Gift Guic e Off Most It-enis Friday, November 23rd thru .5unday,pecember 2nd party planner Diana Fenkell, this is a . 1 no/ oi l Heslop's everyday low prices ()11 Most gifRVare, ditinenvare, stemware, .and up to Ll/ /0 oft aansk natvare. Choose liom ;Among such Fantods names as . Allatitis, Block, CristaVIG„purand . . ... ,.. • Block, 4 . „, 't --- Fitz & Floyd, Gorham, ,,m,., Lenox, MikaSa, Nikko, . - . Noritake, Oneida, Pickard, Reed & Barton, Rosenthal. Royal Doulton. Royal Worcester, Spode, towle, and Villeroy & Boch. 1-loll• atici Tfir.- Dinnerware I)) Portitieiriott, ., tamirritur; 'kw-0 Visit us at our N'Veb site; www.heslops.coin 4/ ',• ••. West Bloomfield, Orchard Mall . (248) 737-8080 (Orchard Lake and IS Mile) open Sunikty During the Sale! China & Gifts Metro Detroit: Auburn Hills, Walton Village. Not Location! Novi, Novi Town Center (248) 349-8090 St. Clair Shores (586) 778-6142 21429 Mack Ave. t North of Eight Mile Rd.) (248) 375 0823 (Walton Rd. west of Squirrel) Opcn.Sundqy During .the Sale! Sterling Heights, Eastlake commons Dearborn HeightS:The Heights (313) 274-8200 (586) 247 8111. (On: corner of i Fall Rd_ and (Ford Rd. between Inkster irrid -Beech Daly) Hayes Rd.) Livonia, Merri-Five Plaza (734) 522-1850 Troy, Oakland Mall (248) 589 1433 - - - Outstate• Amt Arbor; The Colonnade (734) 761 1002 - On El.,;4mhower Pkwy. west Of thiarwood '1.111) • Grand RapidS, Breton Village Mall (616) 957 2145 (Breton Rd. and Burton Rd.) Open Sunday During the Sale! . Okemos, Meridian Mall (517) 349 4008 - - (On corner of Five Mile and Merriman) Sale does not include sterling silver- flatwarc or clearance ntercluttuiLw. Nora al exclusions apply. .Please ash a salesperson for details. 11/30 2001 016 Get Results... Advertise in our new Entertainment Section! Call The Sales . Department (248) 354-7123 Ext. 209 gift from an unknown store that is not on the registry and therefore can- not be returned. "You could get a Waterford crystal piece at Costco or what looks like crystal at T.J. Maxx and spend next to nothing for it," says Fenkell. While money is the gift of choice at weddings, particularly Jewish wed- dings, gifts are still given and, according to a number of party plan- ners, gift givers can typically get - away with spending a little less than they would if writing a check. While checks or gifts from a reg- istry are popular for weddings, pre- ferred bar or bat mitzvah gifts include jewelry, gift certificates and, of course, money. The bar and bat mitzvah years can be particularly expensive for par- ents, who are constantly shuffling their pre-teens and teens to countless parties. Party planner Andrea Solomon says that because kids go to so many bar and bat mitzvot, they typically give a check for $18 (Chai) or $25. Elizabeth Green, of Elizabeth Green Boutique, in West Bloomfield, said that the kids who are better friends with the bar or bat mitzvah celebrant will spend more. Because money received during a bar or bat mitzvah is usually ear- marked for college or some other future event, Fenkell often gives gift certificates so that the recipient can use the money to get something he or she really wants without having to put the money in the bank. Group gifts are also very popular because friends and relatives can buy the bar or bat mitzvah celebrant (or bride and groom) something mean- ingful and long-lasting, according to Steven Tapper, of the West Bloomfield jewelry store Tapper's. Tapper estimates that his store sells close to 1,000 bar and bat mitzvah gifts per year. His customers typically spend $100-$500 on a gift, although he also sells items starting at $25. Bottom line: Do what you can afford to give comfortably and feel good about it, and the recipient should be grateful and understand- ing. El