are saying that we believe enough in the Zionist dream to make our chil- dren fight for it as soldiers in Tzahal. When we teach and enforce values that clash with peer culture, such as steering our kids away from guns, vio- lence or inappropriate television and movies, we risk making them unpopu- lar among their friends. Though we may be reluctant to involve our chil- dren in such risks, as Hannah teaches us, it is indeed our duty as parents to inculcate our children with values worth fighting for. At the same time that I am inspired by this mother's dedication and faith, one could easily criticize: How can we be sure that the causes we fight for, the battles we pick, are the "right" ones? She clearly believed that she was carrying out God's will. Yet those who carried out the horrific attacks of September 11, and those who contin- ue to carry out violent suicide attacks in Israel and elsewhere, also believe they are acting according to the will of God. The answer must be that, at some point, we must abandon the rel- ativist tolerance many of us aspire to today. We must be willing to call evil, evil; we must be willing to do our best to interpret and carry out God's will for the good. The Chanukah lights remind us that, if we truly act in accordance with God's will, God will back us up in our endeavors. The mother and her seven sons are the example to us that it is the parents who are willing to take a stand, for themselves and their family, who will ensure the perpetuation of our people, of our values, of that which the Holy One desires from us. May they inspire us this Chanukah to rededicate our- selves to the causes and ideals which will keep our people alive, and which will keep our children living in a bet- ter world. As we light the Chanukah candles this year, may each flickering flame remind us of our individual and collective responsibility to live our lives as an example; to be an Or LaGoyim, a light unto the nations. , Moosejaw celebrates Fordy Pratts and Leed Mame, the world's first team to ummit Mt. McSaba while holding hands. Moose. gve ❑ --Rabbi Amy Ruth Bolton is affiliated with the Jewish Hospice and Chaplaincy Network. She is also a community . educator, who teaches for Eilu v'Eilu and is a mentor for the Judaic Enrichment Early Education Project (JEEEP). 13irrnin2hum East Lansinv, Grosse Pointe inoosejak‘.com Chicao Deerfield 11/23 2001 G9