inion Editorials are posted and archived on JN Online: www.detroitjewishnews.com Teach 'Em A Lesson Dry Bones ive weeks ago, when the planes slammed into the World Trade Center and the Pentagon and crashed into the Pennsylvania countryside, the first instinct for many of us was to want to punish the people who had planned this horror. The worse the punish- ment, we said to our secret selves, the better would justice be served. Wipe out them and their compa- triots, smash their families and tribes, reduce their homes to rubble. Show the world that we can be just as absolutely violent as the terrorists. To be honest, some of that feeling remains — and we can hear it echoed in the commentators who talk about the need for an iron fist, that it is time America showed it knows how to be ruthless. What if the hard-eyed men are right? What if all "they" can understand is brutali- ty for brutality? What if an almost maniacal commitment to gruesome retaliation is the best assurance of domestic and world tranquility? What if we could teach the mujahidin not to mess with us because we can be as crazy and vicious as they. And yet, and yet .. . Somehow, that view of the world doesn't fit. Particularly for Jews — with our history of rising above adversity, of celebrating life and joy and the eternal hope for repairing the world — the idea of meeting every violence with a greater one feels wrong. It is what has stayed the hand of the Israeli government in the face of inhuman acts like the bombing of a discotheque and a pizzeria. But if not retaliation in kind, what course can we, as Jews and Americans, try to follow? One of the better side-effects of the Sept. 11 attacks is that this nation has taken an intense course in the history and present conditions of much of the Islamic world. We have learned about the extreme F fundamentalist madrassahs that brainwash boys and young men in hatred supposedly based in Koran. We have learned to pay attention to the poverty and hopelessness of tens of millions of people in Pakistan and Afghanistan, in Indonesia and in Egypt. Winning The War Without forgiving the murderers of 6,000 Americans, we have seen the conditions that can breed that suicidal madness. So when we get through with the bombs, when, as President Bush has said, "we have smoked them out of their caves," we are going to have to build better worlds for those people. That is going to mean food and medical care and roads and stable governments. But most of all, it is going to require education, to provide understanding of mathematics and his- tory and art in place of unthinking recitation of misguided credos. If we are serious about winning this "War on Terror," we will need to work for a modern-day equivalent of the Marshall Plan that may be required for several generations and that will cost ten times more than the $88 billion that went to rebuild Europe. In the short run, it might be less expensive to rebuild fortress America. But in the long run, repair- ing the world will be cheaper — and a heck of a lot more moral. Last week, Abraham Foxman, the national director of the Anti-Defamation League, described a direct link between fighting prejudice and the Sept. 11 attacks. "It didn't begin with a boxcutter," he said. "It began with words, ugly hateful words." And, he EDIT ORIAL continued, "there's only one way to fight hate. You fight it with education, you fight it with love and with words of love." It is not clear whom we Americans can love now. We don't require Israelis to love the Palestinians who most certainly don't love them. But we are going to have to try because, in the end, we really don't have a choice. It is the only lesson worth teaching "them," or us. El The Human Connection N ine years ago, I slept for several weeks of my life in a cheder atoom — a sealed room. I followed the instructions on how to apply duct tape over cracks in the win- dows, around the doorframe and over the keyhole. I carefully placed a wet rolled towel under the door so that no air could enter from the outside. I had come to Israel to study in a college overseas pro- gram. The Gulf War brought me unexpected les- sons. All night long while the SCUD missiles fell, I sat in a Jerusalem apartment, wearing a gas mask and staring into a friend's eyes. With his mask on, he looked like a sea monster, almost reptilian. I expect- ed to see fins in the place where his hands had been. It would have surprised me only a little. Reality felt that weird. The Gulf War in Israel was a time of terror. Initially, no one knew whether the incoming mis- siles would carry biological or chemical weapons. We waited in the night. The terror lifted after a week of missiles. No germs. Just dynamite. How can we, in this time of grief and Not this time at least. unknowns, stay in charge of our emotions? For me, the Gulf War was an experience In Search Of Strength in fear. I had never before, and have never since, been so frightened. It was the kind of We stay in charge of fear by clearly defining fear that you feel in your bones. The kind where we have power and where we are that makes you sweat and shiver at the same powerless. time. The kind that makes you fight for I have very little control over what the RABBI your sanity. The Gulf War was a lesson in U.S. does in Afghanistan. I can work at the TAMARA learning how to control my own emotions. local level, write letters and speak my opin- KOLTON It was a lesson in learning how to feel terror ions, but in the end, the decisions of the Community and keep breathing. It was a lesson in train- national government are beyond my reach. ing my own mind not to frighten myself. Views But I can reach out to my son and to my Because of the bombing of the World husband. I can reach my friends, the children Trade Center, I have been thinking more often than I greet throughout the day, and my neighborhood. If usual about the Gulf War and my Jerusalem apart- I focus my energy too broadly, cast my net too wide, ment. I have been revisiting what I learned as those I will inevitably feel frustrated and empty. But if I nights wore on and the sound of sirens coated the tend to my own life, to the lives of all those I meet air. Lately, I have been thinking about fear: How to on any given day, I will realize my power to have feel it and yet control it. How to be afraid and courageous at the same time. RABBI KOLTON on page 30 vs4- 10/19 2001 29