INSIDE: A Loving";Tome Alyn Hospital pays tribute to those who understand caring for children. SHELLI LIEBMAN DORFMAN Staff Writer or David and Ilene Techner, being honored by the Detroit Friends of Alyn Hospital also meant honoring David's longtime friend Debbie Groner, who died last March. A special tribute was accepted by Rabbi Irwin and Leypsa Groner, in memory of their daughter who died this year from myositis ossificans progressiva. This rare, crippling genetic disorder, diagnosed in childhood, gradually turned her muscle tissue into bone. "Debbie's amazing life made Alyn a much more personal mission for me," says Techner, who last year visited the Jerusalem-based Alyn Woldenberg Family Hospital and Pediatric and Adolescent Rehabilitation Center with his wife. "Debbie had the amazing gift of her parents' love and the opportunities they gave to her in their home. I saw Alyn as a terrific place for those who don't have the love she had," says Techner, a funeral director at the Ira Kaufrnan Chapel in Southfield and a nationally recognized expert on the subject of children and death. "Debbie demonstrated the power of love — for with her love, she transformed darkness into light, pain into joy and fear into hope," says her father, Rabbi Groner. "Is this not the credo of Alyn Hospital?" An American At Alyn The Nov. 13 strolling dinner was the 11di annual event for the Detroit chapter of Alyn Hospital, whose name is an acronym for the Hebrew Agudah Le'ezrat Yehadim Nachim (Organization to Aid Handicapped Children), and the English "All the Love You Need." Keynote speaker for the program, attended by 300 guests at Congregation Shaarey Zedek, was Roger Lerner, a rabbinical student at the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in Cincinnati. He spoke of his daughter, Lily, and the rare, genetic disorder that resulted in disabilities, including those related to respiration, development and coordination. "Roger Lerner would not have been able to spend last year studying in Israel as part of the rabbinics program if there had not been Alyn for his daughter," says West Bloomfield's Gina Horwitz, president of Detroit Friends ofAlyn. "Alyn got to help an American child — somebody here at home." Treated with speech and language, physical, occupational, art, music and hippo- therapy (therapeutic horseback riding), Lily was able to take advantage of Alyns multi-disciplinary, all-under-one-roof approach to rehabilitation. "Lily came to Alyn able to say one or two words at a time — and left, after one year, speaking whole. sentences," Horwitz says. Alyn' also provided respite for Lily's mother, Rebecca, while Lerner fulfilled his HUC-JIR volunteer service requirement working weekly in Alyn's therapeutic pool, assisting hydro therapists. At the end of the HUC-JIR school year in May, the family remained in Jerusalem until Alyn's day care program went into sum- mer recess in August to allow Lily to benefit as long as possible. ALYN ON PAGE 36 Above: David and Ilene Techner accept their award as Detroit Friends of Alyn annual honorees from Rabbi Harold Loss of Temple Israel. Below: Honorees Ilene and David Techner, Detroit Friends of Alyn President Gina Horwitz and Leypsa and Rabbi Irwin Groner at the Detroit Friends of Alyn annual dinner. 1 2/7 2001 35