OTHER VIEWS Ripples Of Hope ime magazine labeled it "The Summer of Mistrust." The plummeting stock market, accounting scandals, child abductions, corporate corrup- tion, terrorist attacks, suicide murder- ers, church scandals, growing anti- Semitism in Europe and a faltering peace process have all tested our courage and our confidence. And so, for many, the year 5763 begins with both trepidation and fear. As we approach the High Holidays, the days of self-reflection, consider that life is not about getting and having, but about being and becoming. Certainly, it Ann Zousmer is president of the Bloomfield Township-based Jewish Community Council of Metropolitan Detroit. was a difficult year. But we are not, as the papers would lead us to believe, in a state of free-fall. This has also been a year that brought us together to dia- logue, to learn, to pray and to find strength in our communal efforts. Get involved. Educate yourself about the situation in Israel. Attend forums, write letters to the editors, join the Jewish Community Council of Metropolitan Detroit's Israel Action Network, and take time to discuss your concerns and understanding with your children. Become an informed voter. Civil liberties, public education, health care, urban revitalization and the environ- ment will all be influenced by your choice. While Sept. 11 has changed our lives forever, as Jews we must work to protect religious and ideal or acts to improve the lot civil liberties and guard of others or strikes out against against racial and ethnic pro- injustice, he sends forth a tiny filing. ripple of hope, and crossing Take one hour a week to each other from a million cen- participate in the Jewish ters of energy ... these ripples Coalition for Literacy. Read to build a current that can sweep a child and bring him the joy down the mightiest walls of ANN of books. oppression and resistance." ZOUSMER Participate in the Jewish Let each of us be that ripple Community Federation of Metropolitan of hope. Views Detroit's fund-raising efforts And, take time every day to that support social services reflect on the real treasures in both here and in Israel. Become our lives, our life partners, our chil- involved in our Jewish community. dren, our friends. The Jewish Community Council is This year is a new beginning. May comprised of 200 Jewish organiza- the year be filled with peace and securi- tions. One has to be right for you! ty. May we have the presence to recog- Perhaps, Robert Kennedy said it best: nize our blessings and opportunities. "Each time a person stands up for an L'Shanah Tovah. ❑ Becoming A Master Of Prayer s the Yamim Noraim (High Holy Days) approach, I find myself dwelling on two childhood memories that have shaped the way I experience the weeks leading up to the Days of Awe. Both of these experiences involve my grandfather Ozer Ben Tzvi, of blessed memory. Every year for as long as I can remember, on Rosh Chodesh Elul and sometimes on Rosh Chodesh Av, my grandfather would take down a num- ber of books from his bookshelf. He would take down the machzorim (prayerbooks) for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, a Hebrew-English dic- tionary, a Hebrew dictionary and an Aramaic-Hebrew dictionary. My grandfather would lay these books in front or him and begin to do exactly the same thing he had done for many years previously. He endeavored to become a baal tefilla, a master of prayer. We use the term baal tefilla collo- quially to refer to a person who leads the congregation in prayer. While my grandfather faithfully led the members A Tzvi Schostak grew up in Detroit and .4):1 9/ 6. 2002 52 made aliyah in 1978 at age 18. He studied under Rabbis Shlomo Riskin and Chaim Brovender. He moved to South- field in 2000, but remains an officer of the Israel Defense Forces reserves. He is a board member of Young Israel of South- field, on the executive committee of Yeshivat Akiva in Southfield and on the board of Kollel Torah Mi'Tzion-Detroit. of Adat Shalom Synagogue every Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, this was not the sole purpose for his prepara- tion. My grandfather wasn't just prac- ticing and refining the melodies in which he led the congregation, he also was studying the poetry that is prayer. He needed to know the Translation and the meaning of the tefilot. One year I asked my grandfather why he did this. Why did he need to review once again the prayers that he could recite by heart? His answer to me was not a great chiddush, an origi- nal idea, but it was a simple statement of faith. Prayer, my grandfather said, is the way a Jew converses with God. Prayer is the language of the Jewish people in its relationship with the Master of the Universe. God, my grandfather said, is waiting for our prayers. God wants to hear from us. God is listening. That is the first experience. Shofar Lessons During the weeks preceding Rosh Hashanah, my grandfather would teach my brothers and I how to serve the congregation as baal tokeah. He taught some of us to blow the shofar and, no less important, he taught the others how to correctly prompt the baal tokeah with tekiah, shevarim and teruah. We did this for many years for the younger congregations at Adat Shalom and my brother Bob contin- ues to do so today. How did our grandfather Spanish, Italian and Chinese teach us this skill, which is so in order to converse with the central to the davening on people of the world, to be Rosh Hashanah? He would considered citizens of the take us into his closet in his world. How can we expect to apartment. The clothing converse with God without absorbed the sound so as not becoming masters of the lan- to disturb the neighbors. guage we share with God, the TZVI Then, he would drill us again language of prayer? My grand- SCHOSTAK father knew the answer: If we and again until we had the Community tekiah, shevarim and teruah want to have a relationship Views - just right. with God, we must invest in I once asked him, why did the skills needed to communi- we need to blow the sounds in such cate in the relationship, at least as an exacting manner. What difference much as we do in the relationships we did it make? have with our parents, our spouses My grandfather responded that the and our children. shofar is the way a Jew talks to God This year, in preparation for Rosh when he has something to say that Hashanah, take the time to become a master of prayer. Select at least one of cannot be put into words. Our sages, of blessed memory, liken the sounds the beautiful piyutim (liturgical poems) that make up our machzor of the shofar to the yelalot and yevavot of the soul, the primal scream that._ and study its language and meaning. comes from a place hidden deep in During the Rosh Hashanah davening, our souls. take the time to dwell on the words So, my grandfather said, when we and let them reach down deep inside blow the shofar, we are communicat- of you. ing to God the innermost feelings and Ask yourself how the words have meaning for your own life and how yearnings of the congregation. We needed to be faithful to the message their messages may become catalysts for change. When you listen to the by sounding the shofar in an exacting shofar, close your eyes, shut out the manner. This is an awesome responsi- noises within you that impede your bility. God yearns to hear the cries of ability-to really hear the shofar, reach the Jewish people, my grandfather down deep inside of yourself to those said. God is listening. uncharted parts of your being and let That is the second experience. your Jewish primal scream be heard. We all need to invest time in God, my grandfather said, is listen- becoming masters of prayer, experts in ing. the language we use in our conversa- Ktivah v'Chatimah Tovah! tion with God. We study French, ❑