Spirituality PLANNING A !Wing God On The MO Holidays ADVENTURE thi summa here once was a couple who had two little chil- dren who were excessively mischievous. They were always getting into trouble; their parents could be assured that if any mischief occurred in their town, their youngsters were in some way involved. The parents sent their boys to see the rabbi. The younger boy went to meet with him first. The rabbi sat the boy down and asked him sternly, "Where is God?" The boy made no response, so the rabbi repeated the question in an even sterner tone, "Where is God?" Again, the boy made no attempt Hashanah and Yom Kippur is that each year, these days of intense holi- ness provide us with another chance to find ways in which God and Jewish observance can enhance each and-every moment that we are alive. Sitting in synagogue, davening from a prayer book that is used only three times a year, can often be over whelming and discouraging. But this time, let us commit ourselves to selecting just one prayer, one song or one message to meditate on in a way that can speak to us in a spiri- tually profound way. And then, perhaps we will be inspired to take a class, study a Torah portion or take a trip to Israel that can help keep our newfound connection solid throughout the corn- ing New Year 5763. to answer. So the rabbi raised his voice even more and shook his fin- ger at the boy's face, "WHERE IS GOD?" At that point, the boy bolted from the office and ran home, crying to his broth- er: "We are in BIG trouble this time. God is missing and they think we did it!" For many of us, these High Holidays are a reminder of how God is still missing from our lives. Maybe it is because we are too busy or perhaps we do not know. how to access RABBI JOSEPH God. KRAKOFF The beauty of Rosh Congregation Shanah Tovah Vmetukah. Susan, Atara, Micah and Elan join me in wish- ing you and your family a sweet and fulfilling season of repentance, change and growth! ❑ Shaarey Zedek yet, I will never forget him. Ten years later, I reflect on this encounter. I ask myself how we might all behave more like this sky- cap. How might this year be a year of increased kindness? Can each of us step out of ourselves — our own agendas, fears, anxieties and pain — and notice each other? Can we slow down and reach out to whomever we find surrounding us on any given day? Can we be kinder to the people we work with or pass on the street or sit with in the living and disappeared. rooms of our own homes? I have never forgotten that brief Above all, can we be kinder to the encounter. Here was a man working children who are in our at 3 a.m., probably trying world, our own and those to put together enough of each other? For chil- money to feed his family, a dren, kindness is oxygen. man with problems of his Kindness is a skill. It own. He never asked me requires practice. It for anything and was gone requires us to discipline before I could even give our own needs long him a tip. enough to meet the needs He took time to be pres- of someone else. It is also ent to my fear and, in the truest path to happi- doing so, gave me a RABBI ness. It is art of the soul. tremendous gift of kindness TAMARA This year's New Year's during one of the most vul- KO LTON message is simple and clear: nerable times in my life. I Take time; be kind. ❑ Birmingham will never know his name; Kindness: A True Art Form 9/6 2002 112 • Our circulation department can't wait to hear about your exciting plans for the summer and we would be more than happy to stop delivery of your papers until you get back. If you are planning an extended stay - talk to us about receiving your paper wherever you may roam! I will never forget it. In 1992, I flew home from Israel during the Gulf War. I was 21 and a student at Hebrew University in Jerusalem. I arrived in New York City in the middle of the night and was quickly whisked out of the airport terminal. Someone had called in a bomb threat. A skycap saw me struggling with my duffel bag, tearful, panicked and exhausted. He came over to me, gen- tly took my bag and said to me, "There is fear in your eyes. But you don't need to be afraid. You are going to be just fine." He pointed the way to my Detroit flight home Temple