OPEN MOTHER'S DAY! On The Bookshelf Come experience a revolution in dining and atmosphere that will change your image of Thai Cuisine forever! is in jail is just revenge, she disagrees, wanting something more. She comes to her own definition: "Revenge is when you can walk away. But somehow, you cannot. Something pulls you back." After she tells her father what she's learned from the Khatibs, he raises the question of whether she's placing herself in danger. And, he wonders whether there might be a bit of g'neyvat daat, Concealed by dark robes, she visits SANDEE BRAWARSKY stealing knowledge, in what she's done. the Grand Ayatollah Abdul Karim Special to the Jewish News As he explains, "when you try to ben- Musavi Ardebily, former chief of Iran's efit from the information people give judiciary, at the school he runs in hile walking in the Old you, you're not telling them the truth." Qom, and poses a series of hypotheti- City of Jerusalem dur- She continues to visit the Khatibs, cal questions about just compensations ing a visit from New and she begins a correspondence with for crimes, startling him by asking, lipir York in March 1986, Omar, using family members to smug- "What if a Palestinian shoots a Jew?" Rabbi David Blumenfeld was shot by gle her letters into the prison. She learns that, according to Islamic a Palestinian terrorist. He survived, the Returning to Ramallah to deliver let- law, if he's a tourist in Jerusalem, he's bullet just grazing his head. ters and pick up the replies, she keeps A dozen years later, his daughter Laura entitled to retaliation. up her deception and, since no visit can In Israel, Leah Rabin responds to her Blumenfeld, a reporter on leave from the be short,.she gets to know the Khatibs. question of how much revenge is enough Washington Post, set out to find the She's not sure how to react when by saying, "None. Because there's not shooter, and exact her own version of one of the women gives her a ring as a enough revenge in the entire world." "an eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth." gift and another tells her that they're She learns from Bibi Revenge: A Story of Hope going to name a new baby Laura if it's Netanyahu that he doesn't (Simon- & Schuster; $25) is a girl. While she's planning revenge, seek personal revenge Laura Blumenfeld's account they tell her, "You're family." against the person who of her journey to under- In her letters to Omar, the reporter killed his brother Yoni. For stand the concept of revenge asks about his background and about him, revenge is a national and ultimately act on it. the crime, too. Initially, he answers issue. She comes to realize that with what sounds like his political She speaks to other mili- her goal is to get the shooter manifesto, but he also shares more tary and government leaders to realize that what he did thoughtful responses. in Israel, and also to a was wrong; she's not inter- Their correspondence unfolds in Bedouin who avenges the ested in forgiveness. interesting ways; Blumenfeld wonders wrongs of several of his Her book is layered with if she is naive or whether he is indeed wives by writing unflatter- Middle East politics, details showing hints of transformation. ing poetry about them. of her parents' divorce, Laura Blumenfeld To tell the rest of the story would But wherever she is doing cross-cultural examples of take away some of the pleasure in research, the story comes revenge and the author's self- reading Blumenfeld's account, which back to her father. When he visits her in revelation. has moments of real drama and sus- Jerusalem, they go to the site of the "You are what you avenge," pense and some surprising turns. crime and go over the details. Blumenfeld says in an interview near Omar does come to express his After they contact government her home on the Upper West Side of regret and even gratitude to authorities and learn the name of the New York. Blumenfeld. When his family finds shooter, Omar Khatib, she travels to Recently, while doing a press inter- out her real identity, they continue to Ramallah in search of him and learns view by telephone, the conversation embrace her and later say they are that he is in prison. was interrupted by a call from pleased by her actions. In the course of the narrative, she President Clinton, who told her he They wouldn't have gotten to know refers to Omar mostly as "the shooter" couldn't put the book down, that it and love her as they did had they rather than using his name. As she helped him to understand why - the known she was a Jew, and that she was explains, "You have to not lose sight of violence in the Middle East continues. the daughter of Omar's victim. what the person did to you." Blumenfeld is a:very good writer In a letter to Rabbi Blumenfeld, Omar She introduces herself to the Khatib and a bold reporter. Over the course writes — as Laura recites by heart — that family as simply Laura, an American of her honeymoon year in Jerusalem, journalist doing research for a book The his daughter was "the mirror that made she tracks down the whereabouts of me see your face as a human person family greets her with warm hospitality, the shooter and the mastermind of his deserved to be admired and respected." gathers relatives, and they all laugh terrorist cell. Bloomenfeld explains she got her about the fact that their son and brother She also travels extensively: to revenge by restoring her father's was in jail for shooting "some Jew." Palermo, Sicily, "cradle of the vendetta," humanity, in Omar's eyes. Blumenfeld tries to laugh too. to interview the mayor and others, and "These are dark times, but I do think Although she speaks Hebrew fluently, to northern Albania, where she meets a she speaks only Arabic and English with my story offers a glimmer of hope, that leading member of the Blood Feud we can get past the animosity." Committee, who is an expert on its writ- them, so they won't realize she is Jewish. And, she adds; "We can't let go of When it's suggested to Blumenfeld ten canon compiled in the 15th century that hope." El that perhaps knowing that the shooter that sets out the rules of revenge. Seeking Revenge Writer Laura Blumenfeld finds the Palestinian terrorist who shot her rabbi father — and discovers a new version of 'cin eye for an eye." Mon —Thur. Ham -ropm • Fri. 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