Obituaries Obituaries are updated regularly and archived on JN Online: www.detroitjewishnews.com Always A Helping Hand Shalom Synagogue, National Jewish t age 8, Hortense Falk got Welfare Board and the Jewish lost and bicycled into a slum Community Center of Detroit — as not far from her home on well as other charitable groups. Long Island, N.Y. Appalled Many of the organizations by what she saw, she raced back to her honored Mrs. Falk's volun- mother and said she had to do some- teerism, which had grown into thing to help the disadvantaged. a full-time job. Her daughter, The next day, she collected coins Nancy Fox of San Anselmo, from her schoolmates and donated the Calif, said she remembers few dollars to a charity her mom sug- having "sibling rivalry" with gested. Hadassah. Mrs. Falk, of Southfield, who friends Mrs. Falk's volunteer work affectionately called "Horsy," lived for ranged from menial tasks, 66 years in metro Detroit and became a such as luncheon clean-up longtime pillar of the volunteer com- duty, to originating programs munity. She died at age 92 on Sept. 13, that provided stimulation for 2002, of complications from an acci- senior citizens. She prided her- dental burn. self on being an organizational Hortense . "Officially" beginning her life's work foot soldier, not an officer. in 1926 at age 16, Mrs. Falk performed And no matter what else she was doing, volunteer tasks for the National Council Mrs. Falk was likely to declare, "I'd of Jewish Women, Hadassah, ORT, -- rather be fund-raising." Jewish Vocational Service, Temple In 1994, Mrs. Falk received an "Eight Israel, Allied Jewish Campaign, Variety Over 80" award, which cited her and Club, United Way, American Red _seven other octogenarians for decades of Cross, Junior League of Birmingham, volunteer service. USO, Veterans Administration, Detroit The State of Michigan also honored Friends of Bar-Ilan University, Adat A her with a proclamation that cited her remarkable enthusiasm, "whether pass- ing out handbooks for the disabled in a mall or listening to someone who is troubled." Mrs. Falk received scores of awards given by agencies that high- lighted her accomplish- ments. According to Barbara Stone, a community activist who helped nominate her for the United Way Heart of Gold award, Mrs. Falk was known to hitchhike to her volunteer work Falk during World War II when gasoline was unavailable and "over the years probably raised a million dollars for her charities in nickels and dimes." Mrs. Falk, whose shimmering white hair, twinkling brown eyes and ever- present smile were constantly recogniza- ble by the hundreds she worked with and helped, was also known for being a A History Of Caring WENDY ROSE BICE Einstein. Rueben was a socialist who ran for Congress against Eugene W. Debs in the early 1900s. Her mother, Ruth, died avid Thelen, former editor of a few months after Mazy was born. Journal of American History, Mary frequently traveled to Detroit to once wrote: "The challenge spend time with her maternal grandpar- of history is to recover the ents, Hattie and Rabbi Leo M. Franklin past and introduce it to the present." of Temple Beth El. Maybe more than anything that is • "My mom grew up in the shadow of what Mary Shapero sought. some very interesting people," said her Fighting the cancer that robbed her son, Rabbi David Shapero, executive health, but not her vitality, Mrs. director of Ohr Somayach Detroit. Shapero, known by many for her social Einstein, the socialist, and Rabbi activism and fund-raising efforts, died Franklin, the activist, poured a sense of Sept. 8, 2002. In her 71 years, this social justice and clarity of purpose into ardent leader, fund-raiser, mother and their determined granddaughter. grandmother accomplished much. By the time Mrs. Shapero graduated "She had clarity of purpose and from Lake Erie College in Ohio, then believed in what she did," said her hus- married her husband in 1952, her orga- band, United States Bankruptcy Court nizational talents had become obvious. Judge Walter Shapero. "She could trans- As the wife of a young attorney, she mit that to people and they would get founded the Law Wives Association at . involved. She was very proud of the dif- the University of Michigan and joined ference she made in the many organiza- the League of Women Voters. tions she became involved with." "My mom led very much by exam- Born in Blairsville, Pa., Mrs. Shapero ple," said her son, Rick Shapero, of grew up under the care of her paternal Cedarville, Mich. "She was a passionate grandparents, Minnie and Rueben and determined person, a champion of Special to the Jewish News I) . many causes. But, it all came back to being a mom and helping my brother and me devel- op a strong sense of jus- tice. She was a Mary Shapero super role model." When not joining in lively dinner table debates or fishing with her husband and children, Mrs. Shapero actively spent time volun- teering for Planned Parenthood of Southeast Michigan, Friends of the Detroit Public Library, American Jewish Committee, the Sanctuary (a shelter for runaway children) and the Rabbi Leo M. Franklin Archives at Temple Beth El. To each she brought organization and leadership, and her knack for raising funds. In these last years, though, one place, one cause seemed to consume Mrs. Shapero. Tucked away -among the reli- colorful character. As a twenty-something "flapper," she climbed a tree in high heels; as a mid- dle-aged mother, she'd break into song (replete with hand motions) to amuse all those around her; as an 85-year-old, she had carefully collected — and would repeat — funny anecdotes about her friends. Doreen Hermelin, past president of the Women's Division of the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit, described Mrs. Falk in her Heart of Gold nomination as "everybody's Auntie Mame ... a role model young- sters 50 and 60 find hard to live up to, a testimonial to the truth that one woman can make a difference." Mrs. Falk is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Nancy Fox and Woody Weingarten of San Anselmo, Calilf.; granddaughter, Laura Schifrin and dear friend, Elizabeth Burke. She was the beloved wife of the late Joseph Falk and sister of ihe late Janice Monturean. Memorial services were held at the - Dorfman Chapel. Contributions can be made to the National Council of Jewish Women, 26400 Lahser, Southfield, MI 48034, or to a charity of one's choice. Arrangements by Dorfman Chapel. ❑ gious school classrooms at Temple Beth El, the synagogue her grandfather presided over from 1899-1941, is the Rabbi Leo M. Franklin Archives. Shapero fought doggedly to ensure the archive's vitality and its perpetuity. "She knew the archives were an excellent resource for our communi- ty," said Judge Shapero. "Over time, family, Judaism and this community became important issues to her. She saw the need to meld the past into the future." Mrs. Shapero is survived by her hus- band, Judge Walter Shapero; son and daughter-in-law, Rabbi David and Helene Shapero; grandchildren: Chaim, Shira, Yakov and Mordechai; son, Rick Shapero and his companion, Wendy Wagoner; her children, Rosemary and Danny. She was the daughter of the late Raymond Einstein and the late Ruth Einstein; granddaughter of the late Rabbi Leo M. Franklin and the late Hattie Franklin. Interment was at Woodmere Cemetery. Contributions may be made to the Rabbi Leo M. Franklin Archives at Temple Beth El or a chari- ty of one's choice. Arrangements by Ira Kaufman Chapel. ❑ 9/20 2002 121