citing Dennis Prager — a theologian, author and high- ly respected thinker — Dr. Lachover hits on another linch- pin to Judaism. The home should be the center of a family's Shaping Identity Jewish universe, not the synagogue or the JCC. Unless living HaMadafim Dr. Lachover sees his sermon — titled Jewishly — not just being Jewish — percolates at home, ("Empty Shelves") — as a "symbolic representa- HaRaikim there's little chance it will do so elsewhere. tion" of the identity crisis looming for American Jewry. Dr. Lachover begins to zero in on "the essential contribu- I was both taken aback and prompted to ponder when he tion of American Jews to Judaism" when he brings up reli- declared that allowing our kids to visit Israel, either on a gious pluralism. Nowhere does Judaism offer so many dis- mission or through study abroad, has helped shape their tinctive streams than in America. The choices have given identity more "than any amount of time spent in the after- many Jews who otherwise wouldn't drink from Judaism's noon Hebrew schools." Dr. Lachover's background includes spiritually nourishing waters a reason to believe: current service on the board of the Friends of the Israel Because of these choices, Jewish learning is on the Defense Forces Michigan Chapter and past service on the upswing at all age levels in America, especially among adults. board of the former United Hebrew Schools in Detroit. It is they who are the role models for impressionable Based on my experience in the community, I wouldn't be teenagers, the nucleus of a future generation of Jewish lead- so quick to discount the base of Jewish identity provided by ers. local Hebrew schools. Synagogues and the Jewish Federation Like I do, Dr. Lachover senses "a desire in America to keep of Metropolitan Detroit are investing more money than ever Jewish culture and identity strong by lighting the lamp of to improve the staff, curriculum and resources of our after- Jewish learning." noon learning programs. Still, these programs are not equal But we can't ignore the multi-layered challenge he lays out to the quality of Jewish day schools, which themselves don't — defining our identity, preserving our heritage and sustain- replace an Israel experience. ing our future. In Israel, Jewish identity "is evident in the language spo- As he puts it: "Let us assure that the shelves of Jewish ken on the street, the advertising posters, the radio news and identity do not remain empty." the army uniform," says Dr. Lachover, a volunteer physician A - TENDER 271 WEST MAPLE DOWNTOWN BIRMINGHAM 248.258.0212 Monday-Saturday 10-6 Thursday 10-9 Sunday 12-5 ❑ Open a Tender Charge Today 8 9/27 2002 5