• • AUTHENTIC SZECHUAN COOKING Introduces Instead, she married Howard, a Missouri-bred non-Jew, in a ceremony conducted by a rabbi on Thanksgiving Day in 1996. She had another son, Babe, now 4, did theater with hubby and taught a course at Harvard. When Howard began nudging her about Love, she gave him lists of other actresses to consider. He lured her by rewriting her character as an Ex-Wife- Against Type: a former spouse who "is not bitter, whose heart remains open," says Winger, herself an ex-wife. To play the estrangedlovers, the actress says she and Howard "accessed the couple of days every year when you imagine your divorce." If Winger has a rebellious streak, it's extended to her Judaism. She says her parents were "horrified" when she decided to intensify her religious stud- ies by attending Los Angeles Hebrew High School: "My mother had moved away from Cleveland to escape my grandmother's Orthodoxy, then I became her mother," she says, with a boisterous laugh. After graduating from high school at 15, Winger ran off to a kibbutz and contemplated living in Israel, but left after a stint of army training. Back in Los Angeles, she resolved to become an actress while recovering from a car accident that left her par- tially paralyzed and blind for several months. Eventually she earned three Oscar nominations for her performances in Terms, At Officer and a Gentleman (1982) and Shadowlands (1993), in which she played a secular Jewish divorcee who weds author C.S. Lewis. She admits she's been outspoken with directors: During production of Costa-Gavras' neo-Nazi-themed Betrayed, for example, she testily argued that the racist violence wasn't shocking enough. On the set of Big Bad Love, based on Larry Brown's short stories, Howard says his wife created a "pro- ductive adversity." "You don't direct Debra," he says. "You tell her stories." The strategy apparently worked. While Love has received some mixed reviews, Winger has been unanimously lauded for her understated yet raw performance. She says the experience has whetted her appetite for more film work, if the right project emerges. Meanwhile, she's content being a Westchester County, N.Y., mom — lighting candles on Shabbat, arranging for Noah's weekly Jewish studies tutor and teaching Babe the aleph-bet. Suddenly — in another big, bad flourish — she reveals she hasn't set foot in synagogue since the tragedy of Sept. 1'1. - "I've become convinced that organ- ized religion is the root of all evil," she says. "Because I'm still pulled toward Jewish ritual, that's a dilemma. But I'm willing to sit with it and see how I feel." ❑ Big Bad Love, rated R, opens today at the Main Art Theatre, (248) 542-0180. ***1/2 stars Oakland Press of Milford 114r1., er. with.c0ti xpiieS 5/31/02 t;, Mt at both rev,furants. 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