is At The Ira Kaufman Chapel, Caring Means Always Being Accessible! 4 u ie s, ea. ,o).1,4§,:. Vt.; Children Wtitt.S• A CANDLE ik)R (RANI)P% David Techne.es children's book on grieving makes it easter tor kids to understand the loss and give them strategies to move on with their own lives. "A Candle for Grandpa" he.ips kids through this difficult time. srci. Nsite.:Ro23d: Sot,thfiM ;tot:* iii iszemats *.m.8-.09—oo20 - 800.32.5 - 75os i'dt Reit - rved. Visitors to our Web site, www.iralcaufman.com are now able to sign up for yarhrzeit notices on line and receive the most recent funeral information. Our Web site offers guidance, comfort and support worldwide. T his is a story about a family 10,000 miles away, a computer and The Ira Kaufman Chapel. It is an example of what it means to be accessible at all times, even for people you've never met before, especially if your only link is through technology. In Perth, Australia, a mother was at the end stage of her life with terminal cancer. Her husband and three children— a son and daughter in college and a son in high school— came together to make her comfortable in her final moments. Although her condition was known, death was not imminent. However, on a Saturday, the woman took a drastic turn for the worse. The husband wanted the appropriate prayers to be said and sought emotional support and guidance. Because of the Sabbath, they couldn't reach their Rabbi. Instead, the family turned to the Internet, not knowing what to expect, or even if anything was available on-line to be of use to them. What they found was our Web site vvww.iraltaufman.com and within the site they found our section of prayers, the Viddui, which is recited as one is dying; the 23rd Psalm; Kaddish; and others. They read the passages as a family and were grateful that in their time of extreme need, the moment was expressed in a loving and spiritual service. From his experience, Ira Kaufman Chapel Funeral Director David Techner sent the family his book, 'A Candle for Grandpa," and a copy of the video "Generation to Generation," as a gesture of compassion. This is the primary function of The Ira Kaufman Chapel Web site— to educate, provide important information and serve the community, whenever and wherever, and to enhance our accessibility 24 hours a day, 365 days of the year. Even when it is expected, when a loved one dies, along with the grief come countless questions to ask and details to handle. Amidst the tears and the turmoil, you seek guidance. respectfully explains how families and friends can honor their loved ones in the Jewish manner. For Detroit area Jewish family members, the Web site contains several innovative and practical interactive features that let you honor the memory of your loved ones. It begins with a listing of current and recent funerals officiated by The Ira Kaufman Chapel. Information on the funeral is posted as soon as final arrangements are confirmed with the family, including time and date of the chapel service, interment at which cemetery and directions to the cemetery. Out-of-town when a service is conducted? Then wwvv.iralcaufman.com will give you the details on the funeral. There is even a search tool to help you. A first of its kind in the country, if not the world, yahrzeit notices are now available on line, if you desire. You can sign up for a friendly annual e-mail reminder of the yahrzeit of your close family member's death. Each year, The Ira Kaufman Chapel mails more than 65,000 yahrzeit notices throughout the country and around the world. Yahrzeit, the anniversary of the death, is commemorated each year. At The Ira Kaufman Chapel, because we want remembrance to be easier, lists of the next 10 years of yahrzeits are posted online. Even though you may only know an individual's name and are unsure of the date of death, you can search our database to find and locate the yahrzeit information. Where should you turn first to find the answers you need? Through technology and The Ira Kaufman Chapel, the answer is, "Right at home." Visit us online at wwwirakaufinan.com and we will provide you with an interactive and user-friendly format that will educate, clarify, comfort and give you hope. - Our Web site, www.irakaufman.com , allows you to learn about Jewish funeral customs and traditions and the response to death as a celebration of life. It THE IRA KAUFMAN CHAPEL Bringing Together Family, Faith & Community 2002 9