-Y- )4- I- * 4 A- I- * 4 A- V- 1( 4 A- Communit Torah Portion With Faith In God We Can Face The Future burdened but not crushed. We can draw out of the depth of our soul powers untapped and sometimes even unknown, for we are stronger than we think. We can mobilize our deepest reserves rather than surren- der to the weakness of self-pity. Perhaps the ladder is a call to man his week's sedrah (Torah to discover the courage that will portion) begins with the enable him to move higher and lift scene of a wanderer, himself out of the depth of his Jacob, fleeing his home to despair. escape the wrath of his brother, It is as though God called from Esau. heaven and said: "Climb, Jacob, On the road to his uncle's home in climb." Jacob objects. "I'm Haran, Jacob had reason to tired. I just left my par- be fearful. Behind him, his ents. My brother is clearly brother Esau might be clos- an enemy and if I should ing in, eager to kill him for walk the wrong road, he the theft of his birthright. will kill me. Who knows Ahead was a strange land what dangers I will yet and unknown circum- face?" stances. But the call persists: Jacob went to sleep and "Jacob, I know how tired that night and had a you are, but climb, just remarkable dream of angels climb." Because of his RABBI I RWIN ascending and descending a ascent, Jacob received GRO NER ladder rising to heaven. God Divine blessing. Special to the appears and reassures Jacob For most of us, courage Jewish News that the land upon which he conjures up images of feats is resting will be given to of daring. Courage is also him and his descendants the willingness to risk fail- and all the world would see his ure in order to create a new and bet- descendants as a source of blessing. ter reality. Courage is the ability to At some point in every human life, pick ourselves up after loss and pain we find ourselves like Jacob, living and to go about the business of liv- through a crisis of danger and ing. Courage is the remarkable doubt. We visit a hospital's intensive human resilience, which enables us care unit to see a loved one gravely to suffer ss lo and to continue to live ill. Others have been in that "place and celebrate life. of terror," lying in a hospital bed The story of Jacob's dream sug- wondering, as did Jacob, if they gests that wherever we are and what- would survive. ever our circumstance, though we, There are other life crises less omi- too, might lie down at night with nous, but no less significant, when fear and uncertainty— with concern we feel frightened and alone. I think and doubt — we have the potential of the man or woman whose mar- of arising refreshed, realizing that we riage has ended in divorce, the busi- are in God's presence. nessman-whose enterprise has failed, With this knowledge; we can per- the mourner who has lost a dear severe and thereby merit God's bless- one, the person in the "middle years" ing. who yearns to begin a new career. The dream of Jacob's ladder can be a symbol for today: the sign of God's presence. How do we interpret the symbol? The ladder might be seen first as the Can you find instances when the potential of prayer. Just as angels words of prayer sustained you as were ascending and descending the an individual? Cite some exam- ladder, so can man join heaven to ples from recent events when earth with the words of prayer. human resilience was put to the To pray like Jacob means to pray test. Discuss how this affected in the dark without being discour- our daily lives. aged and embittered, to pray because we are saddened but not broken, Shabbat Vayetze: Genesis 28:10-32:3; Hosea 12: 13-14: 10. T WIN A HOLIDAY MAKEOVER Congregation Shaarey Zedek. 4 1( - West Bloomfield's most luxurious spa is having a make over CONTEST. 4 1( - * 4 Simply stop by anytime between 9 a.m.. and 9 p.rn. daily to have your photo taken. if you are selected for a makeover, you will receive: • Makeup Lesson and Application 4 - 1( * 4 • Eyebrow Shaping • Skin Analysis • Haircut, Styling and Color • Facial • Manicure * 4 * Before and After photos of the winner will appear in full color in the December 7th issue of Style at the Jewish. News TRUTH 4 4 * Rejuvenating Center • Spa • Salon 4 148 931-SPA9 (1119) 1130 ORCHARD LAKE ROAD * 4 * 4 A- 1- * • 6iiminafeVaricose & c_Spicier Veins • .Termar2en/ Laser Jfair ..(Remooal • Laser Jfair Loss I 5?esio.rafion • Laser cVin fRefroenalion: • ene/ c_Scars • Wrinffes / gine /'roes Conversations Irwin Groner is senior rabbi at . • cSfrelcAs Arark All Above Services for both Men and Women Pre-Holiday Special! cO% Discount 248.642.0210 30600 Telegraph • Suite 2221 Bingham Farms Call for FREE Personal Consultation *IN 11/23 2001 63