EDITOR'S NOTEBOOK T Coming Together As Jews he Israelis who died during Passover became more than faceless names as Detroit Jewry gathered Monday to unite behind the Jewish homeland. In a moving candle-lighting ceremony, with the song Jerusalem of Gold playing in the background, they became our martyred brethren — Jews willing to die to be Israeli. On a gray day, soon after a car exploded in downtown Jerusalem, killing a police officer and the suicide bomber, the Detroit Jewish community came together at Adat Shalom Synagogue in Farmington Hills. We had come, 400 strong, at the behest of the Jewish Community Council of Metropolitan Detroit. We were there to show ROBERT A. solidarity for Israel and memorialize the vic- tims of the Passover Massacre, Palestinian SKLAR leader Yasser Arafat's hollow "peace" overtures Editor notwithstanding. I'd rather he renounce ter- ror in Arabic. The event proved timely. The same day, Israeli Prime Minister Ariel Sharon said to diaspora leaders: "In these times, we need you more than ever. We need you to express your public support for Israel." What had promised to be a hope-filled hol- iday became one laden with angst — and with Sharon declaring Israel was "at war." Clearly, hate-filled Arabs want to destroy Israel and murder as many Jews as possible in doing so. That threat has forced Israelis to live in constant fear. The young, Israel's future, are Ann Zousmer favorite targets. "Imagine sending children off to school with protective vests," said JCCouncil President Ann Zousmer, "and not knowing if a goodbye means forever." A Special Feeling West Bloomfield's Marci Shulman felt goose bumps as 46 yahrtzeit (memorial) candles were lit Monday at Adat Shalom for the Israelis slain during Passover. "That just seemed to touch everybody's heart and soul," she said. As I looked around the vast Adat Shalom sanctuary, I saw folks bowing their heads in prayer or whisking away tears. Marci Shulman For Shulman, the 45-minute unity rally and prayer vigil spotlighted Israel's plight and its need for our support, even if we can't be there. "It's hard to keep faith in what we thought was a peace process," she said. And she's right. Her analogy of Israel as a fly trapped in a spider web of ter- ror resonated. "Israel is being eaten up by the spider, by the enemy," she said. She's weary of Arabs accusing Jews of "stealing" Palestinian land and "plotting" the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks on America. And she was glad to have the chance to commiserate with other Jews. "It was good for my soul," she said, echo- ing the words of Lawrence Jackier, Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit president. Rejecting the notion that suicide bombers are worthy of martyrdom, Jackier said: "The fact that Jews love life is not our weakness, but our greatest strength." I asked Shulman if she felt pressured by Jackier's impas- sioned call to respond to Federation's Emergency Campaign to raise money for Israeli families victimized by terror. "No," she said. "I felt this was real — that we need to give whatever we can, at whatever level. It was done with class and a sense of urgency, and assurance that every little bit would help." She hit on the theme many did: This was a time to help, in any way we could. SHARE YOUR SOUL Become a Judaic Volunteer for JARC Stay In Contact I was struck by how Rabbi Jonathan Berkun of Congregation Shaarey Zedek in Southfield tied these times of despair and rage for Jews to the biblical story of Passover. Quoting the Haggadah, he said: "Not just one enemy has stood against us to wipe us out. But in every generation, there have been those who have stood against us to destroy us." Yet, we've persevered. To terrorists, Rabbi Berkun said, let us say "a word from our Haggadah that has taken on new meaning for Israelis and Jews everywhere: Dayenu. "Enough," he said. "Enough killing. Enough innocent lives lost. Enough suffering." Drawing on the recent ecumenical mission to Africa and Israel he was a part of with 10 rabbis and black pastors, Rabbi Berkun added: "It was an honor to stand with my brothers and sisters in Israel — and we must continue to visit when we can, and give them our love, support and encouragement, even as we hang our heads in grief and say dayenu." Indeed, we must. Meanwhile, call, write or e-mail — com- municate with Israelis who you know, or who Federation can hook you up with in the Central Galilee, our partner region. Giving money provides practical help, but heartfelt concern provides a buoyant emotional lift. So does a peaceful public expression of support, like the six grassroots street demonstrations organized at key locations Monday by Israel advocacy consultant Don Cohen of West Bloomfield. "We need to channel energy outside our community, too," Cohen said. "Standing on street corners with signs denounc- ing terrorism, and with American and Israeli flags, lets people know Jews are willing to do things out of the ordinary to sup- port Israel. We hoped to give supporters a polite push so they also might think of moving from 'business as usual' to step- ping out in support of the Jewish state. "The Jewish community has a lot of respect," he added, "but we need to be visible so others will stand with us." As Jews, we must believe no matter how dark the Mideast crisis becomes, Israel will survive. Ariel Sharon's vague expectations from invading Ramallah bother me, but I liked his confidence Monday in declaring: "The Jewish people have seen harder times than the one that we are facing." When you consider all the hardships and persecutions "that our people have undergone," Sharon said, "you reach one conclusion: The Jewish people are indestructible, and I'm sure that we are indestructible." Given our history — slavery, expulsions, the Holocaust — I know we're resilient. I want to believe we're indestructible. I want to believe the madness soon will end for all the decent people in the Middle East. In a moment of reflection Monday, after the gathering at Adat Shalom, Marci Shulman spoke matter-of-factly about what compelled her to attend: "I am a Jew. I needed to be there." ❑ JARC's Judaic Volunteers enrich the spiritual lives of men and women with disabilities in many ways. • Lead Shabbat prayers • Celebrate with JARC friends at an Oneg- bring your guitar! Sing a song! • Accompany your JARC friend(s) to services • Offer lessons in Hebrew language or prayer to a man or woman served by JARC - • Share photos from your trip to Israel, Jewish art books or music with a JARC friend A great family volunteer opportunity! Call (248) 538-6610, ext. 349 to find out how you can share your soul. 30301 Northwestern Highway • Suite 100 Farmington Hills , MI 48334-3233 jarc@jarc.org • www jarc. org 4/5 2002 5