and accesso Lillian Brook played colleague, program coor- the piano. She and dinator Shirley Jarcaig, Rosalie Carroll were consult with administra- among the first to move tor Norman and activi- to Farmington Hills ties director Vicki Thuer Inn. Sarabel Panter is to find "the best ways another Jewish resident for enhancing the lives who shares her piano of our Jewish older playing with others. adults," Jarcaig said. "Our staff has Rabbi Polter said a noticed a positive influ- "big program" is ence on the whole arranged for the Jewish community" since the holidays, along with other Reside nt Sidney Jewish residents arrived, events each month. Gareli ck cuts a Sieger said. "You can see the "We sing. I bring kosher slice of' fresh- loving relationships in the refreshments. We reminisce. We baked honey families of residents. They talk about old Jewish experi- cake. are so attentive. It's pleasant- ences and remember the holi- plus having them-here! days," he said. Most of them are here daily checking on In the week before Rosh Hashanah, their moms and dads." Farmington Hills Inn was infused with At- mealtimes, Norman has observed Yiddishkeit (Jewishness). Residents family members of former Elan Villagers learned to bake honey cake with Thuer sitting at the table with other residents. on Sept. 3, a Russian-born accordionist led Yiddish folk singing the next day and "It's nice for them because they don't always have their own family visiting," there was an intergenerational program she said. the day after that with students of Rabbi Polter said Jewish residents at Yeshivat Akiva in Southfield, who deliv- Farmington Hills Inn and other non- ered honey cake and new large-print Jewish calendars. They also blew the sho- Jewish facilities, like American House in West Bloomfield, have enjoyed his occa- far, sang and visited with the Jewish resi- sional Friday morning gifts of a "Shabbos dents. Kit" — a bottle of grape juice, can of Rabbi Polter said there was a lot of excitement at the Sept. 4 music program. gefilte fish, fresh challah roll and a sugar kichel, plus napkin and silverware. "When they sang, 'My Yiddishe Mama' "This is a recent project we put togeth- — it was very moving," he said. er, sponsored by several families. It's a Seven or eight of the former Elan way to bring some Yiddishkeit to them." Villagers participated, including Jack The rabbi also visits recipients and leaves Tod. "His wife, Ann, told me she could- them Hebrew prayers with English trans- n't believe he had come for the program; lations. "The reception has been out- he usually stays in his room," said the standing. There's such a need," he said. rabbi. Jarcaig said an adult volunteer reminis- "Jack thinks the [Farmington Hills cence group, "Thanks for the Inn] staff is very, very sweet," said Ann Memories," is visiting the Farmington Torf of Oak Park. Their daughter, Hills Inn on Wednesday, Oct. 9. The Cheryl Torf Ceifetz of Farmington Hills, interactive program, including a sing- "investigated and thought it was the best along, encourages residents to recall good place to meet our needs." times. She is consulting with Rabbi Polter and facility staff on other desired Family Support programs. Dishell and Rube have encouraged the The presence of Jewish residents, and fre- partnership with JHAS. "They have a lot quent family visitors like Ann Torf, is of respect for the elderly," Sieger said. enhancing the Farmington Hills Inn 'And the new Jewish residents are adjust- community, said Mary Sieger, executive ing really well." director. Expressing the Jewish community's "Having them here gave us a shot in commitment to its seniors in non-Jewish the arm," she said. facilities, Poker said: "Like a fruit falling The changes are seen in small things, out of a basket; another basket comes like Thuer bringing bagels to munch on along to catch them." instead of doughnuts when residents dis- cuss the news. "Bagels have been a big hit," said Sieger. "Everybody likes them For information on the JHAS now " Jewish Community Chaplaincy The Jewish residents are very involved Program, call (248) 661-2999. with activities. At a recent ice cream social, former Elan Village resident . ❑ NOW OPEN in WEST BLOOMFIELD 20-60% OFF 243737-370 33082 Northwestern between 14 & Orchard Lake Road (between Home Appliance & 1nStyle Furniture) Even your mother-in-law would approve. 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